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I am finding it very difficult to cope with every thing in the my life right now.

2006-11-02 04:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by cerene 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Life is a learning and shareing experience. Everything we go through in life is designed to teach us a leson. Some lessons are harder for some of us to learn than others and is repeated several times before we learn it. As we go through things in our lives we hopefully share those experiences with others going through simular situations and there by helping one another get through life's ups and downs.

Many things happen because we make poor judgement calls. We assume things without knowing all of the facts surrounding the situation. We oftentimes spend more time trying to help run other peoples lives rather than taking care of our own problems. Many foolishly believe that by either running away from or ignoreing a problem will make it eventually go away. Such is not the case and will create even bigger problems later on down the road of life.

Believe me when I tell you that you are not alone with your problems nor your feelings. Take a piece of paper, write down your problems then rank them in terms of priority. Number one (1) being the top priority and the one that must be dealt with first. As you take care of your problems mark them off on your list.

Also find something you enjoy doing, and make it your hobby. Do it to relax and refocus your life. Only you can change yourself. Work on what ever changes you want to make using the same method as above and you may not see the changes at first but others probably will before you do.

Take command of your thoughts. Train yourself to think positive thoughts not negitive ones.

I hope this helps you out some. Good luck.

2006-11-02 04:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 2 · 0 0

Making a living has always been hard. Think of the poor guys who made it before the bow and arrow was invented. You must acquire the tools of survival. Today the tools are education and skills. Learn a skill that the economy will pay well for. Look around and think what jobs you could do and like the best (or dislike the least). Then go for the education, even if you must borrow from government. Everyone can get a government education loan. Look for other grants that you might not have to repay. Coping is easier when you have a good paying job.

2006-11-02 04:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take a breather...life is hard and you just have to make it the best that you can! Life will always throw you a curve ball and the way to get through it is to get through it, put everything into proper prospective and determine the level of each thing, then deal with them. Learn how to find the positive/laughable in every situation and focus on that. Don't get overwhelmed, talk to someone if u need to or get involved in an activity that will help take your mind off of certain problems for a while. Don't avoid them forever though, just deal with them when you can and not before.

2006-11-02 04:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by ltlchk_2 2 · 0 0

Your answer may lie in what you have described as your 'fairly uneventful' life; your perceptions of his trials may be skewed by the illusory and opaque view that the empathic pain which you feel for his suffering must be felt by him, as well... But there is no answer, really,... at least not one that is not already a cliche. A friend of mine once wrote: "...there are moments that seem God-like in the bliss of knowing that I exist and all is right with the world; for one eternal moment. Then back to the mire, --- the drudgery of rolling the rock up the hill once more, twice more etc..." I think that this allusion to the myth of Sisyphus aptly describes how most of us get through this thing we call LIFE.... But why some of us have larger rocks,... and steeper hills, is a question which I believe can only be answered by one who, having taken their last breath, has been released from the burden of having to roll their rock...

2016-05-23 17:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0 0

Then how else would it promote you, from kindergarten to a Graduate.

You see it coming hard.See it other way, its you who is approaching at,the hard way.Its you who is attracting the hardship in first place.Nothing happens in this world, without a cause.Dont repel.Ask.How can I cope with everything in my life right now.? you will find the solution.

2006-11-02 04:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by pararra 2 · 0 0

We all have times when we feel overwhelmed by the events and people in our lives. I usually try to take the time to sit down and do some 'inner housecleaning' during those times - figure out what is important to my, what I need to do, and what I can set aside and not worry about. We, often, heap a lot more on our plates than we need to or can deal with.

It, also, helps to let the people around you know that you are feeling this way and ask if they can help in any way.

2006-11-02 04:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0 0

I've found that life loves kicking me in the guts, especially when I'm already down - but that's probably to make up for the long, boring bits in between. I know it doesn't seem fair - it just isn't, really - but it's not without its benefits. In my quiet moments, I think perhaps if I hadn't been through the things I have (i.e. lousy peers at school, severe lack of $$$ later, abusive relationship, etc) I wouldn't have developed my backbone, my determination, my belief in myself and above all, my honour. It does, unfortunately, take adversity to bring out the best in the human spirit. Those of us who know this and have been through it are also better equipped to aid/teach those who have been broken by life, or who have yet to get their lumps, so to speak.

2006-11-02 04:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0 0

Thats pretty much the story of everyone's life at one time or another. Just hang in there. Take one day at a time. Things will get better. You need to priortize what needs to be done and you need to make 'you' time where you can just rest for a while. Its ok to feel overwhelmed with everything going on but just hang in there.

2006-11-02 04:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

thats how life is,but it doesnt have to be so all the time first you pray and ask god to give you grace to go through your trials and then you sit with a note pad and write down the things that are going bad in your life see why did they start to begin with and think of ways you can solve them one by one not all at the same time.some things you might have to all together stop doing or lessen and dont forget to ask for help even though you may not get help from family you can get help from organizations around you.i did this and it helped me alot

2006-11-02 04:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

cerene life is hard and cold at times but each one of us have the abilites to change it i lost my dad at 14 mom just gave up so raising the two youngers went on my shoulder mom died 3 years later 5 months before graduation i had a 4 year old crying for mama a 14 year old rebel saying he hated every one cattle having calves and i was ready to just give up but i dug my feet in and didnt give up im 24 now and everything is ok when life starts getting me down i just say come on bitchh lets go for another round so NEVER EVER give up we are all stronger then we relize God speed...lil outlaw

2006-11-02 04:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0 0

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