im having a really hard time dealing with a specific situation. Im still very much in love with an ex b/f he was my first love and the one who took my virginity. Well now him and another mutual friend of mine are having a baby they dated about 6 months ago but now they are facing the situation together as to raising this child together. Im hurting alot i did congratulate both of them and made it known i was here as a friend and that i support them part of me does. but part of me misses him. We used to talk about starting a family of our own and getting married it is painful to see him doing it with someone else. Idk if they will get married or what will happen i guess time will only tell. I want to get past all this and just be happy for them and be a part of their lives. I want to find love for myself again i have had bad luck with guys since him. I just want to find someone who wants to be with me and loves me for who iam and vice versa. what should i do? please help.
2006-11-07 11:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont look too hard for love --- go out do different things --- i dont mean clubbing and bars --- explore where you live --- she what that has to offer --- and you may find yourself involved with the person you dreamed of
2006-11-07 11:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been down a similar road. I fell in love with an older man. He was my first love to. But he broke my heart, he cheated on me. One day I saw him with his new girl friend, it tore my insides out. I cried about it for awhile. But then I realized, that I am a good person, and I deserve someone who will love me for me. Somone who will never break my heart the way this man did. It took two years of pain and heartache, but I found love again. My husband is so good to me. He makes me feel loved, and even just his touch makes me melt all over again and again. Don't ever feel that you will not find love again. Yes, you will never forget the first kiss, the first time your heart was moved by your first love. The feelings you felt, what you did together. But in time it will be only a memory, and it won't hurt anymore. Your ex is going to be a father now. His child needs him now. Don't take that away from an innocent child, who doesn't know any better. Find a man, who you can have your own family with some day. Maybe a better one. Being a close friend of this couple may only hurt you, maybe lessen your visits to them. At least until you get stronger, and get passed this. I really hope you can.
2006-11-07 11:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do!!
first of all every one had this delima with their first love
u need some one who wants to be wit u and luvs u for who u r
and all u r doing deeply in ur mind is craving that this person
is ur first love
as he is the first guy u know too much meaningful
things about love
and i think u just stand by their side and told them u support them
as u got a good heart
but a bigger part of u is to show this guy u r mature enough for responsibilty and notice how good u r
so he may come back
i wont say hey friend this ship had sailed
but he already got a baby
if he is good enough he will do anything to keep that going
and be there for his kid
and about u
i think u should step away
u shouldnt get involved and seeing his love being channeled to some one else
it will hurt you alot
back off
calm down
and remind ur self
that god have other plans for u
and stop craving for that guy
if he wants u
he will be urs no matter what
stop hurting ur self by being around them that much
and really i wish u best of luck
and by the way
if some one really loves u
u wont notice
because u only see this guy
2006-11-07 11:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that you have strong feelings for this guy but he has another woman now and does not have feelings for you which makes it very hard for you. Move on, honey. Just move on and forget this guy and his new life. Maybe you could join a church organization or some clubs out there where you could meet a nice man who would like you. Forget this one and move on. Try to be strong and mature and forget this dude. Move on and find someone who will love you unconditionally. Good Luck
2006-11-07 11:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll i bypass swimming very in lots of cases with no blouse and that i've got a lot exciting yet when I went to mexico and replaced into swimming there and each guy had there blouse on so I left mine on as we'll and that i think of it began working against my nipple and now it's burning warm regardless of if it basically lasted approximately 3 days so this could of befell
2016-10-15 12:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first i want to say i'm sorry for your situation.
and it seems like your umcomfortable with him being with someone else, am i correct? Try talking to him, but don't say "I want to get back together with you because you and I were MADE for each other" or something because then he'll think about the girl he's with right now. Just see ifyou can talk to him, FRIEND-TO-FRIEND.
Try it...you never know. :]
2006-11-07 11:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do still love him fight for him and tell him your going to fight for him never go down without a fight. It don't matter if he has a child with someone else if he don't love her the child wont help that and it will never work for them.So don't give up yet and tell him you love him and your not giving up on him. Who knows he might feel the same way and just don't know what to do.
2006-11-07 11:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
2006-11-07 11:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do is move on, don't go looking for love let it find you.
2006-11-07 11:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about this cuz u can't get into a serious relationship until ur totally over this one. and other than that, i say good luck!
2006-11-07 11:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋