if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
2006-10-31 05:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's obviously on to her pointless game and he's turned off to her .She is making a mockery of herself, she's pitiful, she seems to regret their break up but he's obviously moved on.....maybe u should to.
2006-10-31 05:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all women are very complex, yes we can act happy on the outside and be miserable on the inside. The whole tryin to get ahold of the ex...that could be a couple different things. But from the emails she sent him it doesnt look like she wants him back, just wants to see how he is doing, they were together a long time. Have you asked her about why she is doing it? You need to tell her how it makes you feel and if she cares enough about you she will stop.
2006-10-31 13:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by all_304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably still has feelings for him, but if he wont even talk to her maybe she did something really bad that ended the relationship, maybe she just wants some closure. talk to her about it, but dont wait around for her if she continues to call her ex, if shes with you she should be with you and not thinking about someone else. Maybe she just needs some more time. just talk to her
2006-10-31 13:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but after asking the same question 29 times, I think you ought to be ready for action. Don't do nothing.
2006-10-31 13:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋