2006-11-07 11:40:04 · 32 answers · asked by smithsakina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when you get married
2006-11-07 11:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are both comofortable about it do it. Make sure each knows their responsiblities. Don't listen to the people saying that it won't work out or that studies show that if you move in together it won't last as long. According to the census burea only 49% of US households are married couples (big change from the past) so go for it!
2006-11-07 11:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by coymelancon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. If you are smart and independent do not do this. As someone said milkman has the cow and the milk. You are not to be used for milking. You have a long life and don't waste it in a matter of months. Let him wait and starve and bed for you and after you get married you are legally eligible to move in.
If you move in now you are doing this to a) Please him or b) you are desperate and have no other choices. THINK OF YOUR FUTURE. Good luck
2006-11-07 11:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by US 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bad idea to live with a man u r not married to for many reasons but the main one being why buy the cow when u get the milk and everything else for free. I think some experinences should be left for marriage.
2006-11-07 11:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both are at least 25, have steady jobs with a future, this should take about a year and then you can move in together after the wedding!!
2006-11-07 11:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When either one of you is capable of handling ALL of the household bills if the other one should up and move out. If neither one of you is prepared to pay ALL the rent and incoming bills then don't move in together.
2006-11-07 13:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both comfortable with. There's no "magical" time frame, it just feels "right", or it doesn't. (I moved in with my b/f after about 3 months, and we got married just over a year later.)
2006-11-07 11:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't move in together and the relationship will last a lot longer. it is inevitable that one or both of u will take the other for granted after u move in together. so if it works at this moment leave it alone
2006-11-07 11:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... i honestly would wait until marriage... because if you move in now then wats left when you guys get married...(if!). but if you really want to... i'd say at least about a year or two.... meet the parents first of course!
2006-11-07 11:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by barbiedoll0309 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until his name changes from "boyfriend" to husband. Seriously. It is a law that shacking fosters marital problems and relationship issues for those not marrying. God don't like it either.
2006-11-07 13:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until after the wedding.
2006-11-07 11:41:55 · answer #11 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋