I feel hurt many guys don't want to talk to me anymore because I have a BF..Why?
It hurts after my male friends just disappear with no explanation after they realize I am in love with another guy. I don't know what I did to them except that they all said they could I am vermy much in love with a guy... and they all just vanish leaving me puzzled and confused especially after they tell me they could never be angry at me!
2006-11-01 22:07:21 · 14 answers · asked by alwayslookatmebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this normal behavior..I think they should tell me the reason and I try to communicate with them but they don't answer me
2006-11-01 22:10:21 · update #1
I even thought they think i was chasing them so i told them I couldn't love them in a million years because i love this other guy so much!
2006-11-01 22:18:26 · update #2
Don't you understand? You have rejected them.
I don't understand how you can try to turn it around and somehow blame them for it.
2006-11-01 22:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alwaysloo, I can tell you, from the point of view of a guy, that you're not with the right guy. You should know this from the bottom of your heart. See, your true friend is among those guys you're missing right now. I don't really know why you've opted for this present guy, but he's certainly NOT your match, one way or the other. Please, be sincere with yourself and mend ways with the guy you really love - the earlier the better. Love should form the basis of your relationship with a guy - nothing else. You may contact me through my profile for further discussion. Cheers!
2006-11-01 22:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they are just jealous because maybe you spend more time with your BF other than with your male friends.
I am sure it is normal....
But you need to ask yourself...
Do you want to be with your male friends or with your BF?
because probably if you still hang onto your BF your male friends wouldn't come back, but if you leave your BF than probably your friends will show up again.
I know it is a hard decision but you have to choose one...
Who is more important and which relationship will last longer...
Maybe you could ask your male friends again....
Just try to communicate with them eye-to-eye...
2006-11-01 22:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a guys way of showing respect to you and your guy. Sounds to me like you had good friends. When you get a boyfriend that you are serious about guy friends most of the time will back off. They don't want to cause trouble or jealousy.
2006-11-01 22:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Evidently, these guys were just HOPING to be more than just friends. When they see you are really in a relationship, they of course, will back off! If that is not the case, then, it must be they are true friends, and do not want to cause any jealousy with your new boyfriend. That is something that i would just call respect for you..
2006-11-01 22:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
they dont wanna casue you trouble with the guy you love.
they are actually "being good friends".
YOU have to include your male friends in events because they're giving you room so that your lover-guy wont feel like you're attracting other guys. it's what they do. i dont belive guy pals are insulted by being guy pals. i just go out of my way to include a few pals in what i do. they usuallyask me if "its ok" and thats cute!
2006-11-01 22:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by samanthakhz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must understand that one of the most insulting things to most men is to only be good enough to be a "friend."
2006-11-01 22:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your bf jealous,,,
if so then who needs to deal with his imagination..
(if i am your friend)????
Most of my friends are women
and
when they leave me (when I am attracted to someone)
then
I get the impression
that
"if I am attracted to this person then my friends believe that they don't want to be around me"
that is what happened when I met and married what is not my ex wife.
21 years later she divorced me...
ya know,
NOW
I see that my friends were right.
if that is who I wanted they did good go avoid me.!!!!
.
.
hm...
.
what I learned
if i am in any relationship with a woman
then
I will keep my, particularly women, friends!!!!!
.
.
2006-11-01 22:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
many times thoroughly pissed off as you by no potential understand what you have unquestionably carried out (if something) Please notice this occurs to all men via all wimmin and keeps in the process existence... end of.
2016-10-03 05:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they talked to you as usual, their GF would find it offending, and that would result in another question here.
2006-11-01 22:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋