alright. to my question earlier (WHat to Do?) I have told friends when they have hurt me and felt like that I did it in a civil way. But everytime that I do tell them how they have hurt me or tried to take space from them, our friendships end. I am down from about 5 really good friends to almost none? Sometimes I feel like people cannot take the truth about life.-rambling.....
should I just be a fake person and a fence rider(soneone who acts like they get along with everyone-no opinions for themselves) or stand up for what I believe in and end up loosing all of my friends.
2006-10-31 04:56:04 · 3 answers · asked by helloworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1st off - dont be a fake person...(even if you could) sometimes the truth hurts...but it needs to be told...if the people you called good friends are not there after something you said offended them - then they are not good friends...i am an outspoken personality as well, and i will tell it like it is - i call em the way i see em...some people cannot handle our honesty....(by the way, the best policy) so i say find friends with a more extended, more open mind, and be as opionated as you like...some people really like that so its not like its a bad quality to have. I have a few really good friends that know me well...they understand....
2006-10-31 05:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends, there are people out there who will understand you and like you the way that you are. no need to be fake! stand up for what you believe!
2006-10-31 13:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they aren't friends if they leave you when you tell them you are hurt. if you are hurt your "friends" should be there for you not leave you.
whatever you do don't be a fake person. fake people bother me.
2006-10-31 13:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋