i thought something was up, but he just said he'd "sort it". i did my best to relax and not think too much of it. then he went out one night, and i happened to go to the same place (he knew fully well i was going with a friend, it had been planned for a week) and we got on ok. and after a few drinks we started to argue. this resulted in him drink driving, and when his dad caught him he made up an elaborate tale about me beating him up. obviously his family wasnt happy about it, but it's not true. since then ive had his sister give me abuse, and he barely spoke to me for a week. after days of being treated like nothing, i ended it with him. that same night apparently he woke up next to a girl he used to work with, naked, but "he didn't sleep with her". i believe hes been contacting her for a while. when i confronted him, he said it was lies and he heard i had been with someone, and then when i was upset, he started shouting at me and beat me up. i didnt do anything. help?
2006-11-02 04:17:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look your so called bf is a "player". Look the biggest sign is that he ended up in bed "naked" with a girl he used to work with. Well if you believe nothing went on I have some land to sell you in "Iraq". Look noone gets in bed with a person of the opposite sex and nothing happens. I am sorry but being a guy I know if I was in bed naked with a female, I know what would happen. Look this so called "bf" is a loser. Let him go. You really do deserve better than this. There is someone out there who will treat you like a lady and not play all these silly little games and lie to you. Come on "naked" in bed with a female and nothing happens.
2006-11-02 04:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, call the police and show them the bruises and have them arrest him. It sounds like this guy has some serious mental issues. Secondly, stay as far away as possible from him. No matter what he says, no matter how sweet you think he is being, this will happen again.
2006-11-02 04:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the drama. He obviously is very immature. Move on and don't subject yourself to lies. You are just dating that means you are free to cut ties. Tell him you no longer want to deal with a drunken drama fest of arguing and lies. Better yet change your number and move on. If you stay ask yourself why you put up with it.
2006-11-02 04:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better open up your eyes! Why would he be in bed naked with this chick at all? Any dude that lays hands on you need to get the hell on. If you stay that's your bad... it's seems to me that you already know what to do.
2006-11-02 04:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by ;)~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this on online the other day... When it starts to not feel right any more, get out! You are not married, you do not owe each other another and another chance. It's only bound to get worse. Get out and chalk it up to another one of life's experiences!
2006-11-02 04:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him for abuse . And maybe get a restraining order against him.
2006-11-02 04:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if u 2 r compatible.
2006-11-02 04:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clapping you get the emmy
2006-11-02 04:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to re evaluate your life lady??
are you that depressed with your life that this guys has you so messed up??
2006-11-02 04:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋