i have always been told that love is unconditional, but if u think it deeply, being unconditional is also a condition!! may be we can expect only love from our partner but expecting love is also a condition.. isn´t it so?
2006-11-02 04:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Tabbu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO DEAR PEOPLE LOVE THE PEOPLE WITHOUT GETTING THEIR LOVE. ONLY THAT IS CALLED LOVE.
2006-11-04 14:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we say love is unconditional , there are no conditions set, not even the "love": from the partner. The person who gives unconditional love does not have any particular reason for loving, She does not say, i love you because you love me, or because you are kind, or because you are beautiful;etc. Instead she says, I love you because I love you.. It is the ultimate kind of love because it awaits no reward and expects nothing in return, (even love), perseveres no matter who the beloved is and what he does. It is a selfless type of love. Only very few people could do this. It is a noble challenge that lovers should try to meet. It combines romantic love with spiritual love. One perfect example is the love of a mother for her kids. I know you got my point.
2006-11-02 13:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking about it too much. Unconditional love means you give your love freely-thats it. It does not mean you will accept peoples crap though. I think people confuse love for doing things for people. You can love someone and not see them for years-thats unconditional. You can also love someone unconditional and choose to change the form of the relationship.
2006-11-02 13:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by sevensisters808 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional...
Like you said.. it may be conditional from girlfriends...
But true unconditional love is from parents...No matter who you are... how you are born...and how you will treat them later....
Instead of all these unknowns they love you with their whole heart and always think what's good for you.... So, do yo need anymore unconditionality....:)
2006-11-02 13:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by comfortably numb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Its correct. True love has to be unconditional/no question/no arguments/no ifs n buts.. yes when it turns into marriage this is subject to many vague conditions. thats why it is said that marriage is the only war where two enemies sleep together,. for mor send me an email at carmaexpo@yahoo.co.in [where do u live. i am from india ]send me ur mobile no. .R
2006-11-02 14:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, what great answers. There is unconditional LOVE.
2006-11-02 14:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entering into hair-splitting argument for nothing. Any relations, excepting perhaps the love of a mother to the child, has to be on a reciprocative basis. Love if unrequited will wither away.
2006-11-06 02:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you have kids, then you will truly understand what unconditional love is...trust me and all the other parents out there...
2006-11-02 13:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jaybird 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all love is a state of mind and has no pre requisite conditions.
Love is truly un conditional coz love is accepting one with all his/her plus and minus points as it is without any ill comments, or requests for any changes according to ones whims and fancies.
true love never expects the same love from the other side.
true love is 'giving up' not taking anything from the person whom you love.
the above points are not conditions, but they are the characteristics of true love.
So love can be between anything with anything/ anybody with anybody
2006-11-06 06:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love we care his/her feeling so much nd dont expect any caring from the other one. We dont ever say that we have done so much for him /her. For love we have to sacrifice our own happiness. We have to live for others happiness nd onething more if we LOVE someone then its not important that he/she should also love us so if it is needed we have to live without him/her also for the whole life. If we expect then that's not LOVE. So Love is unconditonal means that there should be no conditions for the person to whom u Love. But u have many conditions for it.
2006-11-05 02:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by sangeeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL OF SAYS THAT LUV IS UNCONDITIONAL BUT IN REAL SENSE AND IN MORE DEEPER WAY,ITS VERY CONDITIONAL .
U WANT 2 CHANGE BAD QUALITIES IN YOUR LOVED 1(OBVIOUSLY FOR HIS/HER GUD) IS JUST LIKE ANY CONDITION.
KEEPING CONDITIONS IN LUV WILL DO NO HARM ,IT WILL JUST HELP 2 GROW THE RELATIONSHIP AND WILL EVEN INCREASE THE UNDERSTANDING LEVEL.
2006-11-02 13:08:47 · answer #11 · answered by MISS roy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋