for 5 1/2 years. how do we keep a relationship alive? We are on another level of commitment now as we are living together. how do I keep him interested in me? What exactly is a relationship supposed to be like? We seem happy - but I dont want him to grow sick of it.
what exactly does a man want out of a relationship?
2006-10-31 04:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep it hot in the bed room try some new things and be there for him cook his favorite dinner play hes favorite music play hes favorite movie just be hes friend as well as he lover listen just be youre self
2006-10-31 05:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, from your question I assume that you are a little young, but I think it was a bad idea to move in with him, especially if y'all have been off and on. In addition, the fact that you are even asking this question is an indication of an unstable relationship. The only way to keep a man interested in you is to just be you, and if that doesn't keep his interest then he is not interested in you, but rather what you can do for him i.e. sex, money, companionship, etc.
Your relationship should come naturally, you should not have to ask what it should be like. There should be mutual respect, open communication, love, trust, and comfort.
Just by you saying y'all "seem happy" you're not that happy, instead you are trying to hold on to the dream of the perfect relationship like the ones you see on tv and that's just not how it is, but that does'nt mean you should settle for less.
What does a man want out of a relationship? You. If you are giving him all of you and it still is not enough that means you should bail!
2006-10-31 13:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by rain_stars_clouds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly what you are talking about. I have been in a relationship for 9 years and the girl and I live together. Important thing is when you do decide to take it to another step is to give each other a little bit of space to be individual (not a lot). It is important that he gets to spend time with the guys every now and then without an arguement. It is also important that you spend time with the girls. I know a lot of girls who turned in their friends at this stage and the guys don't. It can cause a lot of porblems. My girl friend who I love dearly and she loves me as much if not more, sufficates me. It makes me uncomfortable and sometimes it is a little unbearing. Also,communication is important. Always allow yourself to communicate. Most important thing is - No Bad Days, try not to have a bad day affect your relationship. I took that approach and it has helped, but she hasn't. Also, remember a relationship takes work, I never stop working on mine, even though there are so many times I want to give up or find someone else. After every negitive thing I have done to her, I know I care for her deeply when I can look at her in her most natural state - sleep, watching tv, cooking, smiling - and it brings a joy to my face. If he truly loves you, he can never grow tired of you.
2006-10-31 13:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly what i am afraid of a guy i love getting tired of the relationship or me. But if he really loves you he would not get sick of you and if he is he should feel comfortable enough to tell you. You should go out and do things he likes to do a lot more then usual, so he is happy doing what he likes to do with the person he loves. good luck =}
2006-10-31 12:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't doubt yourself. After 5 + years together, I'm sure you have figured out what makes him happy. Stick with it.
2006-10-31 12:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him very tired, meaning much sex. Wear his a*ss out, and he won't have the energy or desire to stray. Frequent bl*owjobs, always striving to suck harder, go deeper.......lots of sex, often kinky sex......keep his c*ock happy, and it will be yours forever.
2006-10-31 12:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get married.
2006-10-31 12:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, DO NOT sacrifice your own identity. these are what keep us interested in the first place.
2006-10-31 13:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by shortbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want great sex
2006-10-31 12:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jonesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋