Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I've been married 7 years. Every Thanksgiving its the same thing. My family stuff is at 12pm and always has been. Every year, we have rushed through my family stuff to go across town to his grandma's. It never fails -my husband's sister pitches a fit (she is 20) to have the family there at a certain time. The past 3 or 4 years, when we get there, no one is even boiling water. My husband, me and our kids are the only ones there. His sister, who made all these plans isn't even there. We make an effort to get there at the time they insist we get there, and its like they don't even remember we have plans! Last year I was asked the day before to cook the dressing. Its crappy that my sister in law doesn't even go help her grandma get the food going. So is it bitchy to send an email to everyone saying that we aren't rushing through my family stuff this year? I also said AGAIN that if I need to cook something, let me know early. So, what to do now?

2006-11-07 11:44:49 · 26 answers · asked by MomOfThreeBoys 3 in Family

2006-11-07 11:44:43 · 7 answers · asked by Weird grils love bad boys 1 in Family

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2006-11-07 11:43:52 · 1 answers · asked by oldkin 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl who likes me (she told me I was cute) but I want to make her jealous by playing hard to get. Is this a good idea?

2006-11-07 11:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by castingcrowns fan 2 in Singles & Dating

Please Answer!! Guys do you find it romantic when...?
A girl who is everything out ever wanted and more(you two are going out) falls asleep in your arms?? She's not fat jus ta 5'1 and weighs 90lbs. She doesn't look skinny, she looks normal.Would you like this on a normal day??Let's say it was cuz it was a yr ago that she was molested and didn't feel safe with any1 but you. She just wants to know some1 cares 4 her. Why or why not??
Thanx!!
Would you have no problem falling asleep with your arms around her??
Would you mind or enjoy it??
would you ever abuse it?? BY:
a. slip a feel
b. try to get her to have sex with you

Ladies why do we love this so much??(I becuz of my past)
Also does it make you feel good to "protect" us from our fears?? Can you really be sweet and take sometime to not want sex or would you ruin it??
Which do you think is better this or sex??

2006-11-07 11:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a younger guy with a few extra pounds and some muscle to compensate. I have a muscular chest, arms and legs and a few extra pounds in the gut. I have been thinking about what to do when it comes to attracting women and I was wondering if women out there really like muscular men with no body fat, a few extra pounds, or something completely different.
Do more mature women also like younger men? i have only had luck with older women so i was just wondering. I am puddy in your hands. Teach me!

2006-11-07 11:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by MinusLinus 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 35 yrs old and attracted to older men. I think Clint Eastwood is great, but that's because I had a crush on him since I was a little girl. There are others....Am I sick or is this normal? By the way, I'm married to a man who I love very much and have 3 kids with him and he's only 6 yrs older that me. But I'm still attracted to older men.

2006-11-07 11:42:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm so depressed. i lost my best friend, i have nothing to do on the weekends, i broke my leg and i'm in a wheelchair, i failed the 8th grade so i'm stuck in it again. my only distraction for my bad life is my pet cow bernice, and she died tonight. HELP! i dont want to kill myself! :'( i'm about to become suicidal and its nothing meds can fix. please help me. suggestions as to what to do with myself?

2006-11-07 11:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by Yuggy 2 in Friends

2006-11-07 11:41:19 · 21 answers · asked by Evan C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:40:04 · 32 answers · asked by smithsakina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 11:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

I've like a guy who is white, i'm black and I was wondering if he would mostly like be interested in me. Another question, what do you truely think about interracial relationships and would you consider dating someone out of your race? If you have been or if you are in a interracial relationship at the momment can you tell me the pros and cons that comes with being with someone outside your race?

2006-11-07 11:38:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:38:38 · 12 answers · asked by jor 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 years old. i like this girl in my english. i'll talk to her once in a while but she know that i like her. one day before lunch my friend walked up to me and told me that she liked me and then later that day one of her friends walked up and told me that she was talking about me. the next day i walked up to her and asked her if she liked me and she said NO. i asked her if she wanted to hang out on the weekend but she said no that she was punished i also asked her phone number and she told me her parents took it away. i told one kid and that kid went on to tell everyone that i liked her. her friend sent me an email on myspace telling me that she was talking about but that she hates how some kids are all over her about this. she told me to don't give her any attention because then she is going to miss all the attention i was giving her and she was going to want me. i didnt want to do that because then she would think i lost interest in her. like sometimes she would walk up to me in the hallway and tell me to get out of her way but she would smile. another time we were messing with laptops in my english and she called me over to help her, and then there was another time that she went to go get something out of her bookbag and when she turned around i waved at her and smiled and she smiled right back. everyone told me to make a move and talk to her but everytime i would some kids would start laughing and looking at me when im bout to talk to her and that got me distracted. i hear that she is a little hoe but at first i didnt want to believe it but a couple of days ago i saw her all over some other guy. i dont know what i should do. i've had been ignoring her for 2 days as well as she has been ignoring me. but 4 days ago i ignored her but she came up behind me and pushed me but she started 2 smile and then b4 class started she came up next to me and started 2 look at my psp and 2day she says hi 2 me and tells me she can beat me in any video game and she was smiling and then y i walked by her and tapped her on her shoulder and she started to tickle me and then when i tried doing it on her she was squirming around and smiling. then yesterday i was sitting down and one friends starts calling her a nasty girl he was just playing around and then he shoved her and she said dont touch me and then i pushed her and she pushed me back. then she told me she saw my myspace pics and she was smiling. she also grabbed my brush from my pocket and started playing around with it and then put it back.she also asked me for my phone and then started to spin it around. idk then when we were in the pep rally i tap her on her shoulder and she looks at me but with a sad, mad expression but yet she had a smile. i dont not know what to do.

PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 11:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:35:23 · 13 answers · asked by Weird grils love bad boys 1 in Friends

2006-11-07 11:34:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like some completely hillarious stories, and lots of 'em!!!!!! I think the funniest and most embarasing thing was when we were shopping for a seafood dinner and bought a lobster. We were looking for creamy alfredo sauce and my three yr. old yells out "MY MOMMY GOTS CRABS AND SHE NEEDS SOME CREAM!"
Nobody knew he was talking about lobsters. I was sooooo embarest!!!
Give me lots and lots of funny stories please. I am almost eight months pregnant and I am extremely hormonal and I just really want to laugh my a*s of right now!!!!

PLEASE MAKE ME LAUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 11:33:58 · 5 answers · asked by baby oh's 3 in Family

getting tickled by a friend or getting tickled by a bf/gf?

2006-11-07 11:33:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:33:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

He has been over to my aunts house(in rockford,IL im in springfield,IL) and he has been over to their house and he always texts me and asks me to get online so me and him can talk and he tells me in cool and stuff like that.. Does that mean he likes me?

2006-11-07 11:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by ~Katie~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:33:16 · 21 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad isnt the nicest person.he smokes,and lives in mississippi.(he only works there)when he is home he dosent do anything but sleep,fuss and when he is in a good mood he takes us somewhere.how can i get him 2 spend more tine wit us?does he really want 2 do anything wit us.is he ashamed of how we act and live?does he really mean the actions he presents.or is it because he isn't home except 2 days a week and dosent know how 2 show how really cares because he isn't used 2 our normal routine?help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! be nice and anwser the way u think i would or have answered ur questions.10 points if u answer the way i'd like.

2006-11-07 11:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2 in Family

And i gave him mine, we never called each other.Today that i saw him, I noticed he was entering a room , I was entering first and when i came out I noticed he was waiting then he entered. WHY ?? he's so stupid ! I was confused,sad,and of course hurt.
why did he do that ? we just said hi, i noticed he didn't make eye contact.What's wrong ? I need your MOST sincere opinion please ! I'm very confused, i noticed the same with another guy too. Why would men do this ?

2006-11-07 11:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I sorta like one of my friends but there was this guy in one of my classes who has been acting weird. When i looked out the window i noticed Guy #2 was staring at me. In the begining of the year he got this note with his name and hearts over it and he thought i wrote it. I heard his friend say out of no where behind me say " Go ask her out!" And today they were looking at me and whispering to each other. My friend and i got into a fight becuase he acted like a jerk to my other friend but i sorta still have feelings. WHAT DO I DO!!

2006-11-07 11:31:40 · 5 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this might sound kinda childish, but here goes. I was talking to my friend and we got on the subject of death (we ar very morbid). I said "you know, if i died right now, no one in this room would give a ****." Then a girl in my class, who I know but we've never even talked to in our lives, says "no i'd be very upset." She said it in a sort of whining voice so i could tell it wasn't sarcasm. I was saved the embarassment of answering because another kid started up a long conversation with her. Should i think it was just a friendly remark or what? I don't want to ask her out with just that as basis for assuming she likes me. We're both in three honors classes just in case that has any impact. Help please!

2006-11-07 11:31:13 · 16 answers · asked by Gremple 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking to give a gift of some sort to a person who is having a really busy time, and I just want to help make time more pleasant.
any good ideas?

2006-11-07 11:29:34 · 6 answers · asked by rosvain 2 in Singles & Dating

im 12 and in 7th grade. im about 5'4", good size 'you knows', a lot of guys crush on me. ive gone out with a high schooler, but it didnt work out. ive had a couple random 8th graders come up to me and ask me out. at a hockey game, a random kid came and started, like, dirty dancing. he was probably 15. i look like im bout 14(ish). should i just go out with them???

2006-11-07 11:29:11 · 25 answers · asked by hockeyangelofdeath 2 in Singles & Dating

hes a s8ter boi and im like the girly girl... wat do sk8ter bois like?

2006-11-07 11:28:19 · 3 answers · asked by confused_loved_hated 1 in Singles & Dating