someone hit me with a soccer ball and i went after him and called him some bad words and i am scared that he is going to try to call my mom and have his mom talk to mine.what should i do.he hit me first and then i got made and i can't control my anger when i am mad.so HELP
AND HE DID HIT ME FIRST AND THREE MORE TIMES TO ADD AND HARD REALLY HARD AND ALMOST MADE ME DROP MY FONE THAT I BOUGH ONE DAY AGO
2006-11-07 11:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tellyour mom the truth before she gets the call. good luck! =)
or if you know the boy then find him and apologize-even if you dont mean it- before he tells. =)
2006-11-07 11:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, while you should try to control your anger, I'd say the next time you see him, apologize. How old are both of you? If you're still in the "i'm telling mommy" stage, I'd say you probably need the correction, dear. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. he hit you, you cussed him out, he tells mom. Learn that everything you do, whether you start it or not, will come back to you.
2006-11-07 19:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he hit you with the soccer ball on purpose or was it an accident? In either case, you shouldn't have "hit" him. I think it sounds like you may need some"anger management classes" if you are unable to control your anger. Obviously, he shouldn't be hitting you either!
You sound very young, I think you should talk to your parents first. That way, they will be "prepared" in the event that he has his mother call yours.
It would be better for them to hear it from you than someone else's mother.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 19:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hit you with a soccer ball, and you went after him.
You made the problem bigger, not smaller.
Next time, demand he apologize to you.
As for your lack of control of your temper,
go to your school counselor, and your parent.
Anger management is available.
See by the ALL CAPS that you were getting madder as you typed. You must control your anger, not it you.
2006-11-07 19:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow don't freak out just tell ur mom what happened first. Prep her in case he trys to use it against u
2006-11-07 19:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, beat the living snot out of him and say that you'll tell everyone in the school that he's a taddle tale if he has his mom talk to your mom. if that doesn't work, threaten to tell the school that he got beat up by a girl. i know that's sexist, but it works. worst case scenario, sue him for assault.
2006-11-07 19:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Gremple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parent(s)
they will help you if you explain what you did and why you did it
it may be a good idea to tell her/him that you didn't mean it and you will try and control your anger next time
offer to go to a counselor where they will help you learn to control your anger
good luck!
2006-11-07 19:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by gallopingboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you did it in self defense.
2006-11-07 19:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR MOM FIRST
2006-11-07 19:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by ljessiepl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋