Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

i mean me and my boyfriend have been together a year now and i really love him with all my heart and want this to last a life time. how about youu will you ever forget that one day you were so happy you wanted to cry?

2006-10-31 05:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have a gigantic thing for almost any emo/punk/skater/nerd... is there something wrong with me?

2006-10-31 05:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf wants to go to a wva party with or without me with his guy friend. hes very untrusting and has NO good judgement when hes drunk. i threatened to leave him if he goes but thats not motivating him to stay. i even told him he can go to any other party but that one. i have a horrible gut feeling about him going with or without me. what shoukld i do. i want him to not go sooo bad. help me!!!

2006-10-31 05:09:32 · 15 answers · asked by snagglepuss731 2 in Singles & Dating

goes down on you for the very first time and when you want to return the favor...he says no....he doesnt want me to....We have been in a relationship for 7 yrs...and me and him have never given oral sex before....he said he wanted to be the first to give me oral sex...but he doesnt want me to give it to him???.can anyone explain that?

2006-10-31 05:09:28 · 16 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been together 6 yrs. and married almost 2. He never was much of a talker, but we rarely have a conversation other than what needs to be said. He doesn't want counceling, he thinks nothing is wrong. I have taked to him about his lack of interest, and he feels like I am attacking him personally. I have asked him if he wants to be single and he says "if thats what you want"
I don't want to go thru another divorce but I think about it. He is not mean, just not there. I used to try to show him affection, and he pushes me away. He is so distant, I feel like I am living with a stranger sometimes. It is weird, I never thought this would happen to us. I don't know if I should just "live" with him or leave him. I am not afraid of being alone. But I feel safe with him. What would you do?

2006-10-31 05:08:42 · 25 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so there's this guy that I met during the summer and he told me he liked me...the problem is that he lives in California and I live in Ohio. I just found out that he is going out with this midget from Cali ... but does he still like me?

(this is my friend who wrote this...not tessa)

2006-10-31 05:08:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 now and my sister is 18 but during our childhood and still to this day she is favored way more. She is favored more financially, and everything she does with her life they love but me completely opposite. I have had to support myself solely since 16 and they hate every decision I make for my life..and they aren't all bad decisions. I mean they hate my career(Im an accountant), they hate my fiance(he's great)and they think I had my daughter to young(just had her a few months ago) ( I thought only I saw it but other family members agree) How to confront parents on this? It hurts and is unfair but I dont know the best way to say it. I mean its not like Im a screw up so why such negativity to me. ( also forgot to mention when I say parents its my biological dad and stepmom, and my sister is their biological daughter.)
HELP! Feelings are so hurt!

2006-10-31 05:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by Jewelz 2 in Family

I dont want the "be yourself" or "confidence" answer. I want specific things you do that make you sexy

2006-10-31 05:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by zoey 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for about 7 months now. He has a job, but no car. However he does pay rent to live with his roomie in a house. We make about the same amount of money, but the only bill he has to pay is his rent $350/month... meanwhile I'm stuck with my car insurance, gas, and I am normally stuck picking up the tab..

Meanwhile, theres this guy I've met who is a total sweetheart, don't get my wrong my boyfriend is too. But this guy recently went to England to shoot a film with some friends... while he was out there he bought me this adorable necklace and now wants to take me out to dinner?

I've wanted to leave my boyfriend for a time now, am I wrong to talk to and see another guy?

2006-10-31 05:07:57 · 7 answers · asked by B.K. 2 in Singles & Dating

My x owed me $1795.00 in back child support. There was a period of two years where he did not pay. I was a single mom working 3 jobs, but managed to survive. Now the tables have turned I am making good money and he is not doing so well. I have recently forgiven him $1759.00 in back support and paid his light bill of $300.00. The problem is my daughter will go to college next year and I am wondering if I did the right thing because now I am not sure how I will pay for her to go to school. Any coments?

2006-10-31 05:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Radtech1996 4 in Family

Live together for 6 years, in our mid 30s - have ups and downs like everybody else. Have faced three times where she wanted to leave, but i've always believed in giving it your best shot before walking away, so its continued through those times. But each of those times also coincides with her finding a "special friend" for intimate liaisons. Sex life never really recovered after the first incident. So, NOW, I just noticed the series of calls on the cell phone bill, the closed door conversations, out all hours with her 'girlfriends', and the soiled laundry (ewww!). She is supported by me and has yet to have a reasonable paying/steady job. Give me a reason NOT to kick her to the curb?!

2006-10-31 05:06:29 · 57 answers · asked by LastStraw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He wants to protect all that he will "inherit" from his family.

We are both 20 years old, and I find it absurd to sign pre-nups at our age when our only assets are our cars.

Any suggestions! please!

2006-10-31 05:06:10 · 24 answers · asked by sex bot 2 in Family

He wants to protect all that he will "inherit" from his family.

We are both 20 years old, and I find it absurd to sign pre-nups at our age when our only assets are our cars.

Any suggestions! please!

2006-10-31 05:05:11 · 54 answers · asked by sex bot 2 in Weddings

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-31 05:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both very sensitive and defensive. We love each other, and have a lot in common, but we argue about something almost every day. It's mainly stuff like one of us takes something the wrong way, or accidentally hurts the other one's feelings. The next thing I know, he is talking about splitting up, because he doesn't want to ruin my life, or my daughters' lives. He said I was happy when I met him, and he feels like he has sucked all the joy out of my life. That is not true. I admit, we are dealing with some tough stuff (externally) that neither of us can really do anything about, but I am happy with him. Well, I have rambled enough, and I hope I can get some responses from people who have actually been where I am. Thanks so much!

2006-10-31 05:04:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

completed me.I found that my heart and mind where not insync.I let myself get caught up in "what the future will hold" and left my new love to go back to my boyfriend.Now that I am back, I find myself completely in love with new guy and only here with boyfriend to make him happy.I am 30 yrs old and feel like my life is a disaster.Do I follow my heart or do I stay and build a life that I know will be secure.I'm scared to make the wrong decision.B/f is 34, divorced 1x and is on the path to success,my new love is 31,divorced 2x and has 2 children.He has a good job and does what needs to be done. For me it is not about $,for you can love a rich man as well as you can love a poor man.I am just sooooooo confused and am in desperate need of some input. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-31 05:04:01 · 16 answers · asked by Mystery Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

i have known this guy for about two years when i was 18 and he was 22 me and this guy shared a kiss. which i had tingle from it and we slept together also. he asked me to brake up with my abusive boyfrind and he brake up with his girlfriend and said that i look very nice with .make up on. the thing is we stop all off this thing because he was me mum boyfriends son but on my 20 birthday he asked me to dance with him. when i was dancing he was watching me and also gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek.and he sometimes says hello but what done my head in today i saw he in the pub and he didnt say hello or looked at me. but he was talking to his mate at the time. unless he was in a funny mood i dont know or could it be because my mum she doesnt like him i dont know why i asked her but she hasnt told me and she didnt agree with me and him but his dad was fine about it do u think this guy doesnt fancey me any more ???i am 21 and he is 25

2006-10-31 05:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of you like a man with a deep voice? Something about that voice gets me going. I don't care what he's saying. Just as long as he keeps talking. I think I've been close to orgasm just talking to a man. Maybe I'm just nuts but anyone else like that?

2006-10-31 05:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by maricela m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a dilemma.

my gal suspects that i distrust her by posing another guy to test her if she might be interested in him.

she also wonder too, i believe, that i flirt with other gals.

i do have other female friends, but i took them as pure platonic friendship and my conversation with them is plain as bore. but they does like my company cos my conversation with them is always clean. perhaps that is why they find refreshing from other guys who seek them for sexual advances.

I like to talk with the gals cos i found that they have relationship problems and i hope that i can help them on this. i enjoy doing this as i know ppl appreciate my listening ear and i do hope they could marry faithful husband and not those who flirt or sweet talk.

how will u feel or react if u are me? gals or guys input much appreciated.

i am looking forward for a marriage with my gal and to be faithful to her and keep to marriage vow is something a cherished dream for me since i was 15, i am now 33. tks.

2006-10-31 05:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:01:45 · 24 answers · asked by michael s 1 in Singles & Dating

what is it that first attracts you to a guy. what is it that iniatilaly draws you into to a guy without talking to them or knowing them.

pls could girls/women around the age of 20 answer

2006-10-31 05:01:39 · 19 answers · asked by blu 2 in Singles & Dating

HE SWEARS THAT HE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WITH HER AND THE REASON WHY IS BECAUSE HE THOUGHT ABOUT ME. I DON'T BELIEVE HIM. THE POINT IS HE THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND HE PUT HIM SELF IN A SITUATION A MARRIED MAN SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN IN. I CHOOSE TO FORGIVE HIM. HE SAID IT WOULDN'T HAPPEN AGAIN. NOW MY PROBLEM. I DON'T TRUST HIM AND I CAN'T SEEM TO FORGET ABOUT IT. HOW CAN I WORK TO GET OVER THIS AND MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES, WILL I EVER GET OVER IT WILL I EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN? I WANT IT TO WORK FOR THE SAKE OF OUR SEVEN MONTH OLD DAUGHTER.

2006-10-31 05:01:11 · 22 answers · asked by DISILLUSIONED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we do it all the time at least twice a day almost every day but I still masturbate and fantasize about other men and having threesomes with my fiancee and someone else. by the way the sex with my man is great!!!

2006-10-31 05:00:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No disrespect, but I'm curious.
Ex: nagging, pet peeves, etc.
It may have gotten on our last nerves at the present time, but looking back, it made you laugh.

2006-10-31 04:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by Mary C 4 in Family

I'm getting married in November actually I have about 21/2 weeks to go, but I would like some ideas. My colors are a dark teal and white. what kind of decorations should i put around?

2006-10-31 04:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Weddings

2006-10-31 04:58:53 · 28 answers · asked by mita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in love with my long-distance boyfriend we have had this relationship for a few years now, we met before and spent time together, but live in diffrent places, recently he asked me if i would consider marrying him and i told him yes, but a couple weeks ago i started getting closer to someone i have been friends with for some time and this happened because my long-distance boyfriend cheated and confessed so i felt betrayed, was pissed because i had never had sex with anyone the whole time we were involved,

anyway me and this guy have been friends for a few years, and we started getting closer and eventually ended up in bed, it was not planned but it happened so quickly, i am wondering if i would be wrong to continue a romantic relationship with this friend or have sex with him again cuz it was great
i love my long-distance boyfriend very much, but cannot be sure if he is cheating again or not and and i don't want to be a fool

2006-10-31 04:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:58:17 · 20 answers · asked by saranjit k 1 in Singles & Dating

some one tell me please

2006-10-31 04:57:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating