Ok, my bf and I have been going out like i dont know...3 weeks? and yeah, we hug and hold hands and i kiss him/or he kisses me on the cheek afterschool but I feel very uncomfortable if people are there (which they usually are ) I'm not a fan of the PDA...annddd...i know he wants to kiss, but I would really appreciate it if it didn't have to happen when there's people around. school is the place when we could see eachother cuz i doubt my parents want me to have a bf...im 15 lol
ummm
yeah, it's not my FIRST kiss...but it is with him. and like....i get frustrated at myself because i feel like he's not asking for much, yet im not giving that much to him. get it?
i think i am making it a big deal. and its not about being comfortable with him because even though we recently started going out, he's been my best friend for a year before that..so yeah
any suggestions?? =(
2006-11-08 14:26:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of people aren't comfortable with PDA's and that's your right. You need to be open with him about your feelings. You are VERY young...I might even say too young, but you're showing maturity by asking this question. If he's been your best friend, then he should know you well enough to respect your feelings. Tell him that you don't like getting kissy-faced when there are people around.
2006-11-08 14:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i look at it like this, you're young, you don't like to admit but its true, and maybe you dont ahve the most experience w/ guys yet, thats ok, you got plenty of time to get used to it. PDA can be uncomfortable at first just work on it. if kissing him at school is something you wanna do then work on getting more comfortable with it. if it isnt something you want to do just nicely say that you arent comfortable w/ it
2006-11-08 14:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by A Clockwork Mr. Bones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your friend, then you can tell him how you truly feel. I know it sounds hard, but the only way for him to understand it is TO TELL HIM. He will most likely understand. Set up a date with him where you can be alone. Besides, everyone learns how to kiss. The more you kiss, the closer you and your partner get and the better you get at kissing.
2006-11-08 14:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by deathneedslove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think it through and think of what you could do. Nothing on here is really going to help with this problem.
2006-11-08 14:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-08 14:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋