people seem to hurt the ones they love, its sad but true, they take there anger out on there nearest and dearest.....cheers
2006-10-31 05:29:10
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answer #1
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answered by donua1022 4
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I am not saying it is right at all, we should all treat those we love the very best. However I think people feel somewhat safer venting frustrations on those they love because they are more sure that person will forgive them and continue to love them.
If this anger is shown in a violent or emotionally destructive way then I think there is some real problems that need to be stopped immediately!
2006-10-31 05:06:31
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answer #2
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answered by M C 2
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It's not a sign of hate just a bad way to deal with anger. a lot of times we get angry or frustrated about things and usually wind up taking it out on the people we love for no reason at all. You have to give your self time and you have to try to find away to vent your anger in another way. You have to let it out it's when you keep it in that the little things wind up setting you off and things turn into a big fight over nothing most of the time. I had this job that I hated I never wanted to go to work and I couldn't stand my boss and I couldn't say what I wanted to her for fear of losing my job of course so everyday I would come home from work in the worst mood and it never failed I would be such a ***** to my boyfriend for no reason and yell at my children for the littlest things. till I found away to leave my problems at work at work and eventually found another job which helped a lot. You have to use that expression they always tell you at every job that you have to leave all your problems at the door before you walk into work because what happens at home, at work, in the car, and at the store effects you and how you act to the people around you weather you mean for it to or not. Sometimes you need to just take a break sit back and relax just let it all go before you interact with others.
2006-10-31 05:18:23
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answered by Anonymous
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That's a very generic question. People are people. We all get angry or frustrated sometimes and sometimes our anger is "misplaced".
The term "misplaced anger" is used when for example.. I am mad at John because he didn't pick me up on time to carpool to work, but I actually express anger to Melissa, my girlfriend, even though she did nothing - because I am stressed out and frustrated.
It is fairly normal unless taken to extreme - everyone does it, just how often and how intense it is are the measures you probably want to use to see if you feel it is overboard.
2006-10-31 05:03:54
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answered by Al 2
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its not a sign of hate its a sign of love you take your anger out on the people closest to you
2006-10-31 05:31:35
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answered by krazykath64 1
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Yes, I think they do. It isn't a sign of hate, but of frustration and a feeling of low self-esteem. Most relationships experience this at some time or other, the ones that last are the ones where both parties are aware of the cause of such scape-goating and work towards stopping it.
2006-10-31 05:02:25
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answered by kiteeze 5
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Usually not a sign of hate. People take things out on people that they think will still like/love afterwards.
2006-10-31 05:01:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Usually when people take their anger out on a person, its because they lack self control. Sometimes its always the person closest to them that they hurt physical, emotional, or mentally. So you might wanna check that person out and ask yourself, Do I what to put up with this person uncontrolled ways. In every relationship should a line a respect always and its up to the individual to demand it.
2006-10-31 05:06:55
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answered by keepingitreal36 1
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You've heard the saying... "we often hurt those we love the most". I believe this is often true for the following reasons:
1) ... we have difficulty dealing with others or difficult situations so we go to the one we are most comfortable with and vent to them often hurting them.
2) ... we are insecure and "need" the other person's attention. When we don't get it we get angry with them.
True love is possible only through God (it is unconditional). We can't do it on our own power.
2006-10-31 05:07:27
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answered by Minneapolis Man 2
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In times of stress, people will tend to vent verbal anger towards those they are closest to. Its a release valve. Such is in the loss of a loved one. Your mate or partner my lash at at you. Its not because you did anything wrong, its just that they are grieving and you are their sounding board.
Big But Here! That does not in any way condone long term verbal or mental abuse and never, ever includes physical violence.
2006-10-31 05:02:36
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answered by Dog Lover 7
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Yes people do take there anger out on loved ones, It's true that you always hurt the one you love,at least thats what my hubby says
2006-10-31 05:01:36
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answered by grace k 2
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