he says he wants to b friends then date and so on ,says he really likes u a lot, misses u n all but hes been hurt in the past, still thinks about his ex although its been over a year n she hasnt contacted him at all, hes always busy, has no time to spend with u, u guys talk like maybe once a week, but he says he really misses u bla bla bla, he says he isnt seeing anyone, isnt ready to date....why cant he just make up his mind and keeps u waiting??????????
2006-11-02 04:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by mery b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it alone for awhile see what he does. If he does nothing then find someone who will.
2006-11-02 04:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pull back and he'll pursue a bit. Accept it for what it is and enjoy.
But it appears you two are looking for two totally different things.
You want committment, he want's casual relationship. You need dependability, he needs freedom.
It can't be what you want and it can't be what he wants. That is why he is staying away. He reads the writing on the wall. You do not.
Two ships pass in the night usually only once because they are going to totally different directions. Unless of course their course is the same. This isn't the case with you two however.
So, remember the rendevous with a smile, don't expect it to happen again. But if it does, so much the better.
2006-11-02 04:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't make up his mind anytime soon and if you two do get together and date seems to me like he'll still think about his ex plenty anyway. He's a waste of time, he isn't going to change and he isn't gonna get over her anytime soon, forget about him. Move on.
2006-11-02 04:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me he is just using you. He has made up his mind about the two of you he wants to be friends once a week then you don't hear from him for another week
2006-11-02 04:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by cbrwyrn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush. a lot of men just hope back on to the dating scene and hurt others. so let him be. i hope a lot of us don't talk about the same guys. the world is small. he sounds like some1 i know
2006-11-02 04:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is with someone elese! he's just pulling your tail he does like you as much as he says cuz if he REALLY liked you he would have been with you a long time ago... your just another option for him when the other girl fails.... somewhat of a booty call and beleive me honey he is seeing someone dont doubt that im a guy and i know the game he is playing.
2006-11-02 04:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the male version of playing hard to get, he wants to see how interested in him u are, if u dont make extra effort then he probably wont wanna date u, if u do make the extra effort than he will def. date u
2006-11-02 04:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is confused,,, & doznt know wat 2 do,,or how to propose u! m sure he likes u but i guess he doznt wana lose u & takes u only as a frnd....may b u misunderstood him... & took his frndship as a deep relation more than a frnd.Or may b he still misses her x & u never know... he too busy in his work as not able to take out time4 u... so u juz give him surprise or if u feel like telling ur feelings to him...go ahead
best luck!
2006-11-02 04:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting him. The answer is simple...don't wait. Either tell him you want a relationship and forget about his ex, or dump him!
2006-11-02 04:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls also do this, its the fear of being hurt in a new relationship and the fact that they want to be with you(as a matter of fact ive seen this happen to more guys than girls). if you sense that he wants to be with you just hang out and he'll reveal himself to you
2006-11-02 04:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by hector s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋