the reason y i say this because he doesnt say i love you anymore or talk sweet to me anymore he is always in a bad mood. but i dont want him to break up wit me. wat should i do.
2006-11-02 05:11:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.
2006-11-02 05:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I can say is do nothing to save this relationship, if he's not doing anything to make it last, then why should you do all the work? Let him go, there will be other guys that are interested and will treat you the way the way that you should be treated. like a PRINCESS!!! In case that you still want to save this relationship, talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doesnt seem like he cares, then you know that it is time to move on to someone better! It's hard to accept and move on, but you can do it!!! Have a strong belief in you that you are a woman and nothing in this world can stop you from being what you are...being AWESOME!!!
*Good luck
2006-11-02 05:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is talk to him. Just because he is in a bad mood and doesn't say he loves you all of the time doesn't mean anything. He could be going through something right now. On the other hand he could be unhappy in the relationship. Don't guess and don't jump to conclusions. Just talk to him and find out what is going on.
2006-11-02 05:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? - Tell him you get the vibe that he needs a break. Then give it to him... Leave him completely alone for a while... He'll let you know by his actions what he wants in the long run. You can't always get what you want. And you can't force someone to love you. BUT you are an OUTSTANDING, FANTASTIC, & BEAUTIFUL person! Don't wait too long... Go out and have some fun!
2006-11-02 05:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation : ( its really hard to know whats right because you tend to think with your heart in a relationship. But this time you need to think with your brain and not your heart. you first need to talk to him about how you feel (you feel he is losing interest in you..etc) and after think about what is really better for YOU? to feel unloved if you feel he won't change, or find someone that will treat you better? i don't want to lose my bf either (we've been together for 2 1/2 yrs ) and trust me i know it would be hard to let go, but you can't make him stay with you if he isn't happy. Maybe talk about what you guys can both do differently to make it work!
2006-11-02 05:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it..It might make him mad tho, because i had a guy like that..But talking about these things is always good for a relationship. Let him know how you feel..If it dont work, Im sorry! But you or anyone else shouldnt have to be put through that! good luck! let me know what happens!
2006-11-02 05:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Beatty's♥Girl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about it. He could be stressed or feeling depressed? If he IS thinking about breaking up with you, it's better for you to talk about it and it happen rather than avoiding this conversation and ignoring each other for 6 months.
2006-11-02 05:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by newmum06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is already in his mind, then there is no stopping him. Instead of torturing yourself by not knowing, you need to talk to him. The faster you find out something, the better for you. You won't have to live in fear of him dumping you, it will be done (or not), but at least you would know.
2006-11-02 05:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you got to be independent and learn that one guy will the be the leading "honcho" in your life. Honestly, if he does not say, "I love you, " anymore then he doesn't deserve it..... leave him, leave him!
Just remember there is a better guy and better match always waiting to be discover, uncover your mind and look for him.
2006-11-02 05:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by valerie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and ask him what is wrong... and if he says nothing say i only ask because you seem to be in a bad mood all the time and i am concerned ... that is all you can do... you cant stop someone from leaving you...
2006-11-02 05:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋