We last spoke two months ago. At that time she said don't ever call. Well, we talked for 45 minutes today. We talked about what caused the break up. I asked her if she still thinks about me and she said yes. I told her that I still loved her and that I cared. She did not return the same response, but she listened. She did say that I hurt her alot and that she want someone who would treat her right. I told that I was the guy, she laughed. I asked her out for her birthday and she said, why? I told her that I wanted to spend a nice evening with her, that' all. She said, honestly, I don't know if I want to, but I will think about it. When I brought up some memories she laughed and seemed to forget that she did not want anything to do with me. Do I have a chance.
2006-11-07 11:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah...as long as you dont abuse her or anything. Jest treat her nice and do what she wants to do.
2006-11-07 11:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep the lines of communication open - meaning answer the phone if she calls, reply to her if she emails you, maybe drop her an email for her birthday, but other than that I'd back off if I was you. This is the point where she may be having "second thoughts..." Give her some time to HAVE those second thoughts. If you come on too strong now it might drive her farther away & she may shut down all communications.
If it's meant to be, it will be...
Good luck whatever happens...
2006-11-07 19:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Auntie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say "YOU MIGHT" B U T I don't know what you did to her to hurt her like you did. She probably feels afraid you will do it again, and, somehow I get the feeling you are really not that serious about her as a person. Is it that you just want to prove to yourself that you can succeed in re-connecting with her despite her protests??? You should think about why you want to go thru this again? She may be right- - you might hurt her again. Then how will you feel about yourself?? She sounds very sweet and I don't think you're ready FOR HER!!
2006-11-07 19:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A chance of getting back with her? Maybe. A chance of it working out? Probably not. If there was reason enough for you two to break up once, you're probably just not as compatible as you need to be. That said... many of us make the mistake of "going back". I've done it myself. So far, it's never worked out... but ya never know. Good luck.
2006-11-07 19:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by kittikatti69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is do u know what u did wrong to her and how she feels about everything if not i would be 4 finding out if u want anything to do with her she may still love u but when a women has been hurt its hard to get over it
2006-11-07 19:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may stilll have a chance. dont rush anything. ease into things a little bit. treat her right and dont do whatever u did the first time to make u guys break up. make sure she knows how u feel about her. and buy her a piece of jewlry as a gift to show her how sorry you are.
2006-11-07 19:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by criss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to let it go. There are other women out there. You are wasting your time on someone who is not for you. Don't even talk to her; eventually you'll get used to her not being in your life. She's rude and unstable. Stop wasting your time and move on.
2006-11-07 19:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by ERNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You probably betrayed her trust and it will be very very very hard to earn your place back in her heart. For some reason, what ever you did to her had to have hurt her so badly that she is numb to you and the thought of your past relationship.
2006-11-07 19:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just dont take her for granted this time whatever you did you really hurt her thats what brought on her saying that but if she does give you another chance do right by her
2006-11-07 19:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might but don't push it to far or you'll just push her away, that's the simplest way to put it
2006-11-07 19:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋