how did it make you feel? howd you cope?
2006-11-02 04:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by rom s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband cheated and left before we were married. I was so relieved when he came back after a month I immediately married him. Now I feel that was a bad decision. I love him but I married him out of relief that he was back. Here it is two years later and I'm still not completely over it and can't trust him. He doesn't trust me even though I've never cheated because he's a cheater he doesn't trust. So there is no trust here in our relationship... I think we need counseling but I think he has too much pride to go with me. I just think about what he did and my blood boils, I don't know how to deal with this hurt inside. Sometimes I want to kick him out the door... but when I think of how attached my son is to him, how much I don't want to be alone and the love that we do have I just can't do it.
2006-11-02 05:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lorie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing here is how do you feel? This is not about testing him to see whether he is prepared to lose it all - surely by cheating on you for the past year, he is showing you there are serious problems in your relationship. Do you want to stay with him? He might leave you, he might not. The real question is will you leave him? My advice would be to think long and hard about whether you want to stay with this man. Even if you do, a break from each other may be good. There are issues if he is cheating and they need to be addressed rather than ignored. Good luck - whatever happens, I hope you and your child are happy.
2016-05-23 17:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did. I was pregnant at the time. It was a gym trainer that knew we were married and knew I was pregnant. At the time it hurt like hell, and not so much for me, but for my son I was bringing into the world immediately screwed up. I went to counseling and dealt with it. It made me stronger, and I knew next time what I wanted in a relationship. And, after 4 years I met a truly great man and re-married. Things happen for a reason. Keep the faith. Turn to friends and family for support and stay busy.
2006-11-02 04:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
at least 50% have. They feel hurt and they cope by being numb.
2006-11-03 00:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud Carey L
2006-11-02 04:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋