It doesnt mean i am....im just wondering....but i am 18 in like 2 months
2006-11-02 04:05:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and what some of you dont know is that where I am from 17 is the legal age to date however old...im just wondering if its wrong?
2006-11-02 04:29:34 · update #1
and what some of you dont know is that where I am from 17 is the legal age to date however old...im just wondering if its wrong?
2006-11-02 04:29:36 · update #2
it depends does he like to go out to the bars cause if he does i wouldnt even bother with him. if not then give it a try. two of my best friends have been married for six years and are still happy and there is ten year difference
2006-11-02 04:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by angie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot that happens in your life between 18 and 26. I think that 98% of the time nothing good can come from a relationship like this - besides if you were 26 you wouldnt be looking at a 17 or 18 year old for innocent purposes would you?
2006-11-02 04:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with a 26 year old man that wants to date a 17 year old? Think about it, you are just finishing high school! Older men are interested in girls as young as you due to physical attraction, sex and the ability to control you. Normal men this age do not become involved with a girl your age, actually it is against the law. What is his age limit anyhow? Hopefully you don't have a little sister that could be his next love interest.
2006-11-02 04:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong I don't know. When I was 17 I was with a man 23 we were together on and off for 7 years I love him still but he was always a lover, brother, mentor and got me out of every mess I ever got in as I got older I no longer wanted that I wanted to be an equal. I was older and now had my own oppion. It was hard for our relationship to change as I grew into my adult roll. In the end 30 years latter I love him and like his wife he is happy and I am happy for him but no it did not work out. At 17 you think you know life but there is a big difference that someday you will see and understand
2006-11-02 04:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it is wrong for a 26 year old man to be dating a 17/18 year old. If a man that old is trying to date you, then they have problems. You're too young, and he should be going after girls his own age. Be careful with this guy!!!
2006-11-02 04:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by ka250 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"i'm just wondering...but i am 18 in like 2 months" ? Definitely means you are dating a 26 year old man. No point to hide anything, everything here is practically anonymous.
And yeah it's wrong, he might be looking for things that you're not looking for right now, he might be looking for a really serious commitment right now something which you don't sound to be really ready for.
2006-11-02 04:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! i know once ur 18 u can pretty much do what u want. however, there is such a difference in mentallity & in the next few yrs U r going to change so much. what u like & dont, what u think u want in ur life will be sooo diff than the way u feel rt now. these things also apply to him as well. you r both growing & changing everyday. have u been sexually active with him? do u think u love him? does he say he loves u? i know i sound like a mother hen, but ive been there & i dont want u to look back & regret anyting u might do or have done when ur older.
2006-11-02 04:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by allnewmegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is wrong. For a 26 year old male to be dating a 18 year old female is really wrong. It is a sign that the male is really a loser. He can't date someone his own age so he goes after a younger (and more nieve) version of what he wants.
2006-11-02 04:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello Hun;
I think that women are more mature then men for sure. And if you are dating someone that much older then you must be wanted someone that has a higher level of maturity.
But with that said you are still really young and have SO much left to do while you are still young and can!
I'm not saying not to date this person.
You can't help who you love. Just make sure that you aren't cheating your self by being with someone that wont let you be young. You will miss out on SO much if you do.
Best of luck to you Hun!
2006-11-02 04:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years isn't a big deal, but maybe in about 5 years. A 31 year old dating a 22 year old is fine,but you're just a little too young now.
2006-11-02 04:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it, just wiat till your of age to do anything with him, besides the hugging and kissing part, anyone catches doing more then that remember he can go to jail for being with a minor. And how would you feel after that, and know it was wrong but went behind what you were taught from a young age!
2006-11-02 04:08:56 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋