Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

i thought something was up, but he just said he'd "sort it". i did my best to relax and not think too much of it. then he went out one night, and i happened to go to the same place (he knew fully well i was going with a friend, it had been planned for a week) and we got on ok. and after a few drinks we started to argue. this resulted in him drink driving, and when his dad caught him he made up an elaborate tale about me beating him up. obviously his family wasnt happy about it, but it's not true. since then ive had his sister give me abuse, and he barely spoke to me for a week. after days of being treated like nothing, i ended it with him. that same night apparently he woke up next to a girl he used to work with, naked, but "he didn't sleep with her". i believe hes been contacting her for a while. when i confronted him, he said it was lies and he heard i had been with someone, and then when i was upset, he started shouting at me and beat me up. i didnt do anything. help?

2006-11-02 04:17:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

giving my bf a bj? We're normally laying side by side, then I just move down and go over him...what else can I do? Don't want him to get bored, want him to be satisfied.

2006-11-02 04:16:39 · 21 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

She says shes in love but doesnt know how to express her emotions.

2006-11-02 04:16:01 · 22 answers · asked by Sam C 1 in Singles & Dating

For 3 years my best friend was a girl. She and I did everything together, and developed a love for one another that I had never felt befor and have never felt since. But when we tried to be together it didn't work out, and now we are back to being friends, though not as close as we once were.
Just wanted to know if anyone out there was able to go from being best friends to being a couple and have it work out?

2006-11-02 04:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, this is the situation:

A mother of 4 ( two are around the ages of 6-11 and the other two are around the ages of 22-25). This woman is around the ages of 45-50. She does not work nor does she have much friends. Her husband works until 7pm-8pm. This house-wife does not take her kids to school, her husband does.Every day around 11am she gets ready and goes out, where?-nobody knows.She arrives around 3pm. Every-single-day she HAS to go out.This woman already has a background on cheating and flirting with other men.
She dresses like she is 20 years old. And she likes to go to malls ( even though she does not have money to spend).

what do you think?


btw, its not me
its my mother-in-law

oh, i forgot ... she cooks once ot twice a week. she doesnt clean her house, she doesnt wash the dishes ( her 22-25 year old sons do)

2006-11-02 04:15:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You know the scenario: You've been dating for a while now and he's not even close to "popping the question" about engagement, marriage. Have you ever told him: "If you dont' give me a ring by (certain date), then it's over!" Do you think this was a good idea to get him to commit? Did you get the ring or did the guy walk? If you've ever done this, what was it that made you pressure him for a commitment?

2006-11-02 04:14:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 04:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by nic-nic #7 1 in Singles & Dating

when there are single woman available

2006-11-02 04:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you ever break up with someone because you felt like you couldn't spend enough time with them? My friend who has been dating her boyfriend for 2 years just got broken up with, His excuse is that he hates that she is home at night..and that she doesn't care about spending a few minutes with him each night..he doesn't feel like its fair to her that he doesn't see her that much...I personally think its BS, but what do you all think? Would you ever break up with a person you have already been dating for 2 years just because you don't see them that much...and they do see each other more then just 15 minutes a night.

2006-11-02 04:11:33 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah D 3 in Singles & Dating

that never had relations to have some type of intimate relationship

2006-11-02 04:11:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is upset at me for not calling her last night. I fell asleep and didn't bother to call her to tell her good night or whatever. Why are women so sensitive about things like that, ugh!

2006-11-02 04:10:55 · 22 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a man about 2 yrs ago and we've become friends. he is in another relationship but seems to express certain feelings for me like if i'm not feeling well he will call and checkup on me, if i'm having personal troubles he is interested in knowing. he is gentle and sweet with me. how do i know if this is genuine or he is just a smooth talker out to get his cake n eat it too??

2006-11-02 04:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by gottohaveitwild 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend works a lot, and barely has time for me. I tell myself that him working is a good thing. He gets paid good and that it will help in the long run. When we are together everything is still the same. I trust that the time he spends away from me, he is thinking about me and wanting to be with me. I am not a patient person and I know that. I am wondering should I be patient and wait on this "having to make money" stage pass, or should I kick him to the curb and find someone that has time for me?
I'm scared that if I find someone that has time for me, they may not have a great job. I am also scared that my boyfriend may be the one for me and this is the way it should be right now. I don't work, I am still in college. I am thinking that if I worked then it wouldn't be that big of a problem because I would have more to do and wouldn't be worried that I didn't see him today.

2006-11-02 04:07:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does it feel
i'm sitting hear wondering what you are doing
i dont know how to live without you any more
i the pain is so unbareable
everything is coming to the core

you called yesterday to see how i was doing
i was laughing but underneath i was crying
i said i didnt want to talk anymore
because i felt like i am dying
chorus
how does it feel to know that you arent loved anymore
how does it feel wondering what i am doing
because im laghing at the pain you caused

2006-11-02 04:07:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

other girls calling her their sister or mom

2006-11-02 04:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It doesnt mean i am....im just wondering....but i am 18 in like 2 months

2006-11-02 04:05:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My MIL called last night and abused me. When I fought back and told her that if she cant be nice to me there is no reason to call, she told me to put my husband back on. I did and before she could say anything he told her if she couldnt be nice to me then she could f&*^ off. She called back a minute later trying to say that I am telling him not to see her (if you read a previous question, I am tryign to keep the peace!) he told ehr that it wasnt me it was him so she called back again and kicked him out of the will (which i dotn think he cared one way or the other about) but then his brother called saying how she was trying to be sweet to me and how I was pretending that she wasnt as a smear campaign against her to make her look bad! (i dont need to, she does it well enough herself!) but now I am beating myself up about it. This happens so often between me and her, but my husband has never gotten this involved. I feel like its my fault. I am not sure what to do now.

2006-11-02 04:05:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been divorced for almost a year now and still have a close relationship with my ex-inlaws. I have always been close to them over the past 10+ years. I also have three of their grandchildren. Their son, my ex has little to do with them or our kids, and I feel its up to me to help facilitate a relationship. The problem is my fiance seems to think my contact with them should be minimal. He feels its not my responsibility to make sure they have contact with my kids. He gets upset when I talk with them and always refer to them as my EX inlaws. These are people who have been a big part of my life, I personally have a family that is basically not part of my life. I want to be able too have my ex inlaws over for the holidays. Am I wrong and how can i make fiance understand.

2006-11-02 04:05:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he says he wants to b friends then date and so on ,says he really likes u a lot, misses u n all but hes been hurt in the past, still thinks about his ex although its been over a year n she hasnt contacted him at all, hes always busy, has no time to spend with u, u guys talk like maybe once a week, but he says he really misses u bla bla bla, he says he isnt seeing anyone, isnt ready to date....why cant he just make up his mind and keeps u waiting??????????

2006-11-02 04:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by mery b 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to find a future partner

2006-11-02 04:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jerry O 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i'm still waiting!!!!!!

2006-11-02 04:03:43 · 35 answers · asked by kimble 5 in Marriage & Divorce

always look for an uglier woman than their partner? I have a few friends who have been cheated on and the other woman always is less attractive, less smart and almost always less intelligent. What's the reason, do you know? Men are welcome to give their 2 cents.

2006-11-02 04:02:58 · 25 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been thinking about this for a while now, as people meet other people of the net, i.e chatrooms, dateing web sites, etc but i allways wondered if it was possible on yahoo answers. what do people think or have they met anyone of yahoo answers?i.e by contacting the other person by e-mail or a pm through yahoo messenger?im just curious?

2006-11-02 04:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by W.M.D 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it mean she is giving of those body signs as she is simply enjoying the attention OR she finds you physically attractive and thats the reason she is giving of positive body language

2006-11-02 04:02:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do other than cry..
You willl have to read my other questions regarding this to understand it...
I found out one of the nights he hit her was the night my daughter was there, so I just told her today that I dont want my kids around him anymore & that If I am there & he shows up I will leave as well.
Well that really set her off, she said our freindship is over & to never call her again, I said ok if that is what you want then fine, that is what you will get & told her she deserves everything that happens to her if she satys with him...I am crying my eyes out for 1 the loss of the freindship & for 2 she is going to end up in the hopsital or dead...I am not the type of person to sit by and watch someone get hurt & not do anything about it, but I really dont think there is anything I can do for her anymore.. Was I wrong to say my kids will not be allowed over there if he is there

2006-11-02 04:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by bite_me_harder_28 2 in Friends

I am finding it very difficult to cope with every thing in the my life right now.

2006-11-02 04:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by cerene 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone done this and what were their experiences, good and bad?

2006-11-02 04:00:16 · 20 answers · asked by Nobigdeal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But 3 weeks ago we met up just for a catch up and went to the cinema and we kissed the following weekend I ended up staying the night I love him to bits but I locked up my feelings 4months ago when we finished and I am so afraid to let my feelings go incase I get hurt again, I'm having a chat with him this weekend because I want to be sure he's definite before I make up my mind. What should I say to him?Serious answers only.

2006-11-02 04:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by rainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

my b/f asks me all the time what im thinking about and whats on my mind even when im fine he still asks, im getting sick of it and to the point where im gonna cuss at him but i dont want to how should i tell him to stop without hurting him?

2006-11-02 03:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 03:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating