Im 25 and im gonna be single for the holidays this is my first year being single im scared and heart broken will i ever find a guy eventually i can call my husband and be for once happy? holiday blues i guess how many of you are in da same boat as me weather ur divorce or just broken up
2006-11-08 14:08:47 · 21 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah it sucks
2006-11-08 14:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you post this recently also, or someone else? This isn't the first holiday blues post I've read in the past few days...
Yes, I'm single and typically have family and friends around on the holidays...it would be kewl to have a boyfriend/partner but I don't, so I don't allow that to make my holidays less fun...
You'll have as good a time as you want to have, whether you have a partner or not, at any time (not just the holidays)...you can decide to make your life wonderful and fun and happy, or spend time being blue over what you don't have...
It's up to you...
2006-11-08 14:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a LOT of people who are single over the holidays. If you can't surround yourself with family members or a friend in the same situation, why not volunteer with a nonprofit agency and do something nice for someone in need over the holidays? It's a great way to receive the reward in your heart, by giving to others - and you will be spending the holiday with someone who, otherwise, would not have someone to spend it with.
You can call PADS or any church and they will get you started volunteering so you are a pro before the holidays arrive!
And you will fall in love some day -- I guarantee it!
2006-11-08 14:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to give a holiday party for all my single and divorced friends and coworkers. We had a great time, and just enjoyed having someone else to be with. I decorated the house from top to bottom, and we put up a tree....just generally had a great time.
It's really all in what you make it. Since it's the first one, it'll be the hardest, but instead of focusing on how lonely you are, DO something. Even if you're volunteering somewhere...just get up off your sadness, and make it into what you want it to be.
2006-11-08 21:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get together with family and friends instead. You are not defined by the fact that you are without a man. Find your own happiness and you will never be lonely. You may want to volunteer at a shelter and help serve a meal or visit shut ins.
There many more things in life worse than being alone....
2006-11-08 14:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 16:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that.. but being single doesn't have to be a bad thing. Get busy, do things that you like to avoid that feeling of "loneliness"..just how they say money doesnt buy happiness that goes as well for a partner..you have to be self-happy..and you can only do that when you "find yourself" find out what you like what you dislike...do what you like...and that will lead to happiness..keep your hopes up, though...dont get depressed because that doesnt solve anything and avoid rushing into a relationship too fast.
2006-11-08 14:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by nativebeauty22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does suck not having someone, especially as it gets so close to the holidays. I am single without someone too, & yes i hate it. Just try to think of something you like to do. I watch sports or movies. Good luck. I wish that I had a woman that I could call my wife. But.....
2006-11-08 14:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh.. I'm windowed.. First christmas without him.. So it's going to be tough but I still have part of him in my 2 daughters.. They are both under the age of 3 so generally I have no time to think about the fact that I am alone.. So for me it shouldn't be too bad.. I hope you find someone new soon..
2006-11-08 14:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what u r going thru ive dune it 4 2years now and it ait nice i went last xmas 2 my nices apt and my nefue showed up with his girl so i just stayed long enough 2 get the gifts open a left
but if u live in cambridge or neer 2 me ill keep u compony no peroblem hugs kenneth
2006-11-08 14:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by kenneth_mcdonough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. I'm in the same situation except for the this is the first year part.
2006-11-08 14:14:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋