Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

please give some advice. especially ladies over 20years. u can even write an email. i am really troubled with this issue.be honest guys.

2006-11-01 22:13:58 · 39 answers · asked by dj lenp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend jo saw a wonderful poem here the other day and she said it was for me and it got best answer! i was over the moon about this and i just wanted to know if everyone has as special a friend as i do? she means loads to me and i really hope that other people have the same amount of joy brought to them as jo and i so often tell each other? We have often wondered as our friends do get us through alot!!x

2006-11-01 22:13:52 · 13 answers · asked by m 3 in Friends

Im sick of feeling like this, Ive like this guy for ages but only ever kissed him, (kissed him before he got a gf) he's got an on/off girlfriend and he only ever texts me when he's not with her. I get chatted up by other guys but am consantly thinking of the other guy. How can I forget about him and start dating other guys!

2006-11-01 22:12:10 · 15 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Singles & Dating

in few years im going to finish college and i got plans for my future .. but the problem is im going to marry a girl from another country because me and my friend are starting a company together there im going to live there for few years my family are ok with it as long as i get married to a girl from here then go live where ever i want ,, my father says i dont care where u live and who do u marry to finish college and do whatever u want to do..but i think he dont mean it .. my mom says no i want u to get married of a girl who i choise for u ( but we all know thats not gonna happen) lol.. rest of my family members say u cant leave ur mom/dad alone for years if u wanna get married to a girl from another country then bring her here .. i really dont care about what they say its not that my wife wouldnt come here its just I DONT WANT TO COME HERE .. i dont like living in the same city with my parents (alots of reasons)

2006-11-01 22:09:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have this guy friend that i've been talking to for about 8 months now.. we go to the same school and he hasn't noticed me before we started talking to each other. HE'S MY BROTHER'S BEST FRIEND!! and.. i've liked him ever since we started talking.. and i asked him if he liked me about a month into us talking.. and he said .. NO.. and i was crushed.. but what mad me more sad is that NOW HE HAS A GF! and i cried so hard when i found out. but he felt so sad and stuff that i was crying.. and all of a sudden he sed.. "i liked you". "but i didn't know you still had feelings for me". and i was like " i can't belive i had a chance!!!!!!!" and i got so sad..and now i sent him a love letter and i told his friend.. and his friend told his crush and his crush told his girlfriend!! (the guy i likes gf) and now it's all over their grade!! idk what to do anymore.. my saddness and crying doesn't help.
oh and btw.. the guy i like, likes me too.. even tho he has a gf.
he know's i'm sad because of it

2006-11-01 22:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have to present this topic in my college
please justify this statement

2006-11-01 22:08:43 · 20 answers · asked by kapil g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel hurt many guys don't want to talk to me anymore because I have a BF..Why?
It hurts after my male friends just disappear with no explanation after they realize I am in love with another guy. I don't know what I did to them except that they all said they could I am vermy much in love with a guy... and they all just vanish leaving me puzzled and confused especially after they tell me they could never be angry at me!

2006-11-01 22:07:21 · 14 answers · asked by alwayslookatmebaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband so much I certainly know that..I am happy with him.. But..when I do make love with him I do not ***.Yes...and why if he kiss me I dont feel the tingle feeling I used to feel with my exbf before? Its like I dont like to kiss him on the lips..He is bad breath though..Why is that?

2006-11-01 22:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by mean z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in bad bad situation...i came down to london to study...recently today i got a marriage proposer and my aunts forcing me to see the guy n she told me if the guy is educated and rich she will say yes to him..i am totally against arrange marriage n i love some one elz over the net and we both meeting this december in new years night..i dont know what to do...my parents are poor and i am totally depending on my aunt...on the other hand my guys frm canada he has canadian rights its just that his from another religion and my parents wont accept him...i am only 20 i dont want to marry now until m independant and educated...please HELP ASAD

2006-11-01 22:05:17 · 21 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Singles & Dating

Fellow ladies, I'd just like to ask for your opinions about what type of guys do you like or what characters that they have are attractive to you in terms of the following scenarios?

1. Appearance(without communication)
2. First impression (with limited communication)
3. After become friends

Also, what type of guys do you dislike in the above scenarios as well.

Thank you for your time. Really appreciated.

2006-11-01 22:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about two years ago i was in the most perfect relationship with this man. i think he was afraid of commitment because once things started gettin really serious he started to back off and we ended up breaking up. i was devistated. he was my first true love. he was the first guy that i experienced the way it feels to really love somebody. the problem is i am still really not over the whole thing. he is the first thing on my mind when i wake up and the last thing on my mind before i go to sleep. i cant shake these feelings i have for him. im afraid to date any other guy because im still hoping that he will come back to me. and plus i dont want to fall in love again and get hurt. does anybody have any advice for me? if so please share your opinions because id really like to know if this is normal. thank you

2006-11-01 22:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if given the opportunity...would you have one if your present relationship was over but things were too complicated to just leave. knowing that your other half would never know...? i just think that given the opportunity....all of you would give up your holier then thou attitude and go for it.

2006-11-01 21:56:56 · 51 answers · asked by canada grl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my mum is re-newing her wedding vows to my step dad next year and has asked me and my sister and her cousing to be bridesmaids.

The problem is i depise my mother ,we really truly dont get on at all.I left home at 16 and moved 500 miles away to get away from her .We cant be in each others company she even told me she didnt want me to go home this christmas .It really hurt .

But now she has asked me too be bridesmaid, i really dont know why !

I said yes to keep the peace but i really dont want to ,my husband knows the way she has teated me and doesnt want us to go to the wedding ,i really dont know what to do .

She even rubbed it in that my younger sister is her matron of honour ,my sis gets on with her ok but knows what she is really like but just ignores it to keep the peace .

I really dont know what to do ,i keep thinking of ways to get out of it .
I knwo i should be happy for her but i really cant be and really dont want to do it .

2006-11-01 21:55:25 · 17 answers · asked by bradderswifey 1 in Weddings

Im 19 years old and Im at a point in my life where I feel everything is falling appart. Im at university, working and caring for my rerally ill gran which is breaking my heart and to top it all off Iv found out that my boyfriend of a year is not to b trusted anymore. Because of everything that has been going on our sex life has gone downhill I jus havnt got the time or patience anymore. Is this the reason why hes betrayed me?I dnt know whether to hate myself or him. I was 2 hurt to have a go at him and Im not even angry. I feel ashamed and a fool. Hes begged me of how sorry he was and his friends assured me that he was only sleeping with these girls and nothing else and he thinks the world of me. Wer still together at the minute but I dnt feel the same anymore I feel numb, depressed and alone. Iv lost my appetite, my friends and Im thinking now its time to let him go. I cant trust him but I keep thinking Im to blame. Is it all my fault?Everythings such a mess.Please help.

2006-11-01 21:53:44 · 35 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

She is going to view some venues today and over the next couple of weeks.What questions should she ask at each venue?

Cheers

2006-11-01 21:52:14 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im a young women (18 yrs)
and have this guy(23) to fulfill my sexual needs
but the problem is i never get enough
im never 100% satisfied and now its becoming a problem
because im asking him for more and more.
cuz when im getting busy i want it after that at least 3 times more.
but sometimes its a lil
to much and he says that it hurts(when were having to much sex)
so what do i need to do cuz im tired of this problem?

2006-11-01 21:50:12 · 18 answers · asked by chiquente 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 21:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by charly 1 in Singles & Dating

He calls me a prostitute and tells me to go and live back on the streets, he tries to kick me and he also spits at me.

2006-11-01 21:49:16 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a girl i really like has sent me over 60 txt messages over the last few days telling me how she likes me and wants to get together with me but i dont think she really likes me coz every time were supposed to meet she never shows up or makes some excuse, why would she do this to me??

2006-11-01 21:48:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 21:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What should You say say to a completly unfamiliar girl(just Hi! hello relation) to ask her for friendship!!!!
Plz help Thanx

2006-11-01 21:47:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im Indian wife is Chinese. Im 60 & she 40. We have 9 yr boy. She started chatting on Yahoo a year ago & knows many young men. Nw she wants divorse. We r together si 18 years. This has disturbed my mind too much. I love my kid too much. She also loves him but
she gives more time to chating I give more time to kid. Kid loves both parents n feels that he
needs both parents. If I divorce, I can take care of my emotions very well I do not know
my kid's emotions whn he will be away from mum. Since two months, my wife is insisting for divorce but I am
avoiding, telling that the kid needs both parents. Im away from India since 30 years though oftenly visit India. In India, I have social support but life is much more easy
where I live presently. Im afraid kid can adopt a new atmosphere or not who is born and brought up here.
If I take my kid to India, I have no confidence if I can take
care of him very well or not. I need adv fm matured people
faced similar problems.

2006-11-01 21:47:32 · 5 answers · asked by La Kho Kho 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyway i think this is a phase because recently i have become more open and willing to talk to girls with whom i have never met and they seem to react nicely to it :) Anyway i went to a club the other day and there was this girl sitting next to me. I leaned over and said "hi, how are you" because she was sitting by herself and looked lonely. she looked at me, gave me a dirty look and turned the opposite way and walked off. The girl was not overly attractive and i felt like **** for the rest of the night. My question is, what was her problem? Did i do something wrong? Should i refrain from trying to communicate with the opposite sex?

2006-11-01 21:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating

She was really hot and totally wanted it. We made out when her folks were out for a party or something. After everything I found out that she was 14! What should I do. I really didnt know at all. She didnt look it or even act it. Help.

2006-11-01 21:46:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 21:45:24 · 23 answers · asked by Seeps 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me very recently that watching porn does nothing for him. Last night i found porn that he had downloaded over the weekend. He knows i dont like him looking at other women like that and i am so upset. Why do men need to look at a flat screen when they have a living and warm thing in their beds. Makes my stomach sick to think what he was doing while watching other women. We have had a very rough year and i thought things were going great but now i just feel like ****.

2006-11-01 21:42:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the sweetest thing your signifcant other has done for or said to you?

2006-11-01 21:42:01 · 16 answers · asked by heather_21_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 21:41:39 · 11 answers · asked by Nita 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, while at the Johnson County (KS) Courthouse, I looked at a brochure on domestic violence. As usual, the brochure was designed only to be read by women. It listed a number of ways to determine whether a woman is a victim of an abusive man. It said you are a victim if one or more of the items applied. Two items caught my interest.

Has he demanded sex from you?
Has he refused to have sex with you?

Is it my imagination or is this a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation? If she has an intimacy problem, physical or mental, and he wants to have sex, she's a domestic violence victim. If he has an intimacy problem, physical or mental, and won't have sex with her, she is a victim of domestic violence.

2006-11-01 21:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is in a relationship that is coming to an end. she says she is finding it really hard to convince her other half that it's over. i'm trying to help her but have run out of ways she can tell him to move on.
she fancies someone and is feeling that she she may have an affair..........should she?
i've told her to go ahead.
oh ya, she still lives with the guy and has kids with him, too.

2006-11-01 21:39:10 · 49 answers · asked by canada grl 4 in Marriage & Divorce