If so, how did you do it?
2006-11-07 12:07:04 · 5 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL YES I HAVE....YOU JUST HAVE TO PUSH ALL THE HURT TO THE SIDE AND CONCENTRATE ON YOUR SELF AND HEALING YOUR SELF...AND THAT CAN BE A LONG PROCESS....BUT YOU NEED TO LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE ANOTHER....I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE HEARD THAT BEFORE BUT IT IS TRUE...AND THE OTHER THING IS TO NEVER BLAME YOUR SELF FOR ANY THING AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH....JUST KEEP BUSY AND TRY NOT THINK ABOUT WHAT HAS HAPPENED......FIND HOBBY'S TO GET IN TO AND JUST TRY TO STAY BUSY...EVENTUALLY IT WILL BE EASIER BY THE DAY AND BY ONE NIGHT YOU WILL BE READY TO GO BAKU OUT ON THE FIELD AND PLAY BALL ONCE AGAIN....HOPE ALL IS WELL FOR YOU....KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH.....
2006-11-07 12:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All divorces are wanted by at least one side of the marriage. You are not going to have true happiness in an unhappy marriage, so the divorce is a necessary, if sad, step.
2006-11-07 12:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by eli_star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not want to stay with a person that does not love you as much as you love that person, you need give and take at the same time.
My advise for you is to move on if the person stops loving, you will find that right person that loves you some day. It is not easy to move on and be alone again, but it's wasting your life to be with the wrong person.
Good Luck
2006-11-07 12:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by southbaybride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did took me 9 years but my husband now is the greatest thing that ever happend to me. I took my time and gave up on looking. I look at love like this " It is alot like sewing you gotta take a stitch step by step and it will all come together.
2006-11-07 12:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another future ex
2006-11-07 12:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Joe V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋