2006-11-02 18:38:12 · 30 answers · asked by adossi74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have to get away from this man. there's something seriously wrong with him. find a friend that you can stay with until you get a place of your own, but please get out of there. if he would do something like this, there's no telling what he's capable of.
I'm very sorry this happened to you, but you're going to be better off without him.
2006-11-02 18:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to protect yourself by staying away from him, sexually. It may not be that easy depending on your culture, but your only option at this point is to leave him.
I don't know if at this stage counselling will help, to be honest, and I also do not think you should sit by and take this kind of thing lightly. If you are afraid of leaving, contact a social welfare center or some of your own relatives and go and stay with family. This kind of thing is not the type of thing that 'blows over' - he obviously has some serious psychological issues and you do NOT have to force yourself to be part of his sick little circle.
2006-11-02 22:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest is what it is called and is against the laws of the land. Your husband is very mentally ill and requires extensive therapy. This therapy can be sought out now, or later in jail [prison]. Your husband has many issues to contend with and you need to get yourself into counselling to weather the storm yourself. Your whole family is infected by your husband's illness. You will probably have to create a crisis in his life FOR him to be motivated enough to get help and do an intervention. Seek out qualified help to coach you through this difficult time in your life. Good luck to you !!!
2006-11-02 18:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does the contract say ? If they both signed the contract , than it's a binding agreement between the two parties.
Case closed.
2006-11-03 03:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still wondering? do you think you belong to that kind of a nationality? Where is girls power? tell your husband that is too dangerous to have sexual contact with his blood relation because this are one of the reasons why there are high level of disability in the worrld. i dont know why are you still keeping the monster in your life because he is going to destroy you & arent you afraid of getting uncurable disease? Dont be a statistic & stand your ground and take action!
2006-11-02 18:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lorato m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm concerned that you started off with MY HUSBAND! Surely that should read my EX-HUSBAND!!
If not get the hell out of that relationship as fast as you can and take the kids too if you have any!
I would make sure that the whole family knows about it. That is just sick and disturbing......
2006-11-02 19:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by trishyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has many sexual relations with his relatives? Ew...if you can't answer this question for yourself then I dont know what to say. What the hell kinda family did you marry into?
2006-11-02 18:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Honey-Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you get out of that marriage. I don't know what might be going through their head, but it's wrong! I had a cousin that had his wife do that same with her cousin and nothing helps to get them away from having sex with their own blood relatives. It will end up in divorce.
2006-11-02 18:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by laranita82 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey open the door and run run as fast as you can. NO only is he a cheating snake in the grass but one without any decency. RUN GET OUT
2006-11-02 19:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the Police and then divorce the low life.
2006-11-02 20:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋