2006-11-07 11:44:43 · 7 answers · asked by Weird grils love bad boys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it would help to know why but at this point i would say screw'em !
2006-11-07 11:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by howie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't deal with hate. Hate is annihilated by love and understanding. Did your family hate you when you were born? No. So what has changed over time? find out what it is that your family is targeting with there hate, and change it. They probably do not hate you, but rather what you are doing in life. so take a good hard look at yourself and see if there aren't a few things out of whack right now that need to be changed to a better condition, such as relationships or how yo live and your present attitudes you possess, etc.
2006-11-07 20:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done something to warrant their anger, then you must face up to it and apologize. A family doesn't hate you... you are probably confusing anger and disappointment with hate.
You need to talk to each one of them and find out what they are thinking... what is bugging them about your behaviour. then you have to try to make some changes..if there is something else going on between your parents then you need to talk to aunts or uncles for suggestions on how to help yourself...
I feel there is an underlying story here that you have not shared with us.... Are you being rebellious and breaking the rules at home????You will have to give us more info so that we can steer you in the right direction.
2006-11-07 20:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your own family hates you? Really? Hate? Or are they frustrated and annoyed with you and some of your choices?
Keep trying, don't lower yourself to their level, stay focused on being a good person...it will work itself out or not.
2006-11-07 20:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some family's will never clique like you want them to. Infact.. if it gets too bad.. you can always start over.. rethar then being miserable.
2006-11-07 20:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by 140friendmo23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like your not afraid i have a mean stepmother so i know how you feel.
2006-11-07 19:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Noelle(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up. try and work it out. i guess, good luck
2006-11-07 19:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋