Women always say, "looks don't matter. It's all about personality." You mean to tell me that if a guy is ugly but has a great personality, then he is attractive?!?!?! I have a great personality, yet women don't like me because I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck.
2006-11-02 05:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some truely believe this and some just say that cause they don't want to admit that they're shallow.
2006-11-02 05:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When listing your traits, you left out that you have low self esteem and a poor self image! And THAT'S probably why women don't like you. Plus, you call us all liars!
To be honest, looks don't matter. Now..... good hygiene matters. And pride in personal appearance matters. And good grooming matters. But we don't care about your nose, your hairline, or your neck.
So you may think you have a great personality, but based on what you wrote you obviously don't. Why not try to work on your self confidence and personality over the next year. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Oh, and while we are being perfectly frank with each other. If the only women you are interested in dating must have big boobs, long legs and blonde hair, that's another problem you will want to work on!
Good luck ;-)
2006-11-02 05:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Looks matter. Just like you guys won't venture out with a flat-chested, scraggly hair girl who doesn't know how to dress.
What really matter in the looks department for MOST women is if you look clean, do you SMELL clean, are you clothes CLEAN, do you actl like you have half a brain, do you give off a creepy aura or not. THATS what matters.
Everyone can look past an item or two. its up to you to do whatever you feel like to make yourself more attractive. Big nose? get it fixed. balding? get it fixed. long neck? wear turltle neck sweaters....
Don't complain about women lying when its really a person thing.
2006-11-02 05:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they mean to say is looks do not matter to a certain extent..I won't lie to you and I think first impressions are the most important thing. If you look like hell, chances are I won't initiate anything...but who's to say that I wouldn't come around after a while. When I first met my boyfriend I didn't see anything attractive about him, but he gave me a very good honest first impression so we became friends, I've been with him for 3 years and I'm completely attracted to everything he has, even the flaws have become cute.
2006-11-02 05:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sort of true. I am currently talking to a guy that Im so not attracted to. But his conversation is great. He says all the things that I want to hear. Ive only known him for 2 weeks and Im still talking to him because of his personality. So I will see how things will work out. If I'm not attracted to him in the future then we can still remain friends if he's ok with that.
2006-11-02 05:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many women have told you that's the reason they don't like you? And who is the judge of your personality? Those are very objective things and if you are the one doing the judging.....
As for your very general question, I'm sure there are some women for whom looks do matter but for many of us they don't. My boyfriend would not be considered attractive in the conventional sense in the slightest, yet to me, because I am in love with him, he is the best-looking guy I know.
2006-11-02 05:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's just your timing and you still have not got the right one. no rush. last time i did tell myself i'll never fall in love with a guy that has a big tummy but hey my husband has got one even when we were dating and he's balding too from the beginning we knew each other and never good looking too but that's not the contributing factors for a successful marriage or not. it takes more than that. don't pressure yourself too much, there are still good and genuine ones in this world.
2006-11-02 06:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bitter a lot? I see in basic terms as many adult men placed up %. of themselves like that. and everybody cares approximately seems to a undeniable quantity. I must be attracted to a guy yet that doesnt propose he has to look like a type. And if i placed up a image of me the place i seem lovable its to no longer have intercourse. Its using fact its a lovable photograph. undeniable and straightforward quit being so bitter and enjoying the blame recreation.
2016-10-21 03:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lie. Looks matter until you get to know a guy. Then, they seem to not matter at all.
2006-11-02 05:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU think you have a great personality? maybe you flatter yourself so-o-o-o much, you don't give women a chance to flatter you...
2006-11-02 05:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋