How do you become good friends with a guy?

Answer 1

be funny

Answer 2

From the beginning, there must not be any feelings of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. In other words, you may NEVER have sex with this guy!!! You must keep it cool, literally.

I will give you an example. I have a female friend. When we met, about four year ago, she was interested in one of my best friend. He is well off. But after seeing he was crazy, she wanted to see what I was about. I purposely told her I was in financial ruinings, though I was not, to see what type of woman she was. When she heard I had no money, the words "Next!" came into her mind. She was looking for someone to help her, and her five year old daughter, out of a bad financial situation. But she saw I was a good person who spoke the truth and recognized I was much wiser and worldly. We became friends, though I disapproved of her sexual adventures with an ex-boyfriend while in a steady relationship. And although I advised her not to do it she did not pay attention and went ahead to have sex with another guy because if was better then her present bo. It was not until after the act(s) that she began to understand that when I spoke she needed to listen. Her ex began to She began to call, text, and won't leave her alone after she screwed him. She trusted me from then on and realized I had her best interest in mind. We have been good friends up until now and we just celebrated her birthday. I positive I will be invited to her wedding next. Now she wants to find a good woman for me and doesn't like my ex because she thinks she treats me bad.

But the main points in the above is we never had sex. Sex will ruin MOST friendships, especially when one of the partners is only doing it for fun and has someone else on their minds who they are serious about.

Note:
When you like someone and believe that is the person who you'd like to live the rest of your life with, it is best to take it easy and get to know each. Have a courting phasse. Then, if and when there is compatibility that you start to get a bit more comfortable physically. The b/freind - g/friend phase, etc. But never to the "point of no return" until getting married. Doing this will provide a basis for a loving, long term, and very religious, holy union. And in the future, after being married, could you imagine the great feeling of pride, accomplishment, and responsibility you'd be demonstrating if you had a daughter who goes through the same thing you went through.

Think about this:

Anything good is almost never easy and anything easy is probably never good.

If you have any questions, or perhaps would like to elaborate on your particular situation, please let me know.

Good luck and good health.


Joey G.

Answer 3

be yourself on every level and in every way. you'll find a friendship with a guy is usually much better than with a girl. yourself ... and i mean, farting, burping, laughing at inappropriate things, being completely honest all the time and thinking up really funny things. it's the reason why most guys stays friends forever, they'll go through absolutely everything with their friend and dig them more no matter how bad it gets......guys dig a challenge, so mentally you'll have to show up. be well.

Answer 4

You talk to him, get to know him better. The key is to not be something that you are not just to try to impress him and get him to like you. Guys like originality and they like finding a girl that they can be themselves around. I say you talk to him and flirt (not too much). Also just be playful (show him that you are not so serious) nicely joke around with him about something. Just let things flow, naturally everything will follow. My advice to you is not to try too hard, jusy be yourself and if he cant accept you, then too bad for him because he is missing out on a chick that's really GREAT.

P.s. there are other guys in this world. =)

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

Hi, be yourself, call him on the phone ask him if he wants to get a soda. Don't put on heirs. Don't be pushy. Try to be buddies, at first. Have fun. Don't makefun of him because he does not make enough money. Accept him. Good luck!

Answer 6

hmm.. be friendly, talkative, nice,?
i do have a good guy friend. both of us are kind of talkative, talks about everything, always joke, hang out with him, just everything. both of us are like ( cat & dog ).. we often tease each other, but we know that we are playing.

Answer 7

Yes, One of my closest friends is a guy.

Answer 8

same way your good friends with a girl

Answer 9

do You actually think that it is possible to have a true friendship with a GUY? and You think that never ever such a thought doesn't cross his mind as to kiss You?

Answer 10

Try just talking to him. Friendships can't be forced they are a naturally occurring thing.

Answer 11

Show him your siamese cat