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Question

What do you think about your s/o watching pornography?Do you get jealous or do you gladly approve it?

Am i the only person who doesnt approve? Why would i want MY MAN to be lusting and getting off over another? Hey, make your own 2gether!

Answer 1

Whole heartedly disapprove. Not because Im jealous but because I figure why even pursue a relationship with me if you just want tons of other women to look at. Thats not what I have in mind for a lifelong committment.

Answer 2

I gladly approve. I could care less about pornography. I have great self esteem and feel that I am up to par in the bedroom. Me and my husband watch pornos together sometimes. Even during sex at times we watch pornos. It is just a preferrence and doesn't bother me at all. Although a friend of mine doesn't allow her man to watch pornos in her house. I figure the more open you are with your s/o the better the relationship. Some men watch them to see what they are missing in their relationship. My suggestion is not to watch them if you don't plan on performing most of what you see LOL.

Answer 3

Both of us watch it. Sometimes together, but usually alone. I watch a lot more than she does. I don't care if she watches it at all. I wouldn't necessarily say that I gladly approve of it. More like it doesn't give me any emotional response one way or the other.

Fantasy is a huge part of human sexuality. Porn is one way of exploring that. To expect all of your s/o's fantasies to only include you is just plain unreasonable.

Answer 4

i see nothing wrong with it and in some cases it helps out a bit in the bedroom, because from it you can get ideas for trying new and fun things to do. also i must confess this is how ilearn to give good oral pleasure by watching porns.

now watching with your s/o is fine, but if the s/o is watching too much of them or does not let you enjoy it with them, there might be more to it than the normal behavior. also if that is all they want to do or only get off when it is on, there might be more psychological problems there. but for the most part, it is very healthy and enjoyable.

Answer 5

the way i look at it is its better to be lusting over a video or magazine than a real person. what you should do is watch or look at the magazines together. bottom line men are horn doggs i dont think you should be offended if your husband is watching porn if he watching it with another woman i would start to worry but if its just him watching it by himself or with you dont worry about it.
if i were you i would blow him while he watched it. lol that sounded like i was gay what i meant is if you want to make him happy blow him while hes watching it and if you do that when ever he want to go out with the fellas (your other question) you can pull out the porno and that tells him if you stay home tonight ill blow ya lol
trust me im a man that will work

Answer 6

It depends on how I feel. If I am going through a confident day and I feel good about myself it would not affect me. On the other hand, if I am self-conscious and do not like myself that day, having my husband look at "drop dead" gorgeous women does not help.
It also depends on when, where and why he is watching pornography. If he wants us to watch together it is different from catching him watching alone...

Answer 7

I probably watch more than he does....it gives us ideas and spices up our sex life, but no I have no reason to be jealous because he usually only watches it when I am away. I would rather him watch someone else on T.V then for him to actually go out and get him some live action.

Answer 8

I wouldn't want him to look at porn, that is what he has me for and if I am not enough, then he doesn't need me. If we watched a movie together, that may be one thing, but if he is doing it behind my back, that is another. Especially if he looks at it and then comes to me all hot and bothered and wanting some. That would piss me off so bad, cause if he has to get excited from somewhere else and then come to me, then he doesn't need me, he has 2 hands.

Answer 9

It doesn't bother me at all. The only time my husband would watch pornos or go to a strip club is with me, though. I am confident in the way I look so no other woman intimidates me. I know others might be better looking, but I am the one he comes home to!!!

Answer 10

Whoa!!!

50 answers in 13 minutes!

I think it is alright to have a s/o who watches porno.

My last girlfriend liked to watch them, and she even had a few of her own that we would watch together.

My current girlfriend thinks that all porno is terrible, and wants nothing to do with it.

I think it is much different for men than it is for women, but it is cool with me if my s/o wants to watch some Baw chica bow bow---or however than porno rif goes.