Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

Okay, I am in a real emotional quandry. This guy likes me, he is a co worker. Well we kind of fooled around a bit, well I found out he had this big emotional attachment to me. I was shocked. I really like him but not like that. I never was interested in a relationship. I dont have the time right now because I am a full time college student and I am working two jobs just to make enough money to pay bills. What do I do, he also buys food for me and it makes me want to cry. I accept the food because I have money troubles and I need what I can get. Please dont make me seem like the bad guy, I never asked for this. What should I do? I dont want to hurt his feelings, im just not able to devote the emotional time for a relationship. PLEASE HELP ME :.(

2006-11-02 18:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by //// 3 in Singles & Dating

Yet they dont seem to return the the same love.
What am i doing wrong?

2006-11-02 18:42:14 · 18 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating

If we are couple and we want to live together, than is it necessary to be marry, cant we live together without marry or marry is necessary for life

2006-11-02 18:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by Shamshad (Fine Handicrafts) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 18:41:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 18:40:41 · 22 answers · asked by MissChatea 4 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if your boyfriend asked if you could wait to make love when you are married would you or would it put to much pressure on you. The only reason I ask is because I am a 24 year old virgin and I was wondering when I have a girlfriend how she will react to it. The only reason I would ask her to wait until then is because I only ever want to make love to one person in my life and that is my soul mate.

2006-11-02 18:40:39 · 34 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:38:12 · 30 answers · asked by adossi74 1 in Family

Recently I went to a party with my girlfriend. We separate ways in the party and we talk to different people. At some point, my girlfriend was consistently talking to a guy. And when the party was almost over, she was still talking to him, sitting quite close to each other. I noticed her, while talking and listening to the guy, maintaining a constant eye contact, and my girlfriend messes and brushes her long hair all the time. I was not talking to anyone at that time and she did not even notice me there even though I was standing, staring at her. Does that means she was flirting?

2006-11-02 18:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by Whatta 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:35:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we live in different countries and met while on holiday and we both got a crush on each other.

2006-11-02 18:34:05 · 13 answers · asked by blossomjade 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:33:55 · 12 answers · asked by purva s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know eye contact and body language are a few, but would like to know more and if you could elaborate on those i mentioned it would be much appreciated.

2006-11-02 18:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by Kal-El 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by zippo_3_crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by tinay 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my ex are kinda friends but not at times????he keeps confiding in me and telling me every thing thats going on from a-z and its driving me nuts......how can i put it to him litely not to confide in me so much....i hate hearing his problems.....and i can't just walk away from him like i can someone else...we do have a child together and thats what makes it so hard....and no feelings are there on my part....and men i would love your input.....

2006-11-02 18:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and dont tell me its obviuos because some girls aren't

2006-11-02 18:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by zippo_3_crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Overly protective? Or just protective? Or Laid Back?

I personally like when a guy is between overprotective and protective...

2006-11-02 18:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a boyfriend that is in jail we'd been living together for a year and a half before he got picked up- it's been 3 months since he was picked up and a guy asked me out on a date- still wanna be with Brandon when he gets out- SHould I go on the date? It's driving me crazy-

2006-11-02 18:23:34 · 22 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Singles & Dating

Iam a young father. My son is 5 months old. I want to bring up my child in a good way so that He grows into a good person and could face this world bravely and live upto his challenges. Please suggest me any ideas

2006-11-02 18:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by abc 1 in Family

2006-11-02 18:20:41 · 29 answers · asked by Tim C 1 in Weddings

I met this girl through my sister. While I used to hang with my sister during lunch when I would be out for a bit. She started hanging out with her. Before that she normally wouldn't. But i feel she's like another sister to me at this point. But I do have some feelings for her as well I don't know why though. I already have a massive crush on someone else. Anyways we went to this halloween event and we had some really good times over there in the corn maze and when I had fallen down she had helped me up. Whenever I'm with my sister after school she talks to her then starts talking to me as if she's not there.

Both of them are really close friends. So I don't know if she is seeing me as like another friend or not. I just don't know.

Whenever I'm quiet she gets me to start talking. We have one class together. She's kinda afraid to get really close to me I really at times like when we take pictures etc. She's really cute.

2006-11-02 18:20:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and isnt fat but isnt skinny.. but isnt skinnyer than you...

not that physical aspects matter right? =)

hahaa just that i feel that this guy wont like me because of these aspects..

2006-11-02 18:19:36 · 12 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

Please share some cute romantic stories u have? or even just an incident...

thanks :)

2006-11-02 18:19:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ya my high school gf is always horny...everytime we go to my house to watch a movie it will eventually lead up to sex. i enjoy it of course....but i like to do other stuff than that. ladies is there a way to lessen the sex.how should i tell her. i know its a guys dream but too much a good thing is a bad thing. thanx

2006-11-02 18:16:29 · 35 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and my girlfriend and i are quite ready to have sex. i like her a lot and weve been together for 5 months now. im a virgin though, and im a little worried about how im gonna perform. For example, im worried that the first time i penetrate is gonna feel so good that im gnna come instantly. i masturbate and i dont come too quickly there, but i dont know if how long i last will be shorter or not. also, im not sure if my penis will satisfy her. i need some help! what should i expect for first time! and anyone making any sarcastic comments, please save them.

2006-11-02 18:16:04 · 8 answers · asked by yungjaf 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 18:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have recently been very disappointed by my family in that I felt they abandoned me in an inopportune time of crisis. I am not one to ask favors, so on the rare chance i do, I expect them done. didn't happen and the reason it didn't happen was unacceptable, imo.

So as a result I want to talk to my parents as little as possible.

Q:

What is the maximum amount of time-ballpark figure- I can *not* call them so as not to make them feel like I don't like them anymore or that I am 'abandoning' them?

They are kind of needy because they are both losers remarried to two others of equal or lesser value.

And I am the lowest common denominator, their son. I'd like to live my life and enjoy it.

Some of you are going to reply that i'm an awful person because you are going to assume I'm unforgiving or cruel or just a jerk because I don't like my family. If this is you, then please assist others with their answers- you won't do me much good and that's a waste of your precious time!

2006-11-02 18:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by C Neg 1 in Family

My friend has been dating Mary since high school. Now he is in college and only sees Mary every other weekend on so. He has met a girl at school he likes much better but is affraid to breakup with Mary because her daddy is well known to be a leader of organized crime in his home town. At least 250 miles from the school. He says he thinks Mary is not so much in love with him as she used to be. He works for Mary's Daddy's construction company during the summer. He orders supplies and does other office work for $25 an hour and needs the money for his school. What can he do?

2006-11-02 18:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating