Im sick of feeling like this, Ive like this guy for ages but only ever kissed him, (kissed him before he got a gf) he's got an on/off girlfriend and he only ever texts me when he's not with her. I get chatted up by other guys but am consantly thinking of the other guy. How can I forget about him and start dating other guys!
2006-11-01 22:12:10 · 15 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks ??????????????? lol xx
2006-11-01 22:16:52 · update #1
i might b able to take ur mind off of him.
2006-11-01 22:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by ???????????? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tricky one!After u guy kissed, did u back off him?or were u totally clear about how u felt?Just wandered because,maybe he didnt think that you where that serious about the two of you 'together' and so moved on.
If he is on and off wit his girlfriend,maybe hes not sure about his relationship with her,maybe he is thinking the same about you!!
The only way your gonna find out is to ask him,thats the only way u will know the truth. It takes time to get over a lost love,so I wouldn't advise you go out and try to meet someone straight away(like on the re-bound)butmaybe try to keep busy,hang out with your mates,and kick back a little.If he wants you,he will come,eventually!!
2006-11-02 06:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Realise the truth! im really sorry to say that, as i have been in that exact place as has every other girl (and boy)!! But take up the offer of someone else...you never know, you may find that you find something there, even if it turns out to be a great friendship. I have alot of male friends and tend not to worry too much about being with someone when im single because of them. Also if this guy does really like you, when he see's you with someone else....it will drive him as wild as you are now!! if you do that though be sure to act quite sly about it!! trust me! get your friend to send texts every now and then! drop other guys or other dates in the occasional conversation when you talk to him, but dont boast! if he likes you, he will make a move and if you still want him do! but please, please wait until he dumps his other girl because we have all been her and we know it hurts.It will save arguments later too. good luck with your love life!X
2006-11-02 06:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just date another guys. Don't worry... It's normal to remember him because you love him so much. I faced the same problem also. But everytime I remember him I just think him as a sweet memories (painful also!) instead think that I love him so much. Sooner or later, you'll love someone else more than him. Good luck!
2006-11-02 06:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by ღSuzyneta Izziyaniღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just keeping you interested enough, just in case his on/off girlfriend dumps him like you should! Tell him to get lost and move on girlfriend! You will meet someone soon, and then you will forget all about this dude!
2006-11-02 06:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sheesh... from personal experience... TRY TO GET HIM. let him know exactly how you feel. That's how I got my girlfriend. Let this guy know that you're serious about him and either you want a relationship with him and if he acts shifty about it... move on, girl. Don't let some creep keep jerking you around. If you like him. Let him know. If he likes you something will happen, if he don't like you... you'll know right away. See what happens
2006-11-02 06:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your just going to have to do it. Nobody can flip the switch for you. Your the only one that move on. Your just going to have to put him behind you and proceed with it. Tell him to stop contacting you and start a relationship with someone else.>
2006-11-02 06:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's messing around with you girl.
show him that you're worth much more than him
forget him, dont think of him. everytime you think of him, just imagine he's probably shagging his girl - so he doesnt deserve to be in your thoughts
i am sure theres a nice guy out there for you who deserves your love and affection - dont waste time on this geezer
good luck :)
2006-11-02 06:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your last sentence.
Forget about him and start dating other guys.
2006-11-02 06:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by RRM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can forget about him by valuing yourself, respecting yourself and not settling for second best have some pride and thump him his not worth it find someone who will appreciate you x
2006-11-02 06:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by tixsy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why an on/off relationship with his g/f? He either is or isn't. He'll treat you the same - watch out!
2006-11-02 06:22:07 · answer #11 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋