2006-11-02 18:41:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everyday of my life....if its not the kids its hubby if its not hubby is my mum or a brother or a friend......its a light hurt nothing too serious....but thats what lifes about....
at the end of the day only the people you love can hurt you....as it is only them and their opinions that you value....
2006-11-02 18:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and here's how it goes, about a year ago after 13years of marriage which 10 of them were pretty good , we had our difficulties as usual, and we experimented with drugs and alcohol, we also had a son which is twelve now, so after a huge 4 day fight around sept. of last year, I snapped and had enough, told her we needed a break and two days later I had to go out of town for work which was gonna last about 3 months, with in two months time I was informed I didn't live thewre anymore so this not only pissed me off terribley it sent me into a downward spiral that turned into the worst time in my life, I went through depression as well as suicidal moments, filed for divorce and tried to drink my self silly as well as hold a job which I almost lost , any way one day I woke up with this feeling that I needed to change my life around so I went to talk to a preacher and confessed all my sins and signed up for a twelve step program, after enrolled in the program for a couple of weeks I was feeling better and decided to retract the divorce as well as confess my two infedelities to the wife, she didn't speak for another month, but then started talking again,I was led to believe that things could possibly work out untill april when I called home to check on repairs of the house which I had been sending money for as well as paying all the bills and an additional 1000.00 dollars every month faithfully. I believed I was a changed person and things were going to be alright, but her boy friend answered the phone and all hell broke loose again, now I was told that shge didn't want a relationship with me, she moved him in totally by december and he is still there, my son has totally copped an attitude with me and will not respond for nothing,and she claims she has not brainwashed him at all,not to mention there are three other grown adults living in this house and she has like an open door policy for any one with a sob story, in other words she takes in stray people like someone would take in dogs or cats. we don't communicate much any more and I'm finally filing for another divorce within a week and am not turning back this time. thanks for listening and asking. God bless
2006-11-03 04:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-03 02:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-03 02:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by VINIE J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-03 02:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I suffered domestic violence for years.I was thrown downstairs at 6 months pregnant.He hurt me physically,emotionally and mentally.To this day I am still quite withdrawn,I like to keep myself to myself.That way nobody can ever hurt me again.I have my kids and my partner.I cocoon myself with them because they are the only people that don't abuse me.I distance myself as much as possible from everyone.So yes,I have been hurt and it has affected my whole live and way of living.
2006-11-03 03:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it still hurts. I would give my left arm to get this person back. I lost them just over 3 weeks ago! Boy does it hurt!
2006-11-03 02:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by tunisianboy46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but this is a very general question. Even children feel hurt by there sisters, brothers, friends and parents. Please be specific. Are you asking if the hurt was from a former partner?
2006-11-03 02:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I "loved" or someone I "love"? Yes to all.
2006-11-03 03:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely!! It happened 4 weeks ago and I am just feeling better! Got a hot date tomorrow - that'll take my mind of it!
2006-11-03 04:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋