Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

so...your significant other is all over you, says that he can't wait to get you home and "break a chunk off"...you are game and relay that to him. The night continues with flirting and a*ss grabbing...you go and get yourself ready for bed...and lay there and wait. After some time, you get out of bed to find out what is taking him so long....and he is sitting at the computer looking at porn !!! Personally, I was pissed...and completely got turned off...

2006-11-02 05:22:32 · 11 answers · asked by shasta 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are in a financial rut, but we have never really had money to save or to spend. It doens't keep us up at night, I mean we have a roof over our heads and food to eat. One of my closest friends has never known money stress. She was able to live with her parents until she got married, and has always made really good money, so she's been able to save a lot.

I just don't know how to explain it to her so she does not feel sorry for me.

2006-11-02 05:21:34 · 2 answers · asked by abbey_c_white 2 in Friends

I will turn 17 in like 22 days and I want to have a least 2 weeks to plan and hand our invitations and stuff.

2006-11-02 05:21:25 · 1 answers · asked by monkey_lova24 1 in Friends

Boyfriend b/c I am and well I can't do nothing to fix it HELP PLEASE!!!! And well and when I did I still felt the same so why???

2006-11-02 05:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 05:20:02 · 19 answers · asked by Subal Ranjan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Women always say, "looks don't matter. It's all about personality." You mean to tell me that if a guy is ugly but has a great personality, then he is attractive?!?!?! I have a great personality, yet women don't like me because I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck.

2006-11-02 05:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

I wasn't really sure where to put this question but it involved my friend and I so that is where i will put it. Yesterday my friend and I were in an accident where noone was hurt but his car got really messed up and we nearly hit a street light after we slammed into the curb, if we were going faster the car could have flipped and so yeah it really messed with my head thinking that /i am lucky to be here today. I was wondering if this happened to anyone else and if it effected your life. Also I recently was broken up with by the love of my life and after yesterday I just really need to be with her today because she is everything today. Is it too much for me too ask this of her I mean she says she still wants to be friends and if one of my friends was in an accident i would want to be there for them. But i just dont know how to handle it because i dont want to make her feel bad being like i almost died yesterday but i want her to realise i could be dead and i could be gone forever

2006-11-02 05:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Friends

Did it lead to anything...?

Did you think about them all the time?

2006-11-02 05:19:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 23 year old Stanford college student. I have never had a girlfriend nor have I ever danced with or kissed a girl. Unfortunately, I will remain a virgin for the rest of my life because I have no social skills because they were never developed during the critical years of adolescence and also due to my short height (5'5"). Girls ignore me at all cost and call me 'creepy.' College life for me is hell.

If you knew that you'd remain a virgin for life without ever having a girlfriend or boyfriend (lover, mate, ect.) would you want to live? - and why? They say that romantic love is the greatest thing anyone can experience but if you are denied this basic experience then whats the point of living? I'm sick of staying alive just for my parents - I feel more like a domesticated animal than an actual human being.

This question especially goes out to those who have had dates and romantic relationships in the past. If you knew you'd never have any of that would you want to live?

2006-11-02 05:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 05:18:49 · 8 answers · asked by TERMITE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 05:18:33 · 3 answers · asked by ace_71385 3 in Singles & Dating

Your ideal guy or girl .

2006-11-02 05:17:53 · 3 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfirend accused me of lying. I told her I did notknow what she was talking about. She said she knew there was something but not sure what. Said she knew me well enough to know I was hiding something. I sent her a text saying please do not text or phone cos I will delete the messages. BUT I have this week spent time showing a girl (I had a brief fling with) and her boyfriend round my country. I told my ex nothing of this. But did say I was doing nothing at the wekend when she asked..... thats when I then sent her the text to get her off my back. Did not want to tell her cos she would probably have made a fuss. Anyway is a man allowed no secrets? Told her I had no idea whatshe was on about and to leave me alone. Was I allwrong or is she wrong too....I think she is.....why could she not just believe me and save all this fuss.

2006-11-02 05:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bud , wine , jellow shots ?

2006-11-02 05:17:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant understand this theory of love?? hahahah

2006-11-02 05:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Tabbu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are you?

2006-11-02 05:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by TERMITE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kitchen floor. I was making a sundae and somehow the whipped cream can top broke off and shot all over the kitchen. I may have broke if off when I hit the counter, but it was innocent. She isn't talking to me now. I don't understand women.

2006-11-02 05:16:02 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 23 yrs. does not want sex and doesn't initiate it and we don't have sex except once a month if I am lucky. When I talk to him about it, he says he is tired or older or that we argue too much and he doesn't think I want to be intimate.
My husband is very nice looking. I am not a dog. We used to have sex all the time when we were younger. Has it always been great? no.....in fact it is not that great. He never french kisses me. He never touches my vagina. He doesn't kiss my breasts. No foreplay. When he wants it, once a month, he just gets on top, and then he cums in 2 minutes. There have been times when I cry after sex. I am so unfulfilled and sad afterwards. I have talked to him about this. But he just doesn't get it. What is wrong with me? I am very passionate and I try real hard to satisfy him. I am not ugly or fat. I am a loving and affectionate person. I have even bought instructional sex tapes to help me help him. Nothing works. Is he gay?

2006-11-02 05:15:13 · 10 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 05:15:08 · 2 answers · asked by mememe 2 in Singles & Dating

I notice that You make me laugh when I don`t even want 2 smile...

2006-11-02 05:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

This may sound ridiculous. We are friends, but it's weird with us. The beginning of our story months ago was very spontaneous. No dates, nothing, but meeting from time to time on campus...I was hinking it gonna turn to a typical love relationship, especially when he asked me out after a long time...but today I find this sickening because days are elapsing and he is saying nothing at all.. I see affection and care in his eyes, but I want something palpable...I am on shaky grounds with him, and I don't want to ask him because I am shy and because I don't want to put myself in that position, for I imagine he gonna shut up and look at me when I ask him what's all this about!
Please, tell me what I can do. I feel angry at this.

2006-11-02 05:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by rosyrose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-02 05:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Singles & Dating

im 19, and he is 21,, we have a baby and we got married last year,, but we're been 2gether for 4... he is in the military and now that we live by ourselves is like hell,,, when we fight he says that he hates me,, and that i bather too much,, but he soo inmature,, after work he plays x box 5 hours and he just wants me to cook and to take care of my 1 year old daughter,, we fight every day,, yestarday he hit me an he said i cant call the military police bcuz i used to hit him before,, so he told me taht they will take da baby away from us,, not only that,, i tried to talk to him every time we fight and he hates when i cry,, he gets even worse,, and next day is lyk nothing happend,, he litens to music, sings,, he looks happy,and ignores me completly,, i wanna save my marriage,,,i dont wan to give up so soon,, theres anythin i can do so he could realize how stupid is he acting... shoud i ignore him and stop cookin when we fight??? (llol)

2006-11-02 05:13:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wierd that i find all the stuff about my boyfriend adorable?...like even the wierd stuff. For example,he smells sometimes when he gets home from work,and all of his friends go tell him to take a shower..but i dotn mind it..i like it...or after he smokes,he smells like ciggerets...its funny. And then theres the hyper-active thing.when he is partying,he get a lil anoying,but i dotn seem to care,like everyone else.Some one told me im in love,and others tell me im just wierd like him.But i dont know...everyone tells me he is obnoxious...but hes mine.

2006-11-02 05:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by dev 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Pat who is 18yrs like me and wants to elope with his gf of 8 months they have a long distance relationship only saw each other for 3 months of dating she went to college out of state. They want to elope over the fall break and i was invited as a witness. I have been polite about it but my friend Pat keeps asking me what i think we have been friends for 4 almost 5 years and i dont want to be rude but i think its a bad idea.Am i wrong should i just smile through it?

2006-11-02 05:12:36 · 6 answers · asked by shelly m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example if you broke up with me for another girl 20 years ago I would have thrown my body across the bed sobbing "I'm gonna kill myself." And if you try that sh!t now I'm going call you once and say after being up all night doing drugs, drinking, and evaluating our situation I'm coming to kill the two of you!

2006-11-02 05:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

Next to nothing and in some cases just there underwear.
They kept on inviting me in to there shops to look at there goods as well.

Did I just walk in to a parallel universe where all my dreams were answered,
Or is Soho always like this in the run up to Xmas......???

2006-11-02 05:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the reason y i say this because he doesnt say i love you anymore or talk sweet to me anymore he is always in a bad mood. but i dont want him to break up wit me. wat should i do.

2006-11-02 05:11:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 05:10:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Pat who is 18yrs like me and wants to elope with his gf of 8 months they have a long distance relationship only saw each other for 3 months of dating she went to college out of state. They want to elope over the fall break and i was invited as a witness. I have been polite about it but my friend Pat keeps asking me what i think we have been friends for 4 almost 5 years and i dont want to be rude but i think its a bad idea.Am i wrong should i just smile through it?

2006-11-02 05:10:04 · 3 answers · asked by shelly m 1 in Singles & Dating