I think I am playing "hard to get", but not on purpose - my man wants me to say I love him over and over. I am a very reserved person, i speak with my actions. Him on the other hand, he is very vocal. I can write better then speaking. I can express, better by writing to him (words flow easily). I am just a hopeless romantic. How can I open myself up to him, he always says that i judge him by asking questions. He says that he is "in love" with me and "wants" me. He is 35, divorced w/3 kids (joint custody), I am 28 a single mother..........what do u all think is goin thru his head, and how should i feel?
2006-10-31 04:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE MIGHT HAVE A LITTLE INSECURITY PROBLEM AND JUST NEEDS YOU TO REINFORCE YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM. PERHAPS YOU DONT REALLY FEEL THE LOVE FOR HIM THAT HE FEELS FOR YOU.
2006-10-31 04:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way u should feel, first of all....if ur reserved and u show through actions and writing, let him know that...if hes really in love with u and wants u then he should be grown enough to understand all that...but just let him kno how ever u need to..even if its in writing...i understand where ur comin from cuz im the same way, and i mean, i would say just let him kno in some form that's how u show ur love for him or affection, and maybe try saying it...i mean, if u 2 are alone, at least u can get it out with out people looking or whateva u kno? but let him know, it should be okay....good luck!
2006-10-31 12:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too easy to get steamrolled into saying "I love you" to someone just because it is what they want to hear. You should take your time and you will know when the time is right to move onto the next step in your relationship. Taking on him and his three kids is a big step and you must ensure that you are ready for such a big decision in your life. Don't be pushed into it - You will know when the time is right. Dx
2006-10-31 12:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by davylat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe once you start saying it then it will become easy for you i use to be the same way writing poems and stuff now i open my mouth and tell him so he could know it's from the heart remember what comes out the mouth is directly from the heart.
2006-10-31 12:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write freguent letters / emails to him or prepare a love fiction for him ~ dont mention your name at the end. He will be very very happy to get those.
2006-10-31 12:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and write him a letter, explaining yourself eloquently.....
2006-10-31 12:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people play hard to get so do what you want
2006-10-31 12:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jonesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u fell
2006-10-31 12:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by tanky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋