2006-11-02 03:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try to hold out as long as possible, which is difficult from day one. I can usually make it two weeks without exploding :)
2006-11-02 04:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really does depend on the guy and the attraction that you two have together. I would say on average I usually wait about 2 months just to make sure that he plans on sticking around for awhile. But I'm not gonna lie, I've hooked up on the first night but those one nighters never turn into real meaningful relationships.
2006-11-02 12:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by gbsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually depends on what I'm looking for at the moment (a fling or a relationship) and the chemistry between me and the guy. If I'm looking for a fling, then usually by the second date I'm good to go. If it's a relationship that I'm after, then I wait much longer. It's hard to say what kind of time frame since every relationship is different.
2006-11-02 12:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a lot longer if I like him a lot. If I'm not that fussed it will be quicker (probably first date) because I dont care to know him that much, dont care if I dont see him again, do like his body and am aware that I might be celebate for a long time. Sleep with me too soon and you will not get to do it often..if ever again as I definitely wont respect YOU in the morning. Yes it does work both ways.
2006-11-02 12:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month to six weeks. It depends on how often I see the person. If we hang out a lot then thats the average. But I once dated a guy for seven months before anything happened. We only saw each other every other weekend because of our jobs.
2006-11-02 12:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually make the guy wait 6 months, cause there is that faze within the first 6 months your in that infatuation stage you think its love, after 6 months your comfortable with each other and the true self comes out, and you know if there werthy or not of your time and hot passionate sex.
2006-11-02 12:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the girl then the sex should wait. I would wait until I truly felt that i loved the guy and he loved me back. Sex is nothing without the love. I would wait until I fell in love, however long that would take. There's only one guy for me.
2006-11-02 12:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the chemistry - a woman knows from the first impression if you are worth it for a LTR or just a one night stand, or not at all...
2006-11-02 12:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, my first boyfriend it was within hours and that relationship ended horribly bad. My second boyfriend after a week and a half.
2006-11-02 12:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with my hubby on the first date and we've been together 14 years, married 12. no kids. very happy.
2006-11-02 12:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋