2006-11-02 04:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by TREVOR B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lack of self-control. Lack of respect for your wife.
2006-11-02 04:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to 1). Tell your wife and take it like a man, because you do deserve whatever you get. 2). If you are going to live this way then get divorced, you do not need to be in a marriage. 3). You need some sort of counseling, maybe an addiction or relationship therapist. 4). If you have kids think about the example you are setting. If you have a boy you are telling him it is okay to use women for your pleasure, and screw their feelings. If you have a girl you are letting her know it is okay for woman to be used and walked all over. Do you want your daughter to end up with someone like you? 5) I think you need to take a strong hard look at your life and decide what is most important to you and hold onto that. Set some morals and boundaries for yourself. You do not have to be weak and you certainly don't have to be the person you have painted. You can correct the wrongs and accept some responsibility.
2006-11-02 16:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by btuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a man. It's just the way you're wired. Just like many in the animal kingdom, we're wired to procreate to preserve the species. While many women may deny it or claim that you're simply being selfish, and there is some truth to that, there's more to it than that.
A combination of ego and animal insticts lead to your behavior. You don't see people bad-mouthing wild animals for having sex with more than one mate, but we're supposed to be more civilized and evolved than they are, so people judge, while people like you may unsuccessfully struggle to control their urges.
If you cannot control your natural urges, you should either see a counselor to attempt to help you control, redirect or "repress" them or you should seriously think about whether or not you should be married. Good luck.
2006-11-02 20:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by GOOD MAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a selfish jerk. Let me guess...your wife has no clue that you are cheating on her and the girlfriends don't know about each other. Better yet, I'll bet each girlfriend (if they know you are married) think that will be leaving your wife for them, and you are probably letting them think that. Grow up and make a decision, loser.
2006-11-02 13:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you have no respect for your wife or yourself. You owe it to your wife to end your marriage, this is low - the lowest any spouse could go. No one deserves to have this going on behind their back. Get some will power.
2006-11-02 13:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Carey L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WEll witch woman do u like gf 1 gf 2 gf 3 or you're wife?????? choose!!!!!!!!!!! and get a divorce for cheating on you're wife!!
2006-11-02 15:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help, mentally and emotionally. does your wife know about this? either way you need to get into some sort of counseling program.good luck and be careful you don't want to give your wife some sort of disease...
2006-11-02 13:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya married to your hand get a life
2006-11-02 14:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better say no before you got some std and gots to tell your wife youv'e been out there being a whore
2006-11-02 13:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by blackhairedbaby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't WANT to!
You understand that life is the longest damn thing you are ever going to do and you want to enjoy every minute of it.
You are going to your grave with no regrets.....No "what if's!"
Have fun!
2006-11-02 13:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋