ya my high school gf is always horny...everytime we go to my house to watch a movie it will eventually lead up to sex. i enjoy it of course....but i like to do other stuff than that. ladies is there a way to lessen the sex.how should i tell her. i know its a guys dream but too much a good thing is a bad thing. thanx
2006-11-02 18:16:29 · 35 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay.
And what does she do when you are not around...?
2006-11-02 18:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Transgénico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Getting in sexual relation everytime is not good. Because we are human beings not animal who have nothing to do but eat and can have sex any time. We are humanbeings we live in a society full of social responsibility. We have other things to do then having sex all the time. You better advice your friend to control herself. Sexually getting excited all the time will lead u and her in an awakard position someday in the future which u both wil repent. So,whever she is excited or want to have physical relationship. Advice her and tell her the pros & cons. The bad side of having sex all the time.
2006-11-02 18:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Noor12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear where youre coming from. Although Always wants sex is not a bad thing, go for it and enjoy.
You could cut deals perhaps, like oh baby yeah having a good hot time, then ask hey tomorrow would you like to ..(whatever other things you like to do) and take it from there. If she declines and this is something that is really bothering you perhaps you may consider finding a girl who meets you more half way.
Its all give and take isnt it?
2006-11-02 18:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by opinionative_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if it was someone else she wanted the sex with.
Other than that count your blessing my friend.
I totally understand what you are saying though. I have the worlds most beautiful wife. And she is extremely sexually attracted to me. I thank God for this every day.
I do need a break every once in a while also. We have been able to nurture a relationship in which we are able to tell each other anything. Good and bad. I tell her when I am tired and she is happy to pleasure herself.
Trust me.. If you don't just talk to her about it and understand each other... You will not make it together.
I hope this helps.
2006-11-02 18:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have a big problem. At a very young age for boys if your girlfriend gives you too much sex, your penis could fall off inside her. I am sure you have been wondering what does it mean when you have heard older men say "what was I thinking, sorry I lost my head". Well that is what they are talking about.
Your girlfriend sounds reckless and without reguard for your health. You only have one thing you can do. You must tie her up and tickle her with your toungue all over her body until this uncontrollable urge leaves her system.
Remember you only have one penis to give for your country so be careful please.
2006-11-02 18:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you want a serious relationship, then you may have a problems. Relationships that are built on sex only are superficial and destined to fail.
Consider these important questions.
1. Have I met her family and friends?
If the answer is no, then you have a problem. Chances are, you're just a f**k buddy.
2. Does she talk about your future? The future of the relationship?
If she never thinks about her future with you in it, you maybe in trouble.
2006-11-02 18:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it would really be hard to tell her that you dont want to over do it, but if you will use tactics like inviting her to crowded places, playing playstation games or hanging out with friends and being with others instead of just both you and her can lessen it, i dont think she would like it if you would tell her that you should lessen your intimate moments, but you could atleast plan ahead and do other stuff that both of you could enjoy,instead of going to your house why not eat outside, have a picnic,go to the beach with friends,or when you are at home refrain from renting too romantic films or too horrifying films, try hiring comedy ,or try learning how to cook instead with her, engage her in different activities, if you both have other things to do then you can perhaps lessen your sexual activity,be creative and be careful not to hurt her feelings
2006-11-02 18:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let her know how you feel. A girl does have her needs though. And if you enjoy the sex, why complain? Just tell her you want to do something other than sex, after sex or something. Maybe, she is just wanting to satisfy you. Especially considering that some guys just invite their gf's over when they want to "score". Just talk to her about it!
2006-11-02 18:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by laranita82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys arent going out for too long (not more than 6 months?). That could be 1 reason.. she is still enjoying the early stages of your relationship. Also since she is still very young, she is enjoying it as a process of life. Treat her well buddy & best of luck to you both!
2006-11-02 18:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really it is!!! Why don't you try to divert her attention by doing other things while at home, try some activities like playing basketball or any sports to make both of you busy. If she insist on doing it again pretend to get angry tell her that you will not be responsible if anything happens to her or if she gets pregnant (if you're that serious enough to prevent it from happening)
2006-11-02 18:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by athena123104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight....you took precious time that you could have been having sex with your GF to tell the whole wide world that you want to lessen it?
Heres my advice to you. Turn your computer off and call your GF. nuff said.
2006-11-02 18:26:49 · answer #11 · answered by lovelornlarry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋