my hs love dumped me 4 months ago. Even though, getting back with him right now is unimaginable. i still think about him.
i still wear the charm heart he gave me. he told me to keep it.
i once removed it but only to notice of feeling more empty day by day without it. i don't think about the charm. but when i look in the mirror or look at my necklace, my mind screams to me something is missing, while my heart aches and speaks as if it feels "it's empty right here.:
eventually, i put it back on. it felt good.
i wonder am i waiting for him to return sometime during my life or is it something else i can't see?
2006-11-02 04:53:28 · 16 answers · asked by blinded_by_you01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both in college now
2006-11-02 05:04:43 · update #1
Don't wait forever. Move on... If you were together for a couple of years it might take you while to get over it.
2006-11-02 04:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my high school BF a year ago. We were together for almost 6 years. I wore a promise ring for the last two years that we were together and I had a difficult time taking it off because I felt guilty because I had worn it for so long. I did take it off a few days later because I realized if I didn't, I would not be able to get over the relationship and move on. I have seen my ex a few times since and we are getting along just associating with one another and I think that us breaking up was one of the best things that could have happened.
I would suggest just to think over your relationship and weigh the good and bad things. But of he does not have an interest in getting back together, don't sweat it. You are young and have plenty of opportunities to meet guys that will be interested in you, just give yourself time to heal and don't dwell in the past.
2006-11-02 12:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i went out with this girl for 4years and yes the same story, but honestly keep the good and leaf the bad. Remember the good time, but go on with your life, in life something is taken away from you, and you'll bet er or maybe the best.. Well let me tell you something I'm waiting a year now, but wait will i wait not for her but to someone. And who knows maybe he went on with his life?? So do the same girl. I think personally that you can get better, I'm not saying he is not good but if he where your soul mate, then me and the people wouldn't had the chance too mail you.. All the best?Christian C
2006-11-02 13:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by CHRISTIAN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you sweetie. A broken heart is hard to heal. It is a terrible feeling. Maybe you needed to write this question on yahoo, not to get it answered but maybe to see what has happened in writing.
It will take time. You may hurt for a while. But all you need is time to heal the feeling of pain and hurt.
I cannot relate to everything you are saying, I think in the back of your mind you may get back together. Life is strange, maybe you will, but if you do not try and stay strong.
Good Luck
2006-11-02 13:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with a recent break-up it's hard to forget and move on.
you're gonna eventually have to take of the charm he gave you and try to live without it. if the relationship has ended, there was a reason behind it and it would be better not to enter that relationship again, even if it's down the road.
things will heal slowly, but you have to make the effort and move on and meet better people.
i wish you well. good luck
2006-11-02 12:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it. I feel lost when I don't feel my cell phone at my belt.
You get used to anything over enough time. No one can predict what the future will bring, and I don't think it helps to worry about it too much. Someday you may get together with him, or someone else that makes you make happy. Take life as it comes and try to meet new days with an open mind.
2006-11-02 12:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Javelinl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to feel this way, and only time will heal. I know exactly how you feel, because I was in the same boat. But if it's meant to be, then one day it will be. We don't always know these things. But keep yourself open to other relationships! Feelings do indeed change! If I had kept waiting on my ex, I wouldn't have the awesome b/f I have right now!
2006-11-02 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my G/F and I still wonder if we will get back together but deep in my heart I know it's not the correct thing to do. You just have to let go and move on, someone else will come and truly love you like no one has.
2006-11-02 12:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Skullsoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the charm. If you can't bring yourself to do that, put it somewhere safe but isn't easily accessible such as a safe or a deposit box. The fewer things around you to remind you of him, the easier it will be to get over him. It isn't at all easy, but it can be done with time and patience. Good luck, it will get better.
2006-11-02 12:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going through the natural grieving portion of loosing a relationship. It is normal to be hurt, cry, to think about this person for awhile. It doesn't mean he is the one. You are young. After you are done grieving, try to move on. You are young you will have plenty of relationships in the future.
2006-11-02 13:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Glee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are just used to the feel of the bracelet on your wrist. The same thing happens if you remove a ring that you've worn for some time.
2006-11-02 12:57:27 · answer #11 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋