my b/f asks me all the time what im thinking about and whats on my mind even when im fine he still asks, im getting sick of it and to the point where im gonna cuss at him but i dont want to how should i tell him to stop without hurting him?
2006-11-02 03:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reply with other lips. He will start thinking with his other head.
2006-11-02 04:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lol wow it sounds like you are dating me... Lol but only I ask a LOT MORE questions. If I (or he) did care, we wouldn't ask. Ummm I would say to take him by the hand and look him in the eye and say something like "I know you are how I feel but you constantly asking me that is a bit annoying". All else fails, when he asks you, instead of answering, ask him how he feels or thinks in a nonchanlant tone... Eventually he'll pick up the meaness in your voice... That is what some girls have done to me :-(
2006-11-02 04:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by beau0021 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you appreciate his concern but he's starting to get a tad bit annoying.
Ask his nicely to stop because his constant asking is causing you to what to curse him out and that could be a sign that your relationship is heading down the toilet because you are feeling nagged.
Just come out and tell him that you would like him to stop.
2006-11-02 04:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by sweetthang16_2004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that stop always asking and if something going wrong with you tell him that hes the first person who would you tell or do the same to him let him know how irritating is it.
2006-11-02 04:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by lolipop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he is lacking confidence in the relationship and wants to know if your thinking about him or if your bored with him. I can imagine that is getting pretty old. Maybe you should hint that your thinking of going home where you wont get asked so many questions lol
2006-11-02 04:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's nice... he wants to know how you think, he's interested in everything you do... Enjoy it while you can :) Once they marry you... ha ha ha
Now, seriously, he likes you a lot.
How to stop this?
Well, have you tried asking HIM the same questions? Before he has the chance to ask you... Repeatedly, as he does?
I think that could be a cure!
2006-11-02 04:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Doris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm he just wants to make sure youre ok, youre probably telling your ok but its just that he cares about whats going on in your head of course it can get annoying. you need to try to tell him that you need some privacy and need to think about stuff tell him firmly but not to harsh unless he is very sensitive he might cry or sumthin but
remeber "privacy, you-time (if you know what i mean) " firmly but not harsh
2006-11-02 04:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by J E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not asking if you are fine --- he is asking what you are thinking --- big difference
also if you tell him does he listen and concentrate on what you are saying
i would think he cares for you and wants to know how you think so that he can understand you better
2006-11-02 04:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him, find things to do with eachother that involve little time to talk, then every now and then ull be happy and appreciative to hear how much he cares about wats on ur mind
2006-11-02 04:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably ask because u did something that makes him question his ability to hold on to you. so have a all the question he want to ask day jus you and him then tell him after that u don't want to hear about it anymore.
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2006-11-02 04:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dizle 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him when there is something on your mind he will be the first to know but until then that it is very aggravating to you for him to keep asking whats on your mind
2006-11-02 04:02:24 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋