Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

2006-10-31 05:26:30 · 15 answers · asked by RiAnn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My GF and i have been together for 3 years and get along amazingly but when it comes to sex things dont always click.
In 3 years i have yet to see her finish. She is very self consious (yet gorgous) and extremely tenative. Sex is just plain sex most the time( no foreplay or extra caricular) which i have learned to deal with ( im all for it) but seeing a GF become frustrated because she cant finish is getting very hard. Recently sex hasnt lasted very long cause she cant keep "lubed" enough and wont let us use gel because she doesnt like it .. what am i suppose to do here? Its becoming a struggle. At first i thought it was me but than again ive never had this problem before her so it probably isnt..

2006-10-31 05:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by acezr2wild 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother calls me "Boret" but my true name is "Borat". Is it OK if I punch her? Is it cool?

2006-10-31 05:26:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

one truly serves God and the other partner doesn't?
I've heard that you need God in order to make your marriage work properly, which I believe, but open to other views or routes.
What I'm saying is if one were to truly serve God in truth and in spirit, goes to church and the other believes in God, but doesnt believe that they have to go to church to serve him, which can be true to a point?
Basically how does a marriage survive if one is trying to serve God, and they see that there is NO, Hope or NO way, NONE whatsoever no matter how strong their faith is in God that the other person will ever go to church or truly serve him as we are supposed to? Can u give me some other views besides Faith?

One partner strictly deals with Reality and the other with both.
How can that coincide with one another and work?
Any faith is welcome to answer, I'm open to all faith's.

2006-10-31 05:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Today is Halloween, so I can wear a costume / mask while asking out a hot girl. What do you think?

2006-10-31 05:24:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they think they can get away with doing more/ bad stuff?

2006-10-31 05:24:09 · 26 answers · asked by buttnut 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by joblo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by ANASTASIA B 1 in Singles & Dating

Like if you think your in love, or just been togather for a long time would you do it?

2006-10-31 05:23:53 · 28 answers · asked by darkcutie 1 in Singles & Dating

My visa just expired.My whole life is here now...I have a good friend of mine,who I really trust and I know him for 6 years.He offered me that he can marry me for papers.Everything would be easy but my boyfriend who I live with for 2 years also wants to marry me for the same reason.My boyfriend and I fight alot and we broke up many times.I love him very much but I am not sure that I can count on him for the next 3 years.He also doesnt approve me getting married to friend of mine.He said if I do that he will leave me.

2006-10-31 05:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

told you that you get her horny but you just start but never finish meaning that you get her horny but you don't do everything to make her have an orgasim

2006-10-31 05:23:07 · 25 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

If we hung out for a whole day together?

2006-10-31 05:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

20 y/o in college, this girl seems to like me (talks to me, smiles at me whenever we see eachother in the halls and stuff). She mentioned having a boyfriend that went to college, i'm confused at what to do??

2006-10-31 05:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is just really "in love" with me. He says that I turn him on, I act myself around him all the time (I am not trying to seduce him at all on purpose) but, he just loves my voice, how i speak with him, I am just a relaxed and calm person, at times he stops me and just blurts out "I love you" w/such intense and "i want you". At times, when i am tired, he plays with my hair and that helps me relax abit. (I can so see him, spoiling me). But, what am I doing, for him to be this way, its like a switch that has turned him on, I don't wear revealing clothing, but you can see - I dress very sophisitcated, if i ever dress revealing, it will be down the road and for him ONLY. I think, i have control of the relationship, then he does. and yes! NO SEX, till I want to have it (i just give pieces of candy to him, once in awaile, not planning to give up the whole candy store to him SOON, maybe 5-6 mos later. He is 35 w/3 kids (joint custody) and I am a single mother of one.

2006-10-31 05:21:03 · 7 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

its really funny beacause my bf and i were in a long distance relationship and i talk to him through phone or chat and once a week i visit him at his place. i just dont understand him coz everytime im at home and talk to him in chat or call him he sounds a little harsh he always tease me or sometimes tells me that he's dating (this, that, this,that) but i know that its not true, and he says that he doesnt love me that he love the other girl but everytime i ask him to visit him at their house he says yes and weird because he is so sweet.. i wonder how to deal with him? is he just being paranoid or what.?. (i cheated on him b4) thanks so much guys

2006-10-31 05:20:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a young child and I don't want to start up a big custody battle by setting the ball rolling. My husband walked out on us as soon as he acquired his indefinate leave to remain status from the home office(after one year and 6monhts in UK). It seems clear that he just me for a visa. He is not interested in his son and pays no maintenance. He has two children in Jamaica that he wants to bring to live in the UK. I am not sure if he thinks that the a divorce will affect their entry into the UK. I have lost a lot in this short marriage to this man and I just want to know if I can retrieve any money and stop him using his marriage to a british citizen as a meal ticket

2006-10-31 05:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I went away for the weekend to have some time to our selves. My sister wanted to stay with our kids so she could spend some time with them. I have a on-line casino game on my laptop, where I play for real money. I deposited $100.00 and had it up to a little over $2800. My sister asked me if she could play. And I told her yes, BUT if she started to lose don't lose stop when she was down $200. She kept playing and lost all of the $2800. I got mad and chewed her butt out over it. But My husband thinks she should pay me back for what she lost. I know she has had a hard time this year went through a divorce (Her Choice) And her ex has a new wife and a baby on the way, she is really upset about that. We also lost our Grandma just this month. I feel bad for what she has been through. I did tell her she could play but I also set a limit. She is 32 and old enough to know what she is doing. And is pulling dumb stuff alot lately. What would you do??? I am tired of letting her slide

2006-10-31 05:19:59 · 20 answers · asked by Kali_girl825 6 in Family

My uncle is turning 50 next month and I don't know what to get him. He loves fishing, he's into all the fishing sport, etc. He lives on a ranch with a bunch of dogs, pigs, chickens, etc. He's a very cool guy. I don't want to go to the ordinary of getting him clothes or anything along those lines. 50 is suppose to be a very grand age and I'm not sure what to get him to match the grand event. Please share if you can, thanks!

2006-10-31 05:19:15 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie T 2 in Family

i got a ten point violation for explaining to her that if she did this there were laws against kidnapping in this country....she was a school girl ....yahoo you have to get your head from up your @rae and actually read the question....you can take another ten points for this question i dont give a fcuk...up yours yahoo.......and when the voices in her head tell her to snatch a child and she does i hope you will be there for the prison visits

2006-10-31 05:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by michael b 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 05:17:40 · 9 answers · asked by saranjit k 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do

2006-10-31 05:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by down and out 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of my friends only date guys who have a nice car or something that can benefit them. Should you date guys just for material things, especially if you have nothing yourself.

2006-10-31 05:16:58 · 9 answers · asked by darkcutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:15:59 · 15 answers · asked by joblo 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me: if you were with someone who (you say) completly satisfied you (not talking about the wife here)... and you were completely enamoured with them....... would you break it off.... and try to stop the affair? (for him and I it's been over 3 years) I understand he's married and most likely never going to leave his wife or kids....... I have a good handle on that... I did tell him that by the time I'm 50 or 60 I want someone who will have time for walks in the park or time to vacation with me..... He mentioned that I could have re-married someone already and shouldn't waste my time with him......... what the heck happened? why's he slowly pushing me away?

2006-10-31 05:15:44 · 21 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

leave ur adi's here

2006-10-31 05:14:40 · 1 answers · asked by Gunner 4 life 2 in Friends

We have 2 teenage kids. We recently just completed the divorce process, so it is final. However, we keep spending time together. He stays at our house on the weekends and he says he misses the family life. It seems as though he is having a midlife crisis. i have been patient and am still very much in love with him. We get along good for the most part because all the accountability and responsibilities aren't there. The only reason I filed for divorce was because he said thats what he wanted and i needed to protect myself financially. People said maybe we can live together and get along better now that we arent married. Is that weird? I dont know that i can live like that with no committment. Right now its ok, because i am not dating or havent found anyone else, nor am i looking. Please give me your opinions.

2006-10-31 05:14:08 · 32 answers · asked by one80's chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it makes it fun and lighthearted at work.

2006-10-31 05:13:23 · 22 answers · asked by D K 1 in Friends

My friends often say that people often take their anger out on those who they love.

2006-10-31 05:13:17 · 16 answers · asked by saranjit k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:11:07 · 7 answers · asked by Roy M 1 in Family

My wife doesn't want it, but I'd like to stay, what do I do next?

2006-10-31 05:10:47 · 11 answers · asked by TimKo69 1 in Marriage & Divorce