Would you ever break up with someone because you felt like you couldn't spend enough time with them? My friend who has been dating her boyfriend for 2 years just got broken up with, His excuse is that he hates that she is home at night..and that she doesn't care about spending a few minutes with him each night..he doesn't feel like its fair to her that he doesn't see her that much...I personally think its BS, but what do you all think? Would you ever break up with a person you have already been dating for 2 years just because you don't see them that much...and they do see each other more then just 15 minutes a night.
2006-11-02 04:11:33 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some people mis understood this when I first asked it....They live together....He is in a band and he practices alot...He says that he feels bad that she sits home at night and doesn't do anything. She is a very loving person and she does everything for him.
2006-11-02 04:14:00 · update #1
He also hasn't called her all week...she broke down and called him today.
2006-11-02 04:14:35 · update #2
No I def would not.
2006-11-04 00:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, seems to me like there is some underlying issue there that he isn't really putting out there. Just because you don't see someone that often doesn't mean you should break up with them. Also, seems to me like they already have a pretty strong connection (I mean 2 years is a long time) so even if they don't see each other that often, even though it might suck that that's how it is, they can still be together because they'll probably see each other at least every once in a while for as long as they want and spend as much time as they want with each other.
Imagine what people in long-distance relationships go through.
2006-11-02 04:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems to happen fairly commonly. It is a good thing that they broke up now, rather than have a messy break-up because he or she has chosen to cheat on their partner because of the issue. Obviously, this was a big issue in the relationship, and they just couldnt make it work. Granted, being together is part of what a relationship is, and they must have drifted apart and gotten too busy for each other.
2006-11-02 04:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. I think that why he broke up with her was the right thing to do. He did it out of love. Not to mention the fact that am sure he was brokenhearted as well. He wants the best for her and will always hold his love. But he knows she deserves someone to be with her more than he can. I know it leaves no closure that either one may see now. Later they both will see what they were missing and be happy. Noone can foretell what the future holds.My heart goes out to both of them.
2006-11-02 04:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weak way of breaking up with someone. Sounds like an excuse but better to hear this now than cheating later.
2006-11-02 04:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the reason he broke up with her is his own business. Different people have different needs in a relationship. If the needs of both partners or one partner can't be met then something needs to change or the relationship won't work. This guy needs something that he is not getting from his partner, and although it may seem silly to you or others, it might be of vital importance to him.
2006-11-02 04:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by cagewalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does seem like a pretty ridiculous reason to break up. There must be something else going on in the relationship then just not seeing each other.
2006-11-02 04:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone's not happy in a relationship then anything could make you want to break up. But I have a feeling that he's found someone else, or he's trying to make a point.
2006-11-02 04:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I could definetlty see breaking up with someone for that reason, if she can't find that much time to spend with him now, it will probally only get worse through time, and personally I would want someone who enjoyed being with me,
2006-11-02 04:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got some on the side. What a sorry way to break it off... shame he couldn't atleast be honest... most men are liars and cheats... tell her to count her blessings
2006-11-02 04:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no i felt the same way i only got to see my ex like twice a week i really think its BS to well ii wouldn't brake up with him just wait a little longer if it don't change then kick him to the curb girl
2006-11-02 04:17:11 · answer #11 · answered by mrs. jenkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋