If we are couple and we want to live together, than is it necessary to be marry, cant we live together without marry or marry is necessary for life
2006-11-02 18:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by Shamshad (Fine Handicrafts) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you don't want to get married, then don't do it.
you'll just want out of it after a while anyway.
it's not a negotiation, it's a partnership.
for life.
good luck
2006-11-02 18:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by J Blu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 22 I would first want to get to know my intended future wife better before saying "I do". As for what makes a successful marriage, that can differ with each couple. It is possible for couples to live together for many years without getting married, but as soon as the kids are born your whole dynamics will change and that's when the marriage word will start popping up more often in daily conversations. Some of the basic factors for a good marriage are trust, compromise, lots of love and understanding. You can build from there to fit your particular situation. And just because some of your family members have unorthodox marriages does not mean that will happen to you. You were raised in a different time period than them.
2016-03-28 05:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously not necessary, but it will probably sabotage the chances of you getting married in the future. I've lived with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We're so comfortable we don't even talk about marriage because it wouldn't change anything, and weddings and rings are expensive. It would actually hurt us to get married because I'd have to claim his income for my financial aid benefits. When you need their insurance and social security then get married. But if you don't need that stuff, and unless your being moral and romantic and can afford a wedding, marriage isn't necessary these days so don't sweat it.
2006-11-02 19:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is not necessary, but it might be important to the woman. Even if you don't see marriage in the near future it never hurts to try and living together before you go through the whole marrying thing. Lots of couples end up divorced because they rush into marriage. Just let her know that you don't see marriage right now, but you just may in the future.
2006-11-02 18:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, and everyone has different morals, but in my opinion I think you should live with someone before you get married. There are things that you guys do that the other doesn't know about. When you live together everything comes out. What if you get married, and something that your partner does drives you completely insane, then what?
2006-11-02 18:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jaclyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually the way I think is - couple should not marry at least first 3 years, they should just live together for a while and then decide what they want from each other or they want to break up.
2006-11-02 18:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well people marry because the law mandates it,the law instructs it,society pushes you to do it,well it not really necessary , but it is useful for example when you no longer want to be with each other if you are not married and you have been living together for several years, only the law could state on how you will divide you money and properties together if you are not married it will take a long long time,and you also marry for the sake and legitimacy of the children you might be having
so if you dont want to get married,and you just want to live together,dont have children,so that when you go your separate ways,,nobody will be destroyed and affected
2006-11-02 18:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not "necessary". Along with nearly everything in life, it's a choice. Live together all you want, nobody's going to punish you for not getting married.
2006-11-02 18:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are not yet ready for the marriage, then dont get married or else you are going to be in a deep trouble. wait for some until you think you are ready for the marriage. you can definitely stay as a couple without the marriage but make sure you dont have a physical relationship. I'm not in the favor of having sex before marriage, its my personal belief. Nonetheless, it is different with anyone. It depends on what are your priorities and how you are going to take them,
2006-11-02 18:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by mind 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be married to live together.
2006-11-02 21:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To live together marriage is not necessary but you will not be with your wife. It is effected by the wave length of mind and mutual understanding that both have.
The difference is your wife will share your struggle but the other one will pick up all your rags and leave you to struggle and live with another fellow at a right time.
Who is the loser?
2006-11-02 18:52:50 · answer #11 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋