Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I'm a little scared of telling them about it because I don't know what they'll think. They're wondering why I draw X's on my hands, and I'm just really nervous about telling them. I've been StraightEdge since Sept. 21st... and I really want them to know, but I don't know how to say it. How can I without blowing it out of proportion or making it seem too small?
(I did not choose the vegan/vegetarian part because I am unable to. And if you don't know what it is, look it up on Wikipedia)

2006-11-07 11:27:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the first time u had sex and what u did throughout it

2006-11-07 11:27:24 · 1 answers · asked by dragonboy02nh 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother married my father when she was 17 and gave birth to me, she never really loved me, only my father did. But my father died when I was 4, ever since then all my mother has done was scold me and starve me. I have a disease that makes me a little more fat than girls my age, and she's trying to make me look like a model like she does. when I can't she won't listen to me and she says I'm just lazy and a good for nothing weight on her shoulders! What do I do! I can't bear it anymore!

2006-11-07 11:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by GoreJess 1 in Family

She doesn't do anything but sit on her butt. She yells at the boy all the time. he's only two. don't my husband and I deserve privacy? I can't seem to put my son out. But if he wants to see his son, shoud she have to come and stay with us. this drives my husband and I crazy.

2006-11-07 11:26:49 · 26 answers · asked by Cathy H 1 in Family

My wife will not wear lingerie for anything. We have not had sex for over 7 months, and one day she told me that Lingerie was for whores? I couldn't belive it...She even told my mother......We are in Christian Counseling right now because she has Generalized Anxiety disorder, She also has a vaginal tear that she claims is irrepairable, and she is sexually dead. She wan'ts me to want her, but sex with her only frustrates me. No oral sex....that's a sin also.....What do you think?

2006-11-07 11:26:22 · 29 answers · asked by ugadawg30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating for a month now. He expressed exclusivity. He even referred to me as his girlfriend. He said he told his friends about me. And yet...one time he got a call from someone and told the caller "I'm just chillin out here at (place) with my FRIEND, Elise". Should I feel bad?

2006-11-07 11:25:48 · 23 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:25:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

of sitting on a guy's face that you liked?

2006-11-07 11:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Singles & Dating

im having a really hard time dealing with a specific situation. Im still very much in love with an ex b/f he was my first love and the one who took my virginity. Well now him and another mutual friend of mine are having a baby they dated about 6 months ago but now they are facing the situation together as to raising this child together. Im hurting alot i did congratulate both of them and made it known i was here as a friend and that i support them part of me does. but part of me misses him. We used to talk about starting a family of our own and getting married it is painful to see him doing it with someone else. Idk if they will get married or what will happen i guess time will only tell. I want to get past all this and just be happy for them and be a part of their lives. I want to find love for myself again i have had bad luck with guys since him. I just want to find someone who wants to be with me and loves me for who iam and vice versa. what should i do? please help.

2006-11-07 11:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Friends

2006-11-07 11:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by j_oD-i 2 in Singles & Dating

In 6th grade, he threw crumbled papers at my head. I was really mad. But now I'm in 8th grade but I have accents. I read this paper in class, and I couldn't pronounce a stupid name of a person. Everyone laughed at me. Even the teacher did. I was so embarassed.
I'm a Korean gurl. Is he making fun of me and stuff just because I'm Korean?There are no other Korean gurls in our school. There are more kids in my class who have accents, so why is he picking on me?He also stares at me.I'm so pissed off.I hate him.Why is he doing this??and when we're reading out loud in class, he always calls on me.I think he is trying to embarass me in front of the whole class because I have accents.People say my accents aren't that bad...He was also in my summer school.
He made fun of me in my summer school.I admit that I'm weird and shy and everything but why does he have to make fun of me? I hate him. He's smarter than me.He's in advanced math, and I'm not. But I still get all A's! why is he doing this?

2006-11-07 11:22:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25 but find myself attracted to girls that are approx. 16-18. I do not act on these attractions, but it just feels wrong. What do you think?

2006-11-07 11:21:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father passed away, so my great uncle will be giving me away. I really like the idea of the groom/mother dance and the bride/father (well, uncle) dance, but I can't find a good song to dance with my uncle. All I'm finding refer to fathers and daughters...any ideas?

2006-11-07 11:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy 3 in Weddings

Well , you see there's this guy i have a big thing for , coincedentally i actually saved his life , I've known him for 7 years and grew up with him , I need to know if he feels the same way , we always make eachother laugh and talk constantly , ihes always staring at me ( i.e. my chest im large , very large breasted ) but sometimes he actually looks into my eyes, and he one of the only guys who do , he has a girlfriend but his girlfriend wouldn't take care of him she asked me too , they were about to break up , but they didnt because she came crying to him after she cheated , we're together alot and he always does stuff for me , unecpectedly :)
sorry i dragged on but , do you think he has feelings for me??

xxxo Love , Jess

2006-11-07 11:20:30 · 5 answers · asked by babyxxplease91 1 in Singles & Dating

My 6-year old brother is jealous. Jealous of my baby brother getting all the tension and to get him back he slaps, punch, and sit on him!!! Sometimes, he even tries to slam my baby brothers head on the wall (TRIED BUT WE ALWAY GOT HIM ON THOSE TIMES). My 6-year brother still gets tension but for some reason he wants most of it...WHY? Please help?!? I don't want my baby brother mental!!!!

2006-11-07 11:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by adopted311 2 in Family

OK MY B/F IS VERRY SICK AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HIM WHEN HE BROUGHT ME TO SCHOLL WE BEARLY TALKED ON OUR WAY HERE AND HE CALLED HIS BOSS (BROTHER IN LAW) TO TELL HIM HE WAS NOT GONNA GO TO WORK AND HE GOT ALL BUTTTTT HURT AND HE GOT EVEN MORE MAD AND I DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HIM WHAT CAN I SAY TO HIM TO MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER AND HE DOSE LOOK SICK OMG I FEEL SO SAD FOR HIM I DONT WANT HIM TOGET IN TROUBLE AT WORK HELP PLEASE

2006-11-07 11:19:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can a marriage survive all these differences, or it will always be the same--meaning one person will always feel less important?
I know that Love usually wins it all-but i really want to know what would be the key solution for making the very often fights fade away, because i begin to fear that love will fade away soon.

2006-11-07 11:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by Senka M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is a very politically active guy. He does fund raisers to raise money for local and national races. This fact in itself doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that sometimes I feel like I take second place to all this. Tonight, for instance, at the time he normally comes to go to dinner with me, he shows up and announces that there's a phone bank nearby that he's going to help with. If he had warned me ahead of time, that would be different, but he didn't. I'm frustrated, and I don't know how to tell him how I feel. I love him so much, and breaking up isn't what I want to do. I just feel like sometimes I play second fiddle to his love of political activism. How do I tell him how I feel? How do I tell him that he doesn't have to do every fund raiser that pops up?

2006-11-07 11:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2 in Singles & Dating

someone hit me with a soccer ball and i went after him and called him some bad words and i am scared that he is going to try to call my mom and have his mom talk to mine.what should i do.he hit me first and then i got made and i can't control my anger when i am mad.so HELP
AND HE DID HIT ME FIRST AND THREE MORE TIMES TO ADD AND HARD REALLY HARD AND ALMOST MADE ME DROP MY FONE THAT I BOUGH ONE DAY AGO

2006-11-07 11:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

When you like someone whos a gang banger drug user and he's never heard the word no but u dont care and still want them

2006-11-07 11:18:51 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy/Smart in LA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:18:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I never went out with him but was so obsessed with him. Now I've moved on and am actually happy we will never be together. He is too immature and changed too much. So why am I still hurt when he pays the kind of attention to other girls that he used to give to me? How can I stop it? This really doesn't make much sense because I am over him.

2006-11-07 11:16:04 · 3 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay the good news is, we both have the day off. The bad news is, since we're trying to save money, our budget for this is almost non-existant.

Any good ideas for what to do or give? (besided being intimate - got that one figured out - thanks).

2006-11-07 11:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by daisyk 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend and i think he likes me but I am not sure. Whenever we talk he looks deep into my eyes and smiles for a long time. He says i can call him anytime of the night. I think he is flirting but I am not sure. What do you do?

2006-11-07 11:15:38 · 10 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee' and i have been together for 4 years and had the most amazing sex on a daily basis until recently, it slowed to almost a halt. I understand there is an age difference, he's 40 and I am 28. Everytime I mention the subject he gets moody. Can anyone help.

2006-11-07 11:14:47 · 27 answers · asked by suckowsgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i have a friend and hes 14 and he lost his virginity over the weekend to a girl or girls that he hardly knows. So as i was talking to him over IM last week he told me that his mom was going away for 3 days and letting him stay home and he planned on having 3 of his friends over along with 4 girls. I dont even think that he knew them very well but he just told me that they were "hott" and that he and his friends were going to "do it" with them. I kept telling him that he shouldn't do it but he did anyway.So basically my question is what should i do now?or what should he do? im just hoping that he didnt get anyone pregnant.

2006-11-07 11:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by Questions ^_^ 3 in Singles & Dating

it all started yesturday at the after school i go to and my friend showed me a piece of paper. It said that Tanieda has aher first boyfriend. so today i told my two best friends and they told her. she got really angry at me i told every one else instead of her. So i dont know if it is not true . i feel gulity. what should i do?

2006-11-07 11:13:53 · 1 answers · asked by ♥ NïJâ♥ 3 in Friends

my daughters college teacher knows I'm currently single and has invited me to a weekend in Vegas...should I go? If I show her a really good time, will this effect my daughters grade?

2006-11-07 11:13:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We last spoke two months ago. At that time she said don't ever call. Well, we talked for 45 minutes today. We talked about what caused the break up. I asked her if she still thinks about me and she said yes. I told her that I still loved her and that I cared. She did not return the same response, but she listened. She did say that I hurt her alot and that she want someone who would treat her right. I told that I was the guy, she laughed. I asked her out for her birthday and she said, why? I told her that I wanted to spend a nice evening with her, that' all. She said, honestly, I don't know if I want to, but I will think about it. When I brought up some memories she laughed and seemed to forget that she did not want anything to do with me. Do I have a chance.

2006-11-07 11:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

we do everything together go out to the movie hangout laugh with friends and I hangout with her friends we are almost inseparable. Whenever I needed her she were always be there for me. I know this might sound crazy but sometimes she would dress me that my dad was around and that doesn't bother her although you think it would. She does more with me and does more than my parents will do. the other night I was at her apartment like a normally do every once in a while spending the night there and she asked me what you want to go swimming together at first I was shot I didn't know what to say so I said yes. So she rented out the poor area for night and I was never is because I didn't have my swimsuit with me and she said don't worry about it you can just warming your underwear. So we went down their she close on the doors and she was in her bikini which she never wear around me and we went swimming. After a while she turned to me she took everything off. What should Ido next time?

2006-11-07 11:12:55 · 7 answers · asked by jason b 1 in Family