Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I get my haircut at this hair school and shes a student and she cut's my hair...anyways I been there the first time she was asking me alot of questions not really personal and plus shes a hair stylist shes supposed to be outgoing...i went there the 2nd time and as she was calling my name and she saw my face shewas like smiling like she was shocked and said hey....she had told me something about...she saw my name in the list...i didnt really understand what she said (kinda mumbled or idk) anyways we talked a little only this time and she mentioned shes graduating in 2 weeks and i wa slike ur getting ur bachelors? she wa slike no from this school ....( i totallyforgot she didnt go to a college) then after taht it was quiet but i did ask what her plans were she was like u know idk im not sure...later on i asked her if she shops at this store i work in and she was like not really i was like well heres ad iscount she wa slike my bro shops there i wa slike yeah give it to him or w.e she said

2006-10-31 04:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boy friend just broke up. now heres the twisted part... he hardly tlked to me and he just did't act like a bf. so a while back he smashed his car up real bad, right? and he told me we should break up til he gets his new car... what would u say to him.... to get the point through that u like him still and want to make it work.... he still likes me too... (and if ur gunna put a nasty answer don't bother writing)

2006-10-31 04:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started going out with my ex-roomate. How we met is very complicated, but we have known each other for almost a year now and we just started to date two months ago. I know my heart belongs to him and no one else will ever love me like he does. Lately I have been going to his house and we make out and he starts to take off my clothes and we end up in his bed, but we haven't had sex yet. Is this wrong? I know when I finnaly decide that I am ready that he will be my first, but will he grow tired of waiting for me to make up my mind?

2006-10-31 04:56:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I don't need anything dirty...or anything too deep...just something that say, "I like you".
There's this one girl i like, i've joking around with her. She laugh or at least smile at my stoopid joke...I want something more than a joke but nothing dirty or deep....
So can u help me...
10 points.................................plzzz

2006-10-31 04:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright. to my question earlier (WHat to Do?) I have told friends when they have hurt me and felt like that I did it in a civil way. But everytime that I do tell them how they have hurt me or tried to take space from them, our friendships end. I am down from about 5 really good friends to almost none? Sometimes I feel like people cannot take the truth about life.-rambling.....
should I just be a fake person and a fence rider(soneone who acts like they get along with everyone-no opinions for themselves) or stand up for what I believe in and end up loosing all of my friends.

2006-10-31 04:56:04 · 3 answers · asked by helloworld 1 in Friends

This is what I am going to tell my "gf". I say it like that b/c she's been so distant lately and she is really torn up about what she wants. It's like there's two of her, one that loves me and one that refuses to love anyone. She has said before (we HAVE talked about this stuff) that her relationships always end up here, she ends up pulling away. Anyways, I am just going to tell her to take some time, but I want her to figure out if I am who she wants or if maybe she just has never found someone who is just right for her. What do you think? I really only want her to be happy and know we could never be happy if she's not. How long would it take some of you to figure this out? If it's any consideration, we've been "dating" for about 6 mos.

2006-10-31 04:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy the company of women; however, I fantasize about men and have acted on it some. It did feel good as far as pleasure goes but I don't like it with men because it made me feel disgusting and wrong. What do you think? Are there any women out there that I could have a relationship with that could accept that?

2006-10-31 04:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Drinking clubing and staying out late. Need i say more? when i checked the phone record she was calling this specific guy very late. But she says they were just flirting. I kicked her out I have two kids I feel I did the right thing any suggestions?

2006-10-31 04:55:32 · 15 answers · asked by Joey V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

barely spoken in the past couple of days and i am getting really stressed out. what do i do if he wont listen to me?

2006-10-31 04:55:15 · 21 answers · asked by karen w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 04:55:02 · 7 answers · asked by nana44_2000 1 in Weddings

for 5 1/2 years. how do we keep a relationship alive? We are on another level of commitment now as we are living together. how do I keep him interested in me? What exactly is a relationship supposed to be like? We seem happy - but I dont want him to grow sick of it.

what exactly does a man want out of a relationship?

2006-10-31 04:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I am playing "hard to get", but not on purpose - my man wants me to say I love him over and over. I am a very reserved person, i speak with my actions. Him on the other hand, he is very vocal. I can write better then speaking. I can express, better by writing to him (words flow easily). I am just a hopeless romantic. How can I open myself up to him, he always says that i judge him by asking questions. He says that he is "in love" with me and "wants" me. He is 35, divorced w/3 kids (joint custody), I am 28 a single mother..........what do u all think is goin thru his head, and how should i feel?

2006-10-31 04:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:53:02 · 15 answers · asked by saranjit k 1 in Friends

He always makes promises but never follows through and I don't think I should have to do EVERYTHING. I get tired too.

2006-10-31 04:51:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jules 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 04:50:47 · 26 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you find someone to share your life with if you do not go to the popular places to meet people

2006-10-31 04:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by just4me1165 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:48:52 · 2 answers · asked by Maria O 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend(I use the term very loosely here) and we have been together for a very short time. Its been kind of a whirlwind romance unfortunately plagued by great distance. She recently told me that she would be understanding of my "needs" due to the distance between us. What exactly does that sound like to you? Is that understanding or a lack of interest in commitment? (feel free to be descriptive because I am very confused at this point)

2006-10-31 04:48:40 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is my japanese professor, I told him I did not wanted to have sexual relationship with him, cause I was christian, He understood, but he wasn't too happy, anyways he is going back to Japan soon. I still kind of like him but he is not for me. I want to be happy with my ex husband he is willing to make me happy, should I quit japanese lesson, or should I continue taking it, if he is now my friend cause I warned him that if our relationship ever ends I didi not want to lose his friend ship. But if he sees my ex, would he get hurt, what will be his reaction , he doesn't seem to be agressive or too sentimental, but who knowss?

2006-10-31 04:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Maydelis M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on here ask were can i find a man,or were is my mr right,no offence ladies but just live yr life and worry not about having a partner in yr life it will all come soon enough

2006-10-31 04:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I get over my ex boyfriend? I was with him for only 4 months but I really liked him loads, and I still do. It's been 6 months since we broke up, so I know it is really pathetic. I have had other boyfriends since but I still really like this guy. Before he split up with me everything seemed fine, the week before he told me how much he cared about me, brought me flowers over and chocolates etc. But then the next week he said he had been thinking and he didn't want a girlfriend? Now he won't hardly even speak to me and the last time I did talk to him was when I gave him and his friend a lift home after a night out and all he went on about was some girl he got with that night?! I'm confused!

2006-10-31 04:47:27 · 12 answers · asked by hannahrarian 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 3 in Singles & Dating

they should be more indepent on themselves

2006-10-31 04:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by michael s 1 in Singles & Dating

What is friends with benifets i hear so many diffrent things about it. Is it ok to do it?

2006-10-31 04:46:52 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Friends

i used to do it almost daily. but now i thnk somthng prblm in it. bcoz almost all the religions says to avoid it to maximum.

is there side effectss or anythng lik tht to my body or mind?

2006-10-31 04:46:07 · 31 answers · asked by TOMY V 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married & have 3 boys. A 13, 11,& 6 year old. We have no family close by. My husbands freind brings his 5 year old play 6yr old son, while my hus(Rob). and Jeff hang out. Anyhow. Jeff said it would be ok if my son (Robert) could stay the night with Jaden the following Saturday. My son was thrilled. It was his 1st time ever staying the night with a freind. A week passes he spends the night, 7 had a great time. Jeff told Rob that he thought he heard Robert say something inapropriat.. He heard Robert Say to Jaden( his son) "Aww don't stick your weiner in my mouth" Of course he stopped him. But when I ask him about it he admitted it. I ask where he seen or heard it he said he had a dream about a girl at school and a bunch of other girls all stuck there weiners in this boys mouth at the same time. He swears he never seen or heard it ever, except the dream. He says he's been thinking about it alot. He knows now its wrong. I can't honestly understand why the dream. HELP!!

2006-10-31 04:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Ruthie38 2 in Family

i didnt think it was, because i never tried. but heres the deal. i met a dude from aus about 5 months back on myspace (i know iknow) and we get along wonderfully and in this time, we feel like we are very much into each other. we talk on the phone all the time, webcam, msn...ect. we have plans to meet and stuff. the reaosn i feel its possible is because we've gotten to know each others personality and arent so drowned in physical aspects of things i dont know, what do ya'll think?

2006-10-31 04:45:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 04:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by mcrlover862 1 in Friends