I wasn't really sure where to put this question but it involved my friend and I so that is where i will put it. Yesterday my friend and I were in an accident where noone was hurt but his car got really messed up and we nearly hit a street light after we slammed into the curb, if we were going faster the car could have flipped and so yeah it really messed with my head thinking that /i am lucky to be here today. I was wondering if this happened to anyone else and if it effected your life. Also I recently was broken up with by the love of my life and after yesterday I just really need to be with her today because she is everything today. Is it too much for me too ask this of her I mean she says she still wants to be friends and if one of my friends was in an accident i would want to be there for them. But i just dont know how to handle it because i dont want to make her feel bad being like i almost died yesterday but i want her to realise i could be dead and i could be gone forever
2006-11-02 05:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey, I'm sorry about this incident, but everything happens for a reason, and maybe this is it: reappreciating everything that you are and all that you have, giving you a different perspective of life. I don't think its too much of you to ask your friend to be with you. But all that depends on what level and to what extent. For example she may not be comfortable with intimacy, since you are supposed to be 'friends' for now, cause I think she may think that you'd be using the accident as an excuse to have your way or gain sympathy and all that. You need to state clearly your terms for needing her, and let her know what you need her for. And if you need her for keeps and all that, then maybe you could ask her that too, but not too soon after this accident. Take your time and see if she'd still keep coming and things may kick off from there. Glad to know you're alive and well... dudes in my town haven't been so lucky with accidents this year...
2006-11-02 05:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by blueheartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex broke it off with me and he had a few wellness problems and instructed me he learned that he could not are living without me. He stated that he felt like he used to be going to die and now that he did not he desires a moment threat. I'm seeking to deliver it to him however I do not consider the identical method approximately him. Be cautious for the reason that you might come to be wasting the friendship too! I have no idea what to inform him now, I consider like I've led him on accidentally and I do not understand how to wreck it off with out devastating him. Good good fortune and simply watch out.
2016-09-01 06:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not to much to ask her to spend time with you but honestly you can' t excpect a love relationship to reform out of this
2006-11-02 05:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things like this help people realize. I would go be with her...if you KNOW that you love her...go be with her
2006-11-02 05:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by miss allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋