My husband has been saying that he wants a baby with me. Begging practically. Now that I am pregnant, he acts as if he wants nothing to do with the baby. He doesn't even care if I go and take my baby. Why?
2006-11-08 14:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men often change when their wives or girlfriends are pregnant. A baby is seen as something that has come between you. From now on all your attention will be focused on keeping yourself and the child healthy and you won't have time for him any more. Or having a child messed up his plans for the future. You need to persuade your husband this isn't the case. Having a child together is one of the best things you can do with each other in life. The future can still be planned for, just a little bit differently.
2006-11-08 14:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's hormonal! I mean men do go through changes during pregnacy too you know. Sounds like he's overdosing a bit. Don't stress out darling I am sure once he sees you giving birth to his child that'll all change. You get your revenge too because when your in labor...grab a hold of his testies and have at it girl!
2006-11-08 23:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! This is very strange. A lot of guys don't want kids, but when he says he wants them, he should be right there with you. What will he do when you are home with the child and he has no interest?
Seek a counselor
2006-11-08 22:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he realizes the responsibility involved and he isn't mature enough to handle it just be patient with him name the baby after him as best can be and include him in the pregnancy as much as possable good luck
2006-11-08 22:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who knows why men are like they are. sounds pretty typical. i think they are insane sometimes. good luck to you. dont take any crap off him.
2006-11-08 22:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he is bastard,That is why.And he does not love you.Sorry my dear.I would never do that for you.
2006-11-08 22:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird_lk 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋