My girlfriend is upset at me for not calling her last night. I fell asleep and didn't bother to call her to tell her good night or whatever. Why are women so sensitive about things like that, ugh!
2006-11-02 04:10:55 · 22 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, if you just honestly fell asleep and forgot to call her, she should understand that. I've done that too....but my bf never fought with me about it.
2006-11-02 04:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Monica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like two things:
1) she really REALLY likes you
2) she has some insecurities
So?
Just say you're sorry you feel asleep and didn't call..but it was just an accident - you were TIRED...I'd let her slide this time for being upset - but if she acts like that all the time - get rid of her quick as it will only get worse.
BUT...the other side of that is if you have a lot of "sorry I didn't call - I fell asleep"....going on ...then she should get rid of you..lol
An occassional thing like that though shouldn't be a biggie - she should be more concerned about YOU getting sleep you most apparently needed than her not getting a call ONE night. Shame on her. (but if you do that too often?...shame on you)
2006-11-02 12:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. My boyfriend and I did the long distance thing for 6 months and there were times he told me that he would call me back but didnt cause he fell asleep. Its nice that she wants to hear your voice before she goes to bed but to pick a fight over it, is just plain childish.
2006-11-02 12:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by jwylie38 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women expect a lot from their boyfriends. Not calling them or forgetting a certain important day will really burst their bubble. Patience is a virtue as they say, so better have loads of it while you kindly explain for the nth time why you didnt call her.:)
2006-11-02 12:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you fell alseep, you didn't forget, you were asleep. Women are just sensitive creatures by nature, but she should understand that you didn't forget.. you fell asleep.. big difference!
2006-11-02 12:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Just so you know. Not all of us are like that. If your gf really cared about you she should not get mad. You fell asleep and now youre in trouble for it? Sounds like she is just trying to pick fights. Its a waste of time to fight over crap like that.
2006-11-02 12:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyes 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i guess if you told her you would call and fell asleep you then she has a right to ask what happened... but then you would just reply that you had fallen asleep and that should have been the end of it.
2006-11-02 12:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if the girl is clingy and insecure. If my boyfriend told me he fell asleep, I may not be happy about it, but I wouldn't start a fight over it!
2006-11-02 12:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by ameerah m 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well not all women because I for one would not get mad. I dont think she should have either honestly she needs to grow up wat is she 15 to still be on that you didnt call me mission. No tell her to grow up stuff happens you feel asleep its not like you were doing anything bad. If she is going to be mad about the smallest things I would have a long talk with her because you dont want to be with someone so immature. Goodluck
2006-11-02 12:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by lola 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not really. but some guys have wandering eyes, so maybe shes just worried about you. But if you promised to call her before bed and didn't, she'll just think that you don't care about her anymore. she sounds like she might a little insecure, and only one person can help her with that. i think you know who that is...
2006-11-02 12:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋