Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

even if there were good boys, can u like one who was daring and romantic, one whom people think is an outlaw?

2006-11-07 12:10:47 · 12 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I decided to get a divorce and now I decided I want to stay married. My husband claims he wants to be with me, but that he wants a legal seperation (to protect himself financially). He says that it is moving towards being married. I think it is taking a step back. I am tired of being in limbo. What would you do???

2006-11-07 12:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex bf's sister was talking to me today about how she is so upset about her brother and his actions. We have 2 kids together and i left him after 9 years due to abuse. I told her that my feelings on the subject are that he has been enabled for so long that he has decided that he deserves to have people bend over backward and do everything for him. He is a pathological liar, and although his sister has done so much for him (paid his rent and bills when he was out of work, not to mention untold hours of emotional support) he continues to badmouth her to everyone he comes into contact with, me right to her face, to her husband. Nobody holds him accountable for his actions, so he continually gets away with all of this. She said she feels as though she wants to call him and tell him not to talk to her anymore until he can come up with a sincere apology, but it doesn;t feel like the Christian thing to do. I asked her if continuing to enable him to the point of almost disabling him...

2006-11-07 12:09:50 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left me to go back to his country last year and divorced me without me even knowing six months later...before all that he called me names, hung up on me, etc....i was really immature in the marriage while he was here...it just all ended bad...anyway...i keep picking these men that either treat me like crap or are insanely jealous, or not self-sufficient...they just have some sort of flaw...the last guy i was sort of dating just stopped talking to me and blocked me from his messenger bc he was mad i wouldnt buy him a birthday gift cause i dont have money...i got upset and ended up calling my ex-husband...he calls me sometimes himself and tells me how he misses me, etc., but he cant come back bc of his family...i asked him for money this time...he made a big deal out of it and just made me feel like **** and i ended up apologizing for all the bad things ive ever done...in the end he apologized by a text message...why do i keep doing this and how can i break the cycle?

2006-11-07 12:09:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am unable to wethr by gal friend is virgin or not,plx help me out?

2006-11-07 12:09:26 · 9 answers · asked by nalin k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a housewife, my husband and I have marriage agreement: if we divorce, he does not need pay for me anything; but he also has supported me for my green card until I work enough for 10 years or become a citizen. So if I divorce, will I get pay?

2006-11-07 12:09:13 · 2 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has nightmares of me cheeting on him and catching me or me confessing on cheeting on him.

2006-11-07 12:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Weddings

My best friend of 5 years just moved to florida and i miss her a whole lot and the reason they left is because her parents are getting back together! any sugggestions on how to feel better about it? please help me!

2006-11-07 12:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 in Friends

welll wat if you were going out with this guy that really really loves you and you dont really seem like it but you do .?

2006-11-07 12:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by ♥FISH♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, how did you do it?

2006-11-07 12:07:04 · 5 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy a lot but my mom hates him and my friends think he is weird mean and gay but we like each other but r scared to go out because of that what should I do

2006-11-07 12:06:26 · 6 answers · asked by fashion freak 1 in Singles & Dating

What is good staying power for a man?
Is it that important?

2006-11-07 12:06:23 · 12 answers · asked by weezel660 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 12:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 12:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Queen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father doesnt punish us no matter what. i need to think of a way to get revenge.

2006-11-07 12:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by mz.keefer525 2 in Family

the girl i like knows i love her more than anything else in the world and shes the only thing that makes me happy. she said she would go with me cause she likes me to and that i would make the best bf and she knows ill treat her right. the problem is that she loves this other guy she met over the internet and she loves him the same as i love her. shes even finishing highschool a year early to move with him far away. the guy does drugs (she told me herself) but she still loves him. i dont want her to leave but i want her to be happy and she said that hes the only thing she has to look foreward to in her life. i keep trying to convince her not to go but she doesent listen to me. i really cant live without her and id do anything to make her stay.

2006-11-07 12:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by inuyasha00012 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 12:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met my girlfriend on the internet. I packed up and moved 2000 miles to be with her. We've been together for one and 1/2 years. Firstly, we are an interacial couple- she's indian, I'm white. Currently, I am 25, and going to college. In the last year and a half, we have talked more about the status of our relationship than actually having a relationship. She's always getting upset, re-evaluating who said what, I leave, she will follow me. When I get mad and want to be left alone, she stands there for hours on end to try and "resolve" whatever issue she has created about our relationship. Hours of fighting, we end arguing more about technicalities than issues. We say we love each other, have co-signed for large student loans with each other, have pre-maturley planned out our kids future names (if we were to have any). She thinks I am going to leave her and accuses me all the time. However, BECAUSE she ALWAYS talks about how I'm going to leave her, that makes me want to leave.

2006-11-07 12:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Revelation 2 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex boyfriend and i kissed him a couple of times . I miss him a lot but he started to mess with this other girl because of her booty. Now his friend (Daron) hooked me up with his cousin(michael). i haven't seen him just talked to him. this might sound like a weird situation but can you pretty please give me any solutions?

2006-11-07 12:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well... I met dis guy in the streets. I thought he was hot and he thought i was hot, as well. We started to hook-up alot. But I just found out dat he is a gang member. But I really like dat guy dat i been seeing. Should I go out wit a gangsta?

2006-11-07 12:02:11 · 16 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

This special friend is very shy around me and i around her. I want to kiss her on the cheek the next time i say good bye.

2006-11-07 12:01:59 · 22 answers · asked by harvey r 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 12:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My just told the girl that i like i like her.... her reaction was "Really?". Does that mean she likes me? If you are a girl, would you've said that?

2006-11-07 12:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 12:00:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have 2 daughters (4 and 1). He works a 40 hr job and and I work 40hrs plus another 20 at Wal-Mart. I don't get any help around the house... NONE. I find out he feeds the the girls practiclly nothing when I'm at my sec. job. (one night it was just noodles) He spends alot of money... some on gambleing. (we are 2mo. behind on house) I feel like I'm doing it on my own now... I love him very much but I'm not sure if I'm still IN love with him. I get more help from my parents than I do from him. My oldest daughter and I are in a dance class one night a week and he can't even stay home with the youngest. He goes fishing or bowling!!! GRRRRRR... I'm so frustrated! I try to tell him what I am feeling... things change for about 3mo then we are back at square one!!

2006-11-07 12:00:19 · 24 answers · asked by Cy Aviox 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy who I think likes me, though he hasn't said it. But he asked for my phone number and since we were in a public place (dance studio) and I didn't know how to say no, I gave it to him. I'll see this guy probably twice a week, I don't have a choice. But I don't want to date him or be friends with him. What do I do?

2006-11-07 11:59:27 · 14 answers · asked by twice1203 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 11:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do I get rid of a huge hicky on my neck and tequila on my breath??? QUICK!! MY PARENTS ARE COMING HOME!!!

2006-11-07 11:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In high school why do you feel like no one pays attention to you or loves you. I mean guys talk to me for 5 secs and that but why not ask me out they do love me but.....

2006-11-07 11:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

should i tell my mom that i don't wanna live with my realtive because he is a perverted pedophile who makes friends with my lady friends because he is sick?

should i tell her that she is stupid for beleiving my brothers lies and bulls-hit. and that she is wrong for expecting everything from me while she is letting him get away with whatever he wants?

should i tell her that i don't wanna be around them because they are lazy and irresponsible? and that i don't wanna be around that.

is it wrong to want to be all that you can be? is it wrong to want these things? is it wrong to want to break out of your situation and improve it? is it wrong to not wanna settle like they do?

2006-11-07 11:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by Dudikof 2 in Family