Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

after i asked him after all the time we've been knowing each other, what are yor feelings towards me. and he tells me to forget that he said that so i would chill out. and later down the line tells me me that the long distance relationship will never work out. i text him a lot like before, but he doesn't return my messages anymore like before. he may somtimes and then tell me he will call me back later. but he never does. and he is always telling me that he is busy. what should i do?

2006-11-02 04:58:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

tongue when kissing on a first date....because i did thats how i got my beautiful beau who i'm with now, he said that i suprised him in a good way...so was that forward of me to do what i did?.........i know many of you will not agree with this....but you know sometimes you have gotto grab the bull by the horn so to speak, otherwise you could be wauiting forever.....let me know your views all the same....

2006-11-02 04:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well long story but to make it short..She is a huge drama queen..And i asked her a few months ago (my fiance asked my brother)and she said "Thats going to be texpensive " She said to my brother "they are going to get married before us" wah wah wah..

Well since then everytime we go out she causes a big scene wirth my brother and everything is always about her well last saturday --I had a halloween /my birthday party (very big) well planned out
And She made a big huge scene screaming outside almost got us kicked out of the hall
Threw a drink at my brother...
Asked me why i invited a bunch of girls (she is very jealous)
And basically ruined my party ..Everyone had to leave early
And she made a big scene and made it all about her...
I told her off and she called the next day and apoligized

But everything is ALWAYS about her and she always ruins a nice time out and im afraid she will do this on my wedding day (in fact i am almost certain)What should i DO? I have tryed to be nic

2006-11-02 04:58:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have always been told that love is unconditional, but if u think it deeply, being unconditional is also a condition!! may be we can expect only love from our partner but expecting love is also a condition.. isn´t it so?

2006-11-02 04:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Tabbu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i havnt been dating a guy long but he tells me he loves me, how can i tell if he really loves me or is just playing the field?

2006-11-02 04:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by kycat0744 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 04:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by TREVOR B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This will be our first time meeting!

2006-11-02 04:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Careatha 3 in Singles & Dating

i am shy have a big nose but aint that bad if it wasnt for my nose . how do i ask a girl out, if she looks too good for me, i just wanna have fun and have casual sex

2006-11-02 04:56:22 · 7 answers · asked by mka m 1 in Singles & Dating

Did it lead to anything?

Did you think about them all the time, even with your family, or only when you were around them?

2006-11-02 04:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 04:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer0612 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend wants to get married but I'm not 100% sure I want to marry him. I mean he is a great guy don't get me wrong but he is being a little too hasty about marrying me. We talked about it and I expressed my deepest feelings, he said that I was just nervous about the commitment. We've known each other for about 7 months is that long enough? I am soooo confused I want to make him happy but I don't want to be making a mistake. Or am I being too childish by delaying the wedding day?

2006-11-02 04:54:24 · 33 answers · asked by Donria 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm pretty sure i know...

2006-11-02 04:54:04 · 22 answers · asked by crazy_lil_thang709 1 in Singles & Dating

my hs love dumped me 4 months ago. Even though, getting back with him right now is unimaginable. i still think about him.

i still wear the charm heart he gave me. he told me to keep it.

i once removed it but only to notice of feeling more empty day by day without it. i don't think about the charm. but when i look in the mirror or look at my necklace, my mind screams to me something is missing, while my heart aches and speaks as if it feels "it's empty right here.:

eventually, i put it back on. it felt good.

i wonder am i waiting for him to return sometime during my life or is it something else i can't see?

2006-11-02 04:53:28 · 16 answers · asked by blinded_by_you01 1 in Singles & Dating

I used 2 take things slow with my ex(when we were together)we'd cuddle,hug,hold hands that kinda thing.he never had a g/f or kissed ne1 b4.I kissed him on the cheek one day. then a couple nights after we kissed(he was the aggressor).Things got overwhelming,we both got overly excited.I did touch him down there but didn't take it out. It got to the point I had 2 tell him we weren't going to have sex.so we agreed not to.I'm not too experienced with taking things slowly but I want to.he knew that.I think he got blue balls.he acted kool about not doing it. I just wanted him to love me first.it was too soon.when he took me home he was spazing out saying he didn't know what he was doing,that his mind was racing a mile a minute and that he was confused. So if I gave him blue balls,and that's the reason why he didn't give me a real answer to why he stoped calling me.what can I do 2 make him feel better?all I want 2 do is cuddle and kiss.I just need 2 relax and kiss slowly/gently.what do u think

2006-11-02 04:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 04:50:17 · 18 answers · asked by coulson 2 in Singles & Dating

Other than not having a job. I know this is not the "best" place to seek serious answers to serious questions, but maybe I can get a answer that will shed some light on why a father wouldn't want to help support his child.

2006-11-02 04:50:15 · 33 answers · asked by carmelbrown2001 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the mother of two little girls aged 4 and 1. I am also a full time student and have recently returned to work after two years. I have a very supportive husband and family but I find i have overwhelming feelings of guilt because I spend so much time away from my family. My four year old and I went through a lot when she was younger and I feel bad especially for her because she gets passed back and forth between her father and I. How can I find a better way of coping than breaking down in tears and how can I make it easier for my children? I want to make this all work but sometimes it feels hopeless. Anyone in my situation any advice would be great.

2006-11-02 04:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

now lets say hypothetically we were in a relationship and after we did the act you noticed i threw the condom on the floor and never picked it up would you be offended by my act or would you just be like so what?

2006-11-02 04:49:01 · 31 answers · asked by Serve God rely on Me 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't they learn a single thing?
Even a mule will not fall into the same pothole twice...

For example:
Girls knew, when men tried to court her, they would be super nice to the girl... just to get her love and attention...
And girls know, after 3 months or after marriage or after the 1st sex... it will all change 180 degrees (most of the time)...

Girls knew it... but yet... they always made the same mistake over and over again...
It seems that "Men give loves to get sex and Women give sex to get loves." is so so true...

SO... my question is that:
1. why can't women learn while a mule can?
2. it's a bit harsh, sorry... but... do women have brains?
3. when it's too late... they chose to stick with it... what the hell is wrong with that??? any answer for it???
4. Finally, why girls always fall to the men's trap???

aLL and aLL, sorry if it's a bit harsh... I just need to try to make sense of it all...

2006-11-02 04:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

how did it make you feel? howd you cope?

2006-11-02 04:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by rom s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok to flirt casually with others or flirt with touching involved when you are in a relationship, and why? Then how about if the boyfriend/girlfriend is around to see it?

2006-11-02 04:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by lol 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so here's the story:
My friend likes this guy and I kinda started liking him because we have two classes together. He and I study for most of our tests together.I see him in class staring at me and when I look at him he looks away. Another thing he does is look at me and then I look at him and he smiles at me. I blush and turn away. I ALWAYS CATCH HIM LOOKING AT ME.Does he like me? I know that my friend has liked him for a while. Would it be wrong if I went out with him?

2006-11-02 04:46:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think about your s/o watching pornography?Do you get jealous or do you gladly approve it?

2006-11-02 04:45:58 · 57 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i wonder what could b the point of them staying 2gether. i dont interfer, but asking u fine people cause im just curious.

2006-11-02 04:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by jos q 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 04:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by joshb2k4 3 in Singles & Dating

I have trouble maintaining frienships with both genders! Please if you have any tips on how to make and KEEP these friendships or at least make them last, that would be really nice! Who knows, you might be picked as best answer! :)

2006-11-02 04:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Friends

i am 20 and havent been to any parties or any college fun stuff, i find my self lonely sometimes, i want to have a frind who thtat i can hang out with, i like to go on dates and just kick, but am very shy

2006-11-02 04:43:18 · 23 answers · asked by mka m 1 in Singles & Dating

The "Bully" isn't my boss or in any offical position over me but she has clearly shown her dislike of me from day one. She doesn't talke to me unless she has to for work purposes. If I say good morning or hello, there is no response from her. Not even a nod. She will bring breakfast for everyone else but me. When she does look at me she gives me these looks like she just ate dog doo. I have tried to talk to my boss about this but all he says is "that is how she is, she can be a B*tch, just deal with it, b/c she is good at what she does" I took that to mean that her position in the company is too important for him to say anything to her and that since I am just the lowly receptionist I just need to deal. Can someone please help me and let me know what I should do.

2006-11-02 04:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by j22 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-02 04:42:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Where in reality... men went bad because of women...
Not all, but most men...
They experienced heart break and many love fool games played by women...
Then they realized... that good guys finish last...
So they stop being mr. nice guy... and started to play the girls instead?

There are many more women who cheated compared to men...
Facts are out there...
For example, only 18% of men contracted STD while 68% of women contracted STD last year according to CDC...
So it means that 18% of men causing 68% of women STD, hence... more women fooling around instead of men...

To tell you the truth... I'm in the verge of giving up being mr. nice guy and to start being a jerk/player...
It's not me... but it hurts when you got played, especially if you're in the place where you can play with them, too (but you chose not to)...

Give me your honest opinions!!!

2006-11-02 04:41:33 · 21 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating