How can I get over my ex boyfriend? I was with him for only 4 months but I really liked him loads, and I still do. It's been 6 months since we broke up, so I know it is really pathetic. I have had other boyfriends since but I still really like this guy. Before he split up with me everything seemed fine, the week before he told me how much he cared about me, brought me flowers over and chocolates etc. But then the next week he said he had been thinking and he didn't want a girlfriend? Now he won't hardly even speak to me and the last time I did talk to him was when I gave him and his friend a lift home after a night out and all he went on about was some girl he got with that night?! I'm confused!
2006-10-31 04:47:27 · 12 answers · asked by hannahrarian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, distance....when u see him resist all urges to go up and talk to him, leave him alone...that's going to help alot...do things that u enjoy to get ur mind off him, as vivca foxx said in "two can play that game" "occupy your damn time." girl time is what it takes to get over anyone okay? trust on that. and you will get over him eventually. i would let him go if he's immature wishy-washy like that...one week he cares about u and the next he doesnt want a girlfriend? time, space, having fun in your own life will help u get over him...it'll happen sooner the less u think about it...Good luck.
2006-10-31 04:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already had someone else in mind when he brought you flowers a week before he broke up with you, the flowers were a way to ease the guilt. Guys rarely leave their girlfriend unless they are pretty sure there is someone else to take their place. If he is talking about other women in front of you it is OVER as far as he is concerned and he's not even interested in keeping you handy for ex-sex. I know it's tough when you are going through a break-up but trust me when I tell you, like all women you will eventually look back on this and wonder what you ever saw in him. I had six serious long term relationships throughout my 20s and 30s and I don't think of any of them as the "one that got away". In fact on the rare occassion that they cross my mind I feel slightly embarassed that I was ever with them!
2006-10-31 05:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by my2cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your hurting. From what you said he doesn't want a girlfriend, what he wants is many girlfriends. I can't tell you how to get over him, and no one here can. Everyone is going to tell you to do this and to do that to take your mind off of things. I wish I had an answer for you. I hope time will help.
2006-10-31 04:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with some girl friends and get over the guy! There are plenty other guys out there. Keep yourself busy. Try not to think about it, it'll only make matters worse.
2006-10-31 04:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like love to me. True love is the kind you can't shake. And he probably thinks of you as "just a friend" So, the only way to end it, is to try again. This time, get your heart back early if you don't think it'll work out, or dump him before he dumps you!
2006-10-31 04:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by bevey_jane263 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone in this world going through the same thing. me too my ex told me that she won't be dating for the next 2 years. guess wat she went back on her words. Anyway, this is what i told myself, since she is such a liar its good that we broke off. you never know what lies would he/she whip up next time. My suggestion, go out and make more friends, find a new hobby, get over him.
2006-10-31 04:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize that you are a needy person. you have become fixated on this one person who doesn't care about you or your feelings. you trained yourself to think like this, now you must retrain yourself to unthink like this. i'm sure you are a good women but sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isnt going to do much for your self-estem.....ask yourself this question... do you think this guy is sitting around thinking about you ???? P.S after 4 months he got what he wanted from you...
2006-10-31 04:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by smiley4822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he's not ready for a serious relationship and you are so just stop thinking about him and start thinking about stuff that are worthy to think about fine someone you are able to love a little and just hope that that love will get bigger
2006-10-31 04:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time.
2006-10-31 04:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can help, Hi my name is Brandon, and I would like to help, fill the void. S o my email is twista122005@hotmail.com.
Cheer up
2006-10-31 04:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by XgothXminsterXchildX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋