Why girls always blame men for being a jerk and treating them badly? (Men and Women pls answer!!!)?

Question

Where in reality... men went bad because of women...
Not all, but most men...
They experienced heart break and many love fool games played by women...
Then they realized... that good guys finish last...
So they stop being mr. nice guy... and started to play the girls instead?

There are many more women who cheated compared to men...
Facts are out there...
For example, only 18% of men contracted STD while 68% of women contracted STD last year according to CDC...
So it means that 18% of men causing 68% of women STD, hence... more women fooling around instead of men...

To tell you the truth... I'm in the verge of giving up being mr. nice guy and to start being a jerk/player...
It's not me... but it hurts when you got played, especially if you're in the place where you can play with them, too (but you chose not to)...

Give me your honest opinions!!!

Answer 1

You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening... Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.

Answer 2

Wow....hunny don't be so bitter. First off just because more women contracted STDs than men does not mean they are cheating more. Because of anatamy it's easier for a woman to contract an STD than a man. When a man has sex with a woman with an STD he doesn't always contract the disease....women usually will contract it if they have sex with a man with an STD. As far as the being played/jerk part of the question, both men and women need to make an effort to understand each other in order to build a good relationshp. The sexes are different. We operate differently, and can work well together, but not the same. These "games" you accuse women of playing may not be games but rather their attempt at having a relationship with you that you don't undertand. Work on your communication and try to think about what she is going to want from you, not what you would want from you. If this is off base, than you just haven't found the right girl. There are lots and lots of great girls out there looking for the right man. Be that man and you will end up happier in the long run.

Answer 3

Men have been blaming women for everything in the world that's gone wrong for thousands of years, and treated them as slaves and objects with the full permission of all the bibles and priests.

Men even blame their sexual desires on women and then if they don't get what they want, they blame the woman again.

Sorry Your facts about who cheats more, men or women are wrong if not twisted, the facts are out there, and I hope you find them. You might also believe it is a womans fault that men don't use condoms that could be effectively used to prevent STD transmission.

Women have a much much much greater investment in the one egg they release each month and they take relationships much more seriously than men who produce millions of their 'eggs' every day and then spend all their time trying to spread them around. Relationships between the sexes are about biology and women know that the result for her could be a child, and she knows that a child needs security and so she knows she needs a man who can provide security for her child to ensure the child's survival. If you can't offer a woman what it is she needs, why offer her something she doesn't need or want.

Please don't join any witch hunts or believe the lie that Eve lead Adam down the garden path, 'cause if you do, no woman will ever be safe around you.

If you want to be a jerk or a player you'll just be joining the ranks, why not be genuine, real, and just be yourself. Playing games is for kids.

Answer 4

1) women say this because men are more vocal about their viciousness towards us.
2) women and men suffer heartbreak and we all should be sympathetic towards that
3) the stats on STD's in men is actually much higher than that. Men contract HPV and HSV just as much but symptomwise they are least likely to show any. You may want to re-read some medical journals before you start posting things on STDs.
4) it is statistically proven that men are more apt to cheat than a woman. Why? Because they love the chase and the thrill. Women will only do so when we aren't getting any at home or because our hubbies / boyfriends continually turn us down when we want sex.
5) Women much prefer the Mr. Nice Guy over the Bad Boy anyday. For you to become a jerk / player means you will not find happiness.

Time for you to rethink your questions. Just because you have been heart broken doesn't mean all women are the bad ones. It takes 2 to tango and 2 to make or break a relationship. Obviously for you to feel this much pain to write this type of questions on Yahoo, I'd rethink how you are in a relationship that you got hurt this bad.

Answer 5

Oh boy!

That statement about STD's is ignorant, and while it may be factually accurate, you are wrong.

Woman because of the ways their bodies are (receptive) contract STD's much easier than men, and some men are only carriers and do not actually contract the disease itself.

But that's not the point.

Yes, some woman do like bad boys. But few woman, even the ones attracted to "bad boys" like to be mistreated and used.

There is a thrill and allure to a "bad boy". A sense (albeit incorrect) of empowerment by association. Like if you can control a man like that what can't you do. & there is a sexiness about them that seems to rub off and make a woman feel very sexy.

This is just my take. But at the end of a day, when a woman finally gets around to figuring it out. What she really wants is someone that is honest and good to her. Someone that will be there for her and not break her hearts, like bad boys are prone to do.

I say be who you are and you will find a girl that will love you for it. Don't try to be this image you think girls want or succumb to using girls just because you can. Can you really live with yourself being that kind of guy?

Answer 6

First things first, don't stop being the nice guy, because all women are stupid until they reach about 25!! Then they start to realize they can't tame the asshole, and start to look for the good guy! This is when you should be looking for the woman, before then you should just have a good time, do what you want in life, after all you only live once! When you start acting like the jerk then the word will spread and the one woman that may be perfect for you will only view you as a JERK and you could miss out!! So stay the course and it will be worth it when you finally find your soul mate!!! Good Luck!!

Answer 7

First of all, I simply must respond to the statement you have made about women and STDs. It is a well-known fact that men, in comparison to women of course, are more likely to have multiple partners in their lifetime. With that said, wouldn't it make more sense to state that there are several men out in the world who are fooling around with many different women, therefore increasing the possiblity of spreading sexually transmitted diseases? I think so. (With all of that said, I want you to do one thing for me: a little research. See if you could find some statistics concerning male/female unions and the transmittal of HIV/AIDS. Let me know what you find. I think the statistics will startle you.)

Secondly, I agree: there are some women out there who have out-rightedly broken the hearts of many good men. As gut-wrenching as my previous statement may sound, do you really feel that it gives men, women--heck anyone--the right to unfairly play the field? Absolutely not! People get hurt. People move on. Turning into this "player" that you speak of will only keep the vicious cycle (cheating) going. Wouldn't you agree?

Answer 8

women talk more and express there feelings after a break up whereas a man will just say it didnt work and try move on which makes them look like they've no feelings and dont care so i think thats why men get the bad name as for being a player it wont make you feel any better your either that kind of person or your not dont give up you'll find someone who's right for you just be carefull and take your time to get to know the women it'll be easy to spot the players

Answer 9

No that just means that there are some men with STD's spreading it to multiple women because men have multiple partners as you put it "playing the girls" in which girls is plural. You should do a little more research.

Answer 10

uh...of those 68%.....with who did these women contract the STD? a horse? monkey? dog? or was it those 18% percent working overtime?

love is a two way street. it is an acomplishment by two people. if one doesn't love the other, they need to move on. and stop wasting the other person's time.